I want to settle down (study) abroad, but my girlfriend doesn’t want to go abroad, what should I do?

I basically understand your situation. Everything has two sides. You can’t do everything by yourself. You can only do your best. You have too many confusions and doubts now, so that You are a little lost and don’t even know what you want. I suggest you have three options. The first is to continue studying abroad and wait five years to return to China and marry her. Of course, this will have certain risks. , the possibility of you getting together is very small. According to surveys, the success rate of long-distance relationships is very small, but your career will develop very well, and you can also gain other loves in the future; the second is to try to persuade her family and herself Go abroad with you so that you can be together and live a happy life. If you want to convince her family, it’s best to talk to them in person to show your maturity and reliability. Don’t always tell the elderly how much you love each other. Yes, this will only make them think that you are not mature enough. Tell me more about your career, your development situation and prospects abroad. The third option is to give up your career and return to your country to be with your girlfriend. This will hurt your parents' hearts, and it will also affect your career. Don't you say that you are a love-first person, but this can at least guarantee that you will be together. Together. Of course, I personally recommend choosing the second option. Although it is more difficult to do, it may be the most perfect. Everything still depends on you. Try it, brother. If the second option doesn’t work, it’s not too late to make other choices. As long as you Keep your mind clear. In fact, nothing is difficult in the world. Well, I hope you will be satisfied with my answer.