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Come out to see dad at 60

Tony's father and his grandfather immigrated to Australia from Taiwan Province Province, China in the late 1970s, where he went to high school and university. Tony is a China native who was born here for three generations. Although his family inherited the traditional culture of China, Tony's parents are more open in disciplining their children.

On Christmas Eve, Tony and his sister went to their grandparents' home to have a big meal with their parents. Uncle's family of four lives with grandparents. Tony, the grandson of his eldest son, is especially valued and loved by his grandfather. Asking Tony about his work and life is related to whether Tony is happy or not.

Grandpa asked Tony, "Why don't you go home after graduation and have a stable job?" It takes less than half an hour to drive more than 20 kilometers. "

Tony replied in a slightly coquettish tone: "Grandpa, when I grow up, I will learn to live independently. I'm renting a house now. Two years later, if the down payment is enough, buy a house. "

"Well, you are just like your father, clamoring to leave home early and live alone." Grandpa sighed. "It is a good thing for boys to travel independently from home. They should take good care of their health and don't work too hard. It's right to save money to buy a house, but they should also eat well. They still have to spend the money they should spend. Your father and I can sponsor your down payment. "

"Grandpa, thank you! But I want to buy a house by myself. " Tony is confident in buying a house. Buying a house is an important thing that China people want to do in their bones. My father and grandfather must appreciate his plan to buy a house. As soon as dad is happy, he will come out with dad.

"Tony, well done, you have a plan to buy a house as soon as you start working. Grandpa supports you to buy a house, get married and have children as soon as possible. I am a great grandfather, haha. " Grandpa smiled as if he was going to be a great-grandfather in a few days.

Looking at Grandpa's happy expression, all the elders present laughed, and the cousins winked at Tony, who squeezed out a smiling face in embarrassment. Grandpa obviously misunderstood Tony and was biased. Tony was afraid to tell the truth, for fear of ruining grandpa's interest, so he had to say, "Grandpa, you think too much. I want to buy a house, invest by myself, and don't want to get married and have children. "

Back to his father's house, Tony said to his father, "I ate too much just now, Dad, let's go for a walk."

"Ok, let's go." Dad looked at Tony and felt that Tony seemed to have something to say to him, thinking, it won't be because of the house, will it?

A cool breeze blew and Tony's father couldn't help shivering. It's still 35 degrees during the day, but it rains at night. Now the temperature has plummeted to 18 degrees. Tony asked his father to wait. He quickly went home and got two coats. They put on their coats and walked side by side.

They walked silently for dozens of meters, and Tony was still hesitating how to tell his father. Seeing Tony hesitating, his father asked him, "Tony, do you have anything to say to his father?"

"Dad, I have a boyfriend and have lived together for two years. We love each other very much and have a good relationship. I think it is necessary to let dad know. " Tony plucked up his courage and said it in one breath, then bowed his head and waited for his father's scolding.

Dad was silent for a long time before he said, "When you were 18 years old, you took your female classmates home to play. Are you serious now? Is it because of him? "

"well. /kloc-when I was 0/8 years old, I didn't understand. I learned it from others. Find a girl to fall in love with. I thought love was about boys and girls being together, but I found that it was not what I wanted, and I was unhappy. It was not until I met Leo that he fascinated me. His every move touched every somatic cell in my body. I realized that I was gay. Fortunately, Leo loves me too, and I feel very happy. "

Dad looked at Tony, his face was full of happiness, and his heart rolled like a wave, which could not be calm for a long time. It is hard for him to accept that his son is gay, but he has to accept it. He needs time to adapt.

"Tony, you are responsible for your own life. Sometimes people don't even know themselves. You've only been together for two years now, and it's not long. Plus, you are still young, just over 23 years old, and your mind is not mature enough. When Leo graduates and works, life is stable, and then decide, now you are hiding from the rest of the family. "

"Well, I understand. Grandpa can't accept it, can he?"

"Take your time, time can prove many things. If you really love each other, we will all bless you. "

Tony finally overcame it. Dad has no obvious objection, but it takes time to get used to it. Tony and Leo need time to prove their true love.