The "Regret" Life of Harvard Girl Liu Yiting: What happened after she married a foreigner and gave up her nationality?

Around us, there are often other people's children who are obedient and sensible, and they are always talked about by teachers and parents. Let us accept the influence of example and learn from the power of example. In the 1990s, a girl became "someone else's child" in the eyes of most parents in China. This is Liu Yiting.

In China at that time, it was very rare and proud to be able to study abroad. Liu Yiting did it. Before going abroad, Liu Yiting said that he would repay the cultivation of the motherland and make his own contribution to the country's construction after completing his studies. However, after that, her life was not as complete as everyone imagined. After graduating from Harvard, she didn't go back to China. She gave up her China nationality and married a foreigner. Now she is an amateur.

A carefully cultivated life

Liu Yiting is a student of Grade 96 in Chengdu Foreign Language School. 1999, she was admitted to Harvard University with a full scholarship. Among the students studying at Harvard University, Liu Yiting is not the cleverest and the best, but she is probably the most famous. Liu Yiting is so famous, besides her excellent grades, another reason is that her parents have been promoting her education.

After Liu Yiting was admitted to Harvard, her parents wrote several books about how to educate Liu Yiting to enter Harvard, such as Liu Yiting, a Harvard girl, and Liu Yiting's learning methods and training details. Among them, Liu Yiting, a Harvard Girl, takes Liu Yiting himself as the protagonist, and tells the story of Liu Yiting's parents' educational methods and training methods for Liu Yiting since childhood.

The book describes that Liu Yiting's mother was not only strict with Liu Yiting in all aspects since she was a child, but also coaxed her according to her hobbies and used some educational methods to stimulate her children's learning potential to the greatest extent. These so-called educational methods did have an impact on Liu Yiting at that time. After the publication of this book, the brilliant educational method of Harvard has been sought after by countless parents. This book has also set a sales record of nearly 2 million copies, and Liu Yiting has become a real online celebrity.

Liu Yiting's father abandoned her and her mother since she was a child, so she lived with her mother since she was a child. Her mother regards children as the focus of her life and her education is very strict. I hope she can get into a good school and get ahead when she grows up. After her mother remarried, she still didn't relax her education.

Although the living conditions are not very good, she has never been stingy with her education. In addition to basic education, she also pays attention to the tempering of character. In order to exercise Liu Yiting's willpower, Liu Yiting's mother asked her to hold ice cubes in both hands for more than ten minutes, and wrote in her diary that she felt "little needles dancing on her palms". My mother often praises her. Unsuccessful girls will only be "unlucky". Only study will succeed in the future, and you will succeed on your own.

Since childhood, under the strict education and management of parents, Liu Yiting was finally admitted to Harvard University, the world's highest academic hall, which made countless parents envy him. Their educational methods have also become a model for other parents to educate their children. At that time, Harvard girl Liu Yiting was a popular book, and Liu Yiting became an example for all teachers and parents to ask their children to study hard.

Harvard University Auditorium

At that time, an article entitled "I'm going to Harvard to study economics" appeared on the front page of a certain media. This is an article about Liu Yiting being admitted to a famous foreign university. Once the article was published, the topic with famous schools' gimmicks quickly caused heated discussion. We all know that there is a girl named Liu Yiting, and she does well in school. At the same time, she was admitted to four famous foreign universities, including Harvard, and received a full scholarship from Harvard.

Everyone is surprised and proud of such an excellent girl. For a time, the media interviewed her and her parents in succession. Harvard Liu Yiting became famous almost overnight, becoming what parents and teachers call "other people's children". In the praise and envy of China people, Liu Yiting gloriously went abroad to study at Harvard University. When interviewed by the media before leaving, she and her parents repeatedly expressed their firm belief that they would return to China after their studies were successful and repay the motherland for training her.

This makes everyone know that Liu Yiting, a girl, has a very bright future and will definitely return to China to become a pillar of the country and make contributions to the country's construction.

In 2003, Liu Yiting graduated from Harvard University. His first job was in a well-known international consulting company-Boston Consulting. Soon after, he jumped to PepsiCo and later went to a hedge fund. The work didn't go well. She chose to apply to Harvard Business School, but she didn't succeed. So she chose to start her own business, but failed twice.

When studying at Harvard, Liu Yiting saw a different world and was influenced by American culture. She chose to stay in America after graduation. After two failed adventures, Liu Yiting married a white lawyer, got an American green card, gave up China citizenship and immigrated to the United States. Now she is a partner in a consulting company, which provides China people with investment channels in the United States.

For example, if you want to buy real estate abroad or your children study abroad, you can find such companies to understand the relevant situation. These companies basically serve the rich in China, and introduce a lot of capital from China to the United States. Compared with the infinite scenery in the past, Chinese people are highly sought after. For her who graduated from Harvard, her present life should be "regrettable". She didn't achieve greater success because of the harsh education from childhood, and she didn't try to break out of her own world in the United States.

Disappear from everyone.

When "Harvard Girl Liu Yiting" was all the rage, Han Han, who was only 17 years old at that time, was invited to participate in CCTV's Dialogue program. By comparing with Liu Yiting, a student role model, education experts tried to save Han Han, a "bad student" who dropped out of school. At that time, everyone thought that Han Han, who was "a naysayer", "deviant" and didn't like learning, would only be a flash in the pan and would disappear from the public in the future. A good student like Liu Yiting, who has received formal and strict education, will become the pillars of society and serve the motherland in the future.

However, more than ten years later, Liu Yiting, a Harvard girl who once vowed to serve the motherland, married to the United States and gave up her nationality, while Han Han kept writing and became one of the intellectuals in China 100 Grand Duke, which made people sad and speechless.

In Liu Yiting's diary when she was a child, she wrote that she would study hard and make contributions to society when she grew up. Nowadays, these ambitious promises have long been empty talk. Although this is a personal choice, it also makes the general public can't help but reflect on why well-trained children end up like this. In everyone's eyes, she is no longer that charming girl and a model for parents to educate their children, but now she is just an ordinary person who worships foreign things and flatters foreign countries.

Liu Yiting's admiration seems to have turned into a joke. How parents should educate their children is a very complicated problem, but we must not be eager for quick success. Everyone should imitate the success of others. Every child should have the right to pursue his own life. There are countless possibilities in life. We should not pay attention to one of them in a secular and utilitarian way.