Look down on men, look down on women

It is an indisputable fact that the feudal dross of Twenty-four Filial Pieties is serious. Most of these situations are impossible or should not be done. In fact, whether a person loves his parents or not has nothing to do with whether he loves his neighbors, his people or his country. On the contrary, for the sake of narrow "filial piety", a person is likely to do things that harm others and benefit themselves. Are there few such examples in the history of China?

Children are brought into this world by parents, and parents have the responsibility to raise him. If parents can't afford to raise their children, don't make life miserable for no reason. It is wrong for parents to think that they have the right to blame their children for what they should do.

A child is an independent individual, and his personality should be respected. No one has the right to tell him what to do. The act of gratitude should be a real requirement in one's heart, and should never be acted on by orders. Gratitude is an educational process in which parents set an example in their daily life. Is it too rude, rude and vulgar to ask children how to do it in a reproachful and commanding tone?

Is it a transaction to raise a child and ask for something in return? Besides, as parents, how many actions do we have to express our gratitude? I am not grateful, but I often bite the hand that feeds me, and I am even more intrigued. How do children know to be grateful when they grow up? "

Motherly love and fatherly love of westerners are mostly unrequited love, mostly selfless love, unlike China's implicit snobbery, which is regarded as an emotional investment in life. People in China are desperate to have children, and the rebirth of a man without a daughter is an investment in providing for the aged.

Therefore, China people tend to be indifferent to children who are not their own, stay at a respectful distance from them, and try their best not to let adopted children know their real life experiences, because they think this kind of investment is not safe; Westerners, on the other hand, adopt other people's children, but treat them wholeheartedly as their own children, love them wholeheartedly and make selfless contributions. Even alien children.

The famous case of white Americans fighting for children with immigrants from China before is very telling. When China people have no money, they give their children to others (or even sell them to others) to raise them. When they feel it necessary to continue this investment, they hope to recover it.

It is hard for China people to understand why westerners take pains to adopt children of other races, and people are not afraid to know who and where their biological parents are when they grow up. They are not worried that the adopted children will turn their backs on themselves to find their biological parents, because they are completely selfless, and this is true love, unlike most people in China who regard having children as an investment for the aged. (Note: I'm talking about the vast majority, and I've automatically ruled out a few people with persistent conscience, including me. )

The phenomenon of son preference in China is extremely serious. Why? Because giving birth to a boy is a cost-effective investment, giving birth to a girl is a loss-making business, and giving birth to a girl can't give her a pension, which is a worthless investment. Abandoning or even killing newborn baby girls is very common in rural areas of China. When I was in the countryside, I often saw someone quietly kill and bury a baby girl. Tiger poison is not enough. In the field of love, the moral standard of most people in China is even worse than that of animals.

Lu Xun said: "Although the natural arrangement inevitably has shortcomings, there is nothing wrong with the method of combining the old and the young. He doesn't use' grace', but gives creatures a nature. We call him love. In addition to having too many children-reckless fish, the animal kingdom always loves its young son. Not only is it uninterested, but it even sacrifices itself, so that his future life will embark on a long journey of development. " It turns out that the only positive solution to the father-son relationship is the equal "mutual respect and love" relationship.

-Isn't this situation in China caused by Confucian filial piety culture? !

In addition:

Now it's because men and women have the same interests.

This is why there is "equality"

in fact

Like Emperor Taizong at that time, because of Yang Guifei, he was proud of having a girl and showed off his daughter everywhere.

Guess what?

The meanness of China people is that as long as the interests.

Even flesh and blood can be abandoned

Whoever has interests will have interests.

Both men and women

If women represent interests,

It's a man buried alive.

Remember this sentence: "Tiger poison is not enough. In the field of love, the moral standard of most people in China is even worse than that of animals. "

Obviously, your grandmother is among most people ~ ~

Let me add: Not long ago, an academician said, "You were unfortunately born in China." I think his original intention may be: Who told you that you were unfortunately born in China under Confucianism (inequality, rule of man and corruption)? In fact, China is China under Confucianism.