How many dads have seen Where is Dad Going? After 80, my father told me what he thought.

Mingxin said: In the first season of Hunan Satellite TV's Where is Dad? When it was broadcast, my child just turned 2. This variety show inspired me a lot, so I wrote this article.

Hunan Satellite TV's 20 13 finale "Where is Dad?" has been broadcast several times. Unexpectedly, I got praise from almost all my friends around me. As a Hunan native, I am inexplicably proud of it.

I am a young father born in 1980s. Speaking of being young, I'm actually ashamed. If I put my photos together with those of Jimmy Lin, I might think I am older than Jimmy Lin. This guy's beauty technique is really anti-human and anti-science. I still don't believe that he is the same age as Degang Guo.

What attracts me about this program is that it really resonates with me. It is obvious that he is an outdoor activity. All my friends know that I am an outdoor athlete. Although I am not a professional outdoor sports enthusiast, I must be a professional outdoor sports enthusiast.

Now this way of working is a bit divorced from life. Work is a part of life, but giving up life beyond eight hours for work is not worth advocating. We work for a better life.

If working hours occupy most of our life, then we should get in touch with nature after eight hours. Outdoor sports is a good way, whether it's cycling or traveling. Even going out for a walk is much better than spending most of the day in front of the office and computer.

Such a state of life must be superior to those who work hard. My job salary is not high, but my life has always been in a relatively balanced state. I have a relatively balanced life and work, and my life is relatively stable. Although there will be some unexpected disappointments, with a positive and optimistic attitude, many problems have been solved and have not brought great troubles to my life.

On the contrary, many people who are keen on work and neglect outdoor sports and even life itself have lost a lot. Although they have gained something, they are not satisfied, sorry and uncomfortable.

Money is precious, but life costs more. Today's computers, mobile phones and some new hand-held gadgets kidnap our normal life, just like opium, which makes us decadent, not good at communication and not good at discovering more beautiful things in life. This is a very dangerous thing. We have to pay attention to it, especially the education of children.

I once read a book written by Liu Lianghua, a former professor of South China Normal University. His name is New Parent School. He gave parents a lot of thoughts, suggestions and references through a large number of cases and his own experiences.

He said that a child who loves watching TV must have a guardian (maybe more than two) who loves watching TV behind him.

He's right. Children don't have much ability to distinguish right from wrong before they are underage or before they are in primary school. What he does most is to imitate everything he sees, hears and sees. Therefore, as parents, it is necessary for us to set a good example for the children around us. At the very least, don't do something that is not suitable for children in front of them, but do something or create some opportunities that can give children a good reference.

For example, outdoor sports, why do we advocate outdoor sports now, and why "Where is Dad going?". Can cause so many people to curse? I think the first point is that children, including adults, lack outdoor sports and are eager for outdoor sports. This program is very successful and I like it very much. The second thing that attracts me about this program is the parent-child arrangement. What attracts me most is the kind of father-son affection. Each of us has family ties, and there must be, but if we tell you that family ties are thicker than water, you may not think much. This time, the program group showed in such a way that a father traveled with his son or daughter without a mother.

At work, it is difficult for us to see a child's smile, so bright and naive. The child is over 2 years old, and I have a lot of contact with the child. I believe that among parents of my age, I must be one of the fathers who spend the most time with their children. I am willing to stay with my child because I love him. Of course, many parents love their children because their children have to work, because of various reasons such as reality, but I think this is an irresponsible performance. The baby was born to you and your wife.

It is a very sad thing to raise children and not teach them. Of course, I can't say how well I did, and I'm not a very qualified father. I have done many bad things since I was born as a child and now I am more than two years old. This program made me reflect a lot. The fathers and children of five families get along in different ways, which makes me learn a lot. In fact, there is no way for you 100% to learn the magic weapon, but every father's method will give you a new reference surface. When you get together again, you will encounter at least some of the same problems, so you will not be so confused, but will think twice before you act. After watching the program, you will find that you can get along with your children in this way and arrange so many parent-child activities.

There are still many places that attract me to this program. This program is not intended to be very popular, but it is enough for everyone to watch. It should reflect on itself. Can we also arrange an activity like this? Father or mother or parents can take their children to the seaside, desert and countryside to experience a new life away from the familiar environment.

Diversification is the future trend. What our next generation needs is not ours? Preach? What is needed is ours? Build? After all, children's opportunities to get in touch with society are greatly influenced by our parents. What we need is to create more and more relatively safe environments, so that children can fully understand the society, and then one day, when he becomes an adult, he will find that he can adapt to the society. In my opinion, all the purposes of our education are to enable children to survive in this society. When he has this independent ability, he can walk alone in society.

Next year, I decided to start my children's exploration journey, taking them to climb mountains, see deserts, see the sea, see rivers, go to places we have never been before, and don't just stay in one place to get to know each other. Over time, we will become narrow-minded and look on coldly. I haven't been camping yet. Now that the children are older, it should be a good idea to find a chance to camp.

In fact, our parents don't need to teach their children anything, they just need to know the world with their children.