The child won't come back from immigration.

I think these are two questions. First of all, I have been floating in Beijing for 8 years, and I have a child without a Beijing hukou. Should I leave Beijing? That obviously should be. As for whether you want to go back to your hometown for development, it depends on where your hometown is and whether there is room for development in the future.

If you have stayed in Beijing for 8 years and have children, your hukou is still hopeless, then you should choose to leave Beijing.

If you have been married and have children in Beijing for eight years, but you still don't have a hukou, which probably won't solve this problem, then you should choose to leave Beijing. Yes, you should probably choose to leave Beijing, for your children, for yourself and for your life. Because there will be more and more problems in Beijing in the future, with the growth of children, the problem of going to school alone may make you feel tired. Whether there is a house or not, it seems that this city is not the final place to take root.

As for whether you should go back to your hometown after leaving Beijing, it depends on whether your hometown is a second-tier city.

In fact, if you leave Beijing, you have to go to cities above the second tier anyway. The best choice is new first-tier cities with more opportunities, such as Chongqing, Changsha and Zhengzhou. Compared with Chengdu, Nanjing and Tianjin, the housing prices in these cities are already too high. These cities are good in terms of employment opportunities, development space and housing costs.

If you have bought a house in Beijing, even if the loan has not been paid off, it is enough to buy a bigger house in these cities in full. For settlement, these new first-tier cities have more favorable settlement policies, and they still need to develop, so they are more eager for talents, and their children can be well protected and solved at school.

Although compared with Beijing, the medical resources and educational resources of any other city in China cannot be compared, I believe that with the overall development of the country in the future, the rising space and potential of these new first-tier cities are enormous.

What people should do in middle age is to be down-to-earth, and remember not to fantasize too much.

Nowadays, the trend of society is to gradually eliminate people over 35. Even though people's life expectancy is getting longer and longer, strictly speaking, 60 years old is not as good as old age, but the process of social development is getting faster and faster, and the thinking of a new generation of young people is getting faster and faster. Many industries are eliminating people over the age of 35, so if you are approaching the age of 35, I suggest you forget all your dreams when you were young. Reality is a necessity of life.

Young and frivolous, arrogant, we must bow to reality. It is not shameful to admit that you are mediocre and ordinary. But if you are 40 or 50 years old, life is awkward and the pressure is overwhelming, it will be really sad.

Beijing has struggled for 8 years without housing and hukou, and the gains are not great. The development prospect is not optimistic and there is no big income. In a high-consumption city like Beijing, it is difficult for a family of three to maintain their lives. It is better to go back to your hometown and get familiar with the environment, which is very beneficial to your development prospects. Choose better investment projects and strive to get more wealth.

I read many different replies to you. /kloc-came to Beijing in 0/996, and the eldest daughter was born in 2004, and the youngest daughter was born in 2007. I tell you from my own personal experience that children were born and raised in Beijing, and their living habits are already Beijing's way of life except that they have no Beijing hukou. They usually enroll in various interest classes, and their parents are busier after class on weekends. Children's primary and junior high schools must have corresponding real estate plots, and they must also pay social security and labor contracts for two years. In the second semester of the second grade, the teacher will advise parents to let their children go back to their hometown to go to school, because they can't take the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination without a Beijing hukou. Many of our students in Dabao also choose to go back to their hometown. Those children who go back to their hometown are miserable when they first come back, because they have learned different things and their quality is different. Our family immigrated to Hong Kong a few years ago because of the senior high school entrance examination. Now their two children are studying international studies in Shunyi. Personally, I think parents should make more efforts to let their children go to a good international school.

I don't like talking about children. I feel tired and need to rest and go home. This has nothing to do with Beijing hukou. The child's education is comprehensive, and you can't get a good education even if you put him in Beijing. Family education, social environment and children themselves are integrated. There are also bad schools in Beijing. As the saying goes, as you sow, you reap. If a child is a disappointing potato, you put him on golden land to grow potatoes. How many students are there in Beijing every year? How many children in Beijing go to Tsinghua Peking University? If you have the financial ability, there are ways to let your children learn and live up to their expectations. What is the difference between Beijing and other places? Without economy, ability and roads, children can go to any school in Beijing. What is the difference between Beijing and other places? A child who studies well can be admitted to a good school anywhere. Poor study is in a good school, and learning is also a crane's tail, which hurts self-esteem and is worse than in an ordinary school. Schools in many places outside are quite good now. Everyone wants their children to study well, which is impossible. The post-80s didn't do the best in education. That family doesn't want to expect their children to succeed. But there are several successful people, 90% of whom are different people. The three concepts of children's education are active, lively, cheerful and healthy. Don't those who drive their children to jump off a building and study crazily regret what they finally get? What is the meaning of education? Don't talk about children whether your parents are in Beijing or other places. Maybe many people don't agree with me. I'm just stating my point of view.

