There are many marriages between Japanese brothers and sisters. Why do Japanese people like their first wives?

How do you say this? Japanese thoughts are still relatively advanced compared with domestic ones! Japanese people don't make fun of others' age difference, so it's normal for them to fall in love with each other. Older women know how to take care of others! Also lost a lot of girl's annoying temper! Japan is under great pressure, so I think it's ideal to find an older girl! It's said that Japanese women can't tell their age when they dress up! In fact, I also want to find a big girl of four or five years old, at least when she is mature, she doesn't need so much care!

I don't think any man would object to the first sentence, and the latter sentence is difficult to understand.

But a Japanese male colleague in our unit prefers older people because they are more tasteful.

Many behaviors of this male colleague are beyond our expectation.

When I was in Chinese Valentine's Day this year, a fraternity was organized in the park where the company was located, and many single guys from the company signed up, including Japanese male colleagues.

I just arrived at the social gathering place that day. Many young girls at the scene looked young and energetic, with online values, and looked at rows of long legs from a distance, feeling that it was not for nothing.

The only thing that is surprising is that one of the girls is a woman in her late 4s. Her dress style is very mature, with a tight white shirt, a hip skirt and a pair of black high heels. This dress stands out among a group of young ladies.

Most of the male colleagues in the group swept the woman and turned their eyes to other girls. Only the Japanese colleague never looked away and kept looking at the woman.

He turned his head and said to us in half-baked Chinese:

Did you see that woman? It's beautiful. I'm going to get her.

We were all shocked when we heard this sentence. This male colleague is only in his twenties, but he has a crush on a 4-year-old woman.

Everyone here looks like a question mark. Many young girls here are also beautiful. Why do you have a crush on her?

afterwards, under our stern pressure, he finally told the truth.

In Japan, men prefer older women. Why?

after many conversations, I finally know why. In Japan, there are many phenomena of "few husbands and old wives", and a quarter of Japanese families have the situation of brother-sister love.

In Japan, the more leftover women are, the more popular they are. This is just the opposite of the situation in China.

In Japan, there is a proverb that a wife is Yunnan Baiyao at home.

In the past, in Japan, men had to get married at the age of 15, exercise themselves early to become indomitable men, and go out independently and separate from their parents after getting married, which meant that Japanese men had to be masters of their own affairs early.

Therefore, Japanese men need a wife who is older than themselves and has more life experience to help them manage this family.

This tradition continues to this day. Long-term dependence has turned into dependence, and it is difficult for Japanese men to get rid of this habit.

A woman is like a flower in bud at the age of 2, delicate and charming at the age of 3, and sexy and mature like a blooming rose.

An attractive woman must be very popular, not only by men, but also by women. Compared with Japanese women who got married early, these leftover women have their own pride.

At this time, they have achieved financial freedom. With finance, they will have confidence and look more confident than full-time wives. This is a heartfelt pride.

this is also the key to conquering many men.

Besides self-confidence, there is also exquisiteness. Women in the workplace pay more attention to their makeup than housewives. Pay more attention to their own image, and those young girls, who have just entered the society, look a lot green, want money but have no money, and want no one, so it is naturally difficult to win the favor of Japanese men.

It is common in the world that children love their mother, which is not surprising. Every country has men with Oedipus complex, among which Japan is the representative. Oedipus complex is the most serious. Many men regard their wives as their mothers and enjoy the "maternal love" brought by their wives.

Dependent Oedipus complex, it is natural for children to rely on their mothers, especially for boys. Because of the lack of delicacy and carefulness of girls, their dependence on their mothers is particularly prominent, because the woman with whom children have the most contact since childhood is their own mother.

This has caused Japanese boys to naturally regard their mothers as imaginary mate selection criteria after entering adolescence, and subconsciously they prefer to find a maternal partner.

Older leftover women have their own advantages. They have some life experience and social experience that young girls don't have.

