How do you feel as a reader of Silent Confessions?

Hello! I'm glad to meet you here. I hope my answer is helpful to you. See your question: "How do you feel as a reader of Silent Confessions?" Later, I wanted to say that I borrowed this book just after I finished primary school this year. Reading is an uninterrupted thing for us all our lives. I believe everyone will have their own feelings after reading a book.

First of all, the story of this book describes a second generation of China who immigrated to the United States, married an American girl, moved to a small town in the United States and gave birth to three children. There is only one mixed-race family in this town, and the others are all white. The family is out of place in this environment, and the parents' growing environment and heart have seriously affected their children's growth. Children in such an environment, parents put all their expectations on one of them, and the children were overwhelmed and finally left. ......

Secondly, a large number of details and psychological descriptions in the book make readers feel at home. "Where do you want to live, where you don't fit in. You will regret it for the rest of your life. " This is what the girl's mother told her when she got married, like a curse. For their children, her mother wants to be different most, and her father wants to blend in with the crowd most, neither of which is possible. In the end, they have nowhere else to go except to move on!

Finally, I want to say that there is a saying in China that "I hope my son will become a dragon and my daughter will become a phoenix." But parents don't know how dragons fly and how phoenixes fly, so Jackie Chan can only be among the best in grades if he becomes a phoenix. Good in parents' eyes is the direction of your struggle, so many parents' ideals have been transferred to their children. "You have to do this. This is all for your own good. I have walked more roads than you have eaten salt. Listen to me, you can avoid many detours ... "These words appear frequently in the process of children's growth, but I don't know that children's thinking ability is getting stronger and stronger, and their rebellious psychology is getting worse and worse, which is counterproductive.

In short, it is no problem for parents and children to solve problems together. There are countless ways to solve problems and countless answers, but the time to answer questions is a lifetime. From children to parents, there will be many experiences and lessons, but remember to respect each other.