In Beijing, not having a hukou is a problem. If your financial strength is ok, the hukou problem is not so important.

For example, going to school, if you have real estate, then all primary and secondary schools can study in Beijing. Junior high schools can apply to private schools without taking the college entrance examination. The problem of going to school can be solved.

If the economic conditions are average, only the house (renting a house is also possible) and the primary school can solve it, then when the child takes the exam in the future, he may have to return to the household registration;

Considering the situation comprehensively.

Many people have started to separate because of their children and household registration. If there are relatively good job opportunities in my hometown, it is also a good choice.

True experience, I drifted in Beijing for 24 years, and came to Beijing from 1996 to 10, because the house was bought in 2007. Chengnan's fourth ring road is 800 square meters, and the freshman lives in 65 square meters. 20 13, 12 twins born in June, because my daughter-in-law can't watch it by herself, I have to go to work, so my parents have to come to Beijing to take care of their children. Later, the cost of living was high and the living environment was poor (there was a bedroom in the living room, and my parents lived in it). The child went to the hospital with a cold and fever 1000 times (without medical insurance). When he was more than two years old, his parents took Bauer back to his hometown (because Dabao was sensitive and attached to his mother). When Bauer came home, he ate well, played well, slept well, was polite and was in good health. He has hardly been to the hospital (his parents are in rural Henan and his father is a retired classroom). Dabao stayed in Beijing for another year, and it was not satisfactory. Think of the long separation of twins. I failed to take the college entrance examination in Beijing. After consulting with my daughter-in-law, I asked Dabao to go back (don't expect the points to be implemented, and don't expect the academic status to change). Daughter-in-law went back to Zhengzhou to buy a house with her savings and left an account (with her children's account). Later, my daughter-in-law did a dried fruit business in a market, with an annual income of about 65,438+10,000. Two children go to school in their hometown kindergarten (away from home 10 meters). Since Dabao came home, he is not afraid of strangers, and his personality is lively and talkative. He no longer watches adults play mobile phones like he did in Beijing. The younger brothers have a good time together and have a high enthusiasm for learning. Martial arts class and painting class. After that, I rented out the house in Beijing at a monthly rent of 4,000 yuan. Now I live in a single apartment with an annual salary of 10+. I went back every holiday and got my annual leave back. I took my children and daughter-in-law to travel by car, and I felt that life was much easier from then on.

From the bottom of my heart, if your situation is worse than mine, you should know where to go.

Why do you have to have a Beijing hukou? Beijing hukou is not directly related to the development of going home. If my hometown can develop well, why do I need a Beijing hukou? If Beijing is developing well, why do you want a Beijing hukou? Children can go directly to private aristocratic schools or international schools. If the development is not good, why not go to school in the children's hometown?

Why do they all come to Beijing? I really don't understand why I'm still tired. Rest when you are tired. Don't exchange human flesh for pork. I worked so hard to earn some money that I saved it all for the hospital. Is it interesting for such a person to live?

How big is the survival pressure of "North drift"? Never experienced, talking about life is not enough! r

After working in Beijing for 8 years, I am very tired both physically and mentally. Should I go back to my hometown to develop? r

As we all know, Beijing not only has the best educational and medical resources, but also provides unparalleled employment and development opportunities in other places. If you want to consider your future career development, of course, Beijing is more suitable and there are many employment resources.

However, in Beijing, astounding high housing prices, rising living costs and fierce social competition. People living here are under great pressure. Many people choose to live outside the Fifth Ring Road because the rent is too expensive. The time spent on the subway every day, three or four hours back and forth. In Beijing, the monthly salary varies widely, and it is the lowest working class. A monthly salary of 10,000 can be a little decent, and a monthly salary of 20,000 to 30,000 can also be very good, so now we should not only consider income, but also consider children's schooling. You can compare it from the following aspects (with the following pictures) and then decide whether to go back to your hometown for development.

I believe that after understanding with friends, classmates and relatives, this information is not difficult to know. Compare the indicators of the two cities to see which city is happier. In the face of too fierce social competition and excessive pressure of life in Beijing, it may be a good choice to go to other livable small and medium-sized cities.

I am a middle school teacher, and I have been in the graduating class for ten times. If the child does not have a Beijing hukou, return to the hukou early. Parents will go back to their hometown no matter how long it takes. Unless your children have poor grades, you want them to go to vocational high schools and technical schools. I am also a graduating class this year. At present, there are several students in my class who have not left Beijing, all of whom are particularly poor in their studies. Their parents are farmers who come to Beijing from other places to do small business, and they are basically only responsible for children's food and drink, and nothing else. Children play mobile phones at home at night and sleep in the classroom during the day. Therefore, if you are responsible for your children, you'd better go to Beijing to attend primary school and go back to your hometown to attend junior high school.