And these are the things that Japanese men lack most when they first get married. When two inexperienced men and women are together, life will become a mess. If a woman has rich experience, she can take the lead in life and guide her husband to avoid some wrong roads with experience.

As the saying goes, an old family is like a treasure.

this is the advantage of experience.

That's why Japanese men like to marry older women. What they need is a hostess who can help them take care of the house, instead of marrying a princess, and they have to think about how to make the princess happy every day.

if it were you, would you rather marry a young girl or a mature woman?

For such a deep topic, let me first say a shallow point: Sister-in-law love is popular in Japan itself, which leads to many sister-in-law love marriages in Japan. This is a positive correlation between the influence before and after.

It's not surprising that your female friend married your son's classmate in Japan!

Let me tell you two real reasons why Japanese people like their first wives:

In Japan, there is a very serious questionnaire, and the survey results show that "falling in love with younger boys is less stressful" and "being younger needs more care".

In a highly developed country like Japan, economic development brings women's independence. Compared with strong, macho men of the same age or big men, boys younger than themselves can make them feel more free and needed. Let's imagine, which makes you more comfortable, a man who asks you to do this and that, or a man who always coquets you and worships you?

We have all heard that Japan is a country that puts a lot of pressure on men. Under this social pattern, more and more young men tend to find older sisters who can tolerate themselves indefinitely, and the sisters are happy to take care of this "eldest son", so they hit it off and entered the marriage.

As a little sister, when a little brother approaches, I will instinctively resist, thinking that it will cause me trouble and I don't know how to get along with children.

Japanese women have a natural advantage in this respect. They have summed up a set of exclusive royal skills to get along with young men through years of groping.

1. Spoil from time to time. Don't think that coquetry is the patent of little girls. Old Japanese women talk about coquetry in the same way.

2. Carry through the AA system to the end. Don't think that you should pay for him just because you are older than him. Miss Japan clearly knows that this relationship should not define who should pay more money by age.

3. Occasionally show weakness and rely on him. Even a little boy has self-esteem. Many Japanese women don't want to control everything, so they know to show weakness when appropriate.

the above is the imperial art of my younger sister in Japan, and it is also given to our sisters and sisters in China as a * * * encouragement.

Finally, I want to say that with the development of society, the relationship between men and women is more and more out of the limitation of external factors such as age and economic foundation. Economic development brings more and more pure emotional world, and sister-in-law love will no longer be a social label. If more and more sister-in-law love begins to appear around you, congratulations, you live in an increasingly modern and open environment.

There are many brotherly marriages in Japan. Why do Japanese like the first wife? This view is wrong and misinformed. Most Japanese people don't like to marry their first wives. In any country, it is the best way to marry men and women of the same age or a few years apart. Men are still the mainstream of marriage, and women are still very small in the proportion of marriage.

In the old society of ancient China, men got married early, usually at the age of 14 or even 11 or 12, and the wives they married were usually three or four years older than men, while the young masters of rich families all had close-fitting maids, who were about three to five years older than the young masters, and their identities were future concubines. For example, in A Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Baoyu's eldest maid attacked people, which was the case, and the real attack was Jia Baoyu's.

nowadays, many men like to marry older women, and women are four or five years older than men, or even more than ten years old. This phenomenon is not only found in Japan, but also in all countries in the world, and it is also found in China, because the population base in China is larger than that in Japan, and the sex ratio at birth is somewhat unbalanced. By 22, men will be more than women. First, there are more men than women, and economic reasons.

There are more men than women, and the competition for marriage is fierce. On the one hand, the bride price of women is getting higher and higher, and no woman wants to marry men with poor economic conditions. On the other hand, women with good economic conditions are becoming more and more critical of men, and their marriage is delayed because of academic work, so they are generally older and can't find suitable men of the same age, because most men of the same age are married or have wives younger than themselves. In this case, Older women rely on their superior economic foundation, so they focus on the outstanding young boys who are much younger than themselves and have just left school and weak economic foundation. This is the main reason for the marriage of older women and younger men. This phenomenon is very rare in Japan, because most women in Japan are full-time wives and rely on men to support their families, so there is no problem of delaying marriage because of academic work. Second, the second reason why middle-aged women remarry after divorce.

this is also inseparable from economic conditions.

At present, the divorce rate in China is very high. The divorced middle-aged women are all older, all around 3 years old or above, and they have a certain material foundation after divorce. Moreover, women are in their prime of life at around 3 years old, showing a unique charm of mature women. If they have a house and a car, they lack a partner, but it is difficult to find a man of the same age. Therefore, they set their eyes on the little boys with weak economic foundation. Of course, this kind of marriage is still not stable, because women are more generous than men by more than ten years old, and there is no problem for women within forty years old. Once the woman is over forty years old, the aging speed becomes faster, while the man is still a handsome young man in his thirties, and the age gap is too big, which immediately reveals the disadvantages. Third, little boys have an Oedipus complex and like older women.

This accounts for a certain proportion in the marriage of older girls and younger boys. For example, in a single-parent family, the little boy lives with his mother and has become accustomed to his mother's care. Therefore, when he grows up, he will naturally want to marry a wife similar to his mother's, while girls of the same age or younger will be automatically excluded, and finally he will marry an older woman who is much older than himself and takes care of himself in every way. Fourth, the last point is that men who are ambitious and intelligent but have no economic foundation are excellent, young and handsome. The goal of choosing a spouse is that older and successful women can help themselves realize their ideals.

This kind of men pay more attention to career and material wealth, and don't believe in so-called love. They worship strong women in their hearts, and most strong women divorce because their careers delay their marriage, or because their careers lead to unsatisfactory marriage. The goal of this kind of men's mate selection is that these strong women with successful careers and bumpy marriages have roughly the same psychology as men and women. Successful strong women naturally like young, energetic and sunny little handsome guys. If you succeed in your career, you will find a desirable little husband, and your love career will be fruitful. It can be said that such a strong woman has completely stood at the peak of her success in life. This kind of marriage between big girls and young boys is rare, because successful strong women are too rare after all. In short, the marriage of Japanese sister-in-law is not very common. It is also a misinformation that Japanese people like to marry older women. At present, the marriage situation of sister-in-law in China is more than that in Japan, because most Japanese women don't have to go to work after marriage. The fact is that Japanese full-time wives are generally much younger than their husbands.

On December 5th, 2, Kimura Takuya, the king of Japanese film and television songs, and Shizuka Kudo, a Japanese singer two years older than him, finally entered the marriage hall and completed the wedding of the century.

At the same time, with Kimura Takuya's wedding, millions of female fans who like Kimura Takuya are so sad that they dream of falling like cherry blossoms, which is sad.

Kimura Takuya's female fans think that female singer Shizuka Kudo has robbed them of the most perfect and desirable male idol.

Even now, some reluctant "mom fans" in Kimura Takuya hope that Kimura Takuya will be single after the scandal. Helpless, Kimura Takuya and Shizuka Kudo still love each other as sweetly as they knew each other when surfing, and Kimura Takuya is particularly fond of Shizuka Kudo, now 51 years old, which makes these "mom fans" disappointed.

Kimura Takuya and Shizuka Kudo have been married for 2 years and have two daughters, and they are still as happy as ever.

In fact, it is not unusual for a good man like Kimura Takuya to marry a woman older than himself. For example, Ichiro Suzuki, the most famous baseball player in Japan, married a program host of TBS TV, who was eight years older than himself. Similarly, it also caused a "Ichiro whirlwind" in Japan.

In fact, according to the latest data, about a quarter of Japanese men in Japan have married women who are older than men, which is called "sister-brother love". Why do men who meet in Japan marry women older than themselves so commonly? The reasons are as follows.