How to treat the phenomenon of abortion for son?

What? I am not mistaken, because there are relatively few such things around me, which is really incredible. I checked the information and found that there are:

This? Ten times? Is the uterus too strong?

This is said to be the coordinate of Shanxi.

Guangdong? Is it really so patriarchal?

Examples of son preference around you.

When I first came home by bus, I heard my mother talk about my neighbor's house.

There are five daughters in that family, and the last one is a son. Then, all five daughters lived up to expectations. When they grow up, they build a new house for their parents and give them money. But the old man is ungrateful. As long as his daughter goes home to take care of him, he will find fault and scold until her daughter cries and kowtows to him.

But as long as the son goes home, he smiles all over his face, goes shopping before and after running, and gives all the money his daughter gave him.

However, at least not many times to have an abortion and ask for a son.

It seems that the more remote the area, the more southern it is, the more serious this phenomenon of son preference. Alas, why do women have to embarrass women? (

How to treat the phenomenon of abortion for son?

Seeing this problem, I thought of an interesting thing.

Our neighbor has a couple from outside, and the house is rented. I usually sell vegetables for a living. The family's life is quite tight.

Because they usually have more contact with food, everyone thinks they are not easy and often helps them. Later, when I got to know them better, I asked them, "Do you have children?" It turns out that the couple have two girls.

Life in my hometown was quite good. I have a good small business in the local area, and my life is relatively rich. But the old man said, "There are three unfilial things, which is the biggest thing." We must force them to have sons.

So later, as soon as a woman got pregnant, she went to find someone to do B-ultrasound. Once it is found to be a girl, it will be aborted. For this reason, they have had three children, so the woman's figure is getting thinner.

Later, the local family planning people came to the door, and they ran out to hide and insisted on having a son before going back. Even if you are punished for losing everything, you will not hesitate.

Everyone criticizes this man. But I don't know why this woman also said that she must have a son, otherwise it would be embarrassing in her hometown. I don't know how serious the son preference in this hometown should be.

Habitual abortion is caused by the woman's repeated abortions. The doctor said that if you miscarry during pregnancy, you may be infertile for life. The woman's age is no longer suitable for pregnancy and childbirth. With our relocation, I wonder how they are now.

I really can't understand the mind of such a person. Why do men prefer boys to girls? How can a woman, as the mother of a child, have such an idea?

what do you think? Welcome to discuss!

A husband friend, in order to have a son, the husband gave birth to two daughters and miscarried three times. By the fourth time, the exam was a boy, and he was very happy. He brings delicious food to his daughter-in-law every day, and her daughter-in-law is fat in vain. When she arrived, she didn't know what she had done. She wants to go back to her hometown in Wuwei, Gansu Province to have a baby and go back to her hometown. By the due date, she didn't go to the hospital and even found a midwife. I drove a broken van from the countryside and sent it to the town hospital. I went to the hospital and went straight to the emergency room. The baby was not saved, and the uterus was removed. The boy weighed more than 8 kg, and his family cried to death ... Later, because of his job transfer, he was not contacted for many years. Recently, I heard that he still wanted a boy, and found a woman outside and gave birth to a son. My former sister-in-law divorced somewhere ... woman, it's really hard to meet such a man.

Xin Yanyu: I heard a real conversation in a circle of friends a few days ago, which completely subverted my three views. Early in the morning, a friend heard two aunts chatting in a powder shop, saying that neighbors had beaten four children for five years in a row. I sent someone to Hong Kong for a blood test as soon as I got pregnant. If I find it's a girl, I'll abort it. I must have a boy, please. ! What century is this? Is this mother a woman? Never say that women in this society have worked hard in the future. What's more, they didn't have a chance to come to this world at all ... I feel very grateful to my parents for letting me come to this world instantly, and my brain feels a little confused. ......

This is a true story, absolutely not fabricated. How do you feel when you see it? A little scary? Incredible? ..... This moment caused us a heated topic.

My friend said that at that time, she didn't know what to say. Ignorant people wouldn't listen to anything, let alone strangers, but there were such things around her, but they were not so exaggerated. What nonsense is unfilial? There are three things, and the last one is the greatest. At that moment, I thought in my mind, this kind of person is the kind who has many sons who have no one to raise, or has a boy or likes boys. Most importantly, this woman is likely to be infertile. If her husband divorces her and marries another person, she will continue the endless cycle ... It is foolish to divorce decisively. It is foolish to spend so much effort to continue something that you know is wrong. Why not spend your energy to correct your mistakes? I can't just leave ... Mom, I'm a little dizzy, and I can't figure out what I think!

I really don't know why this woman worked so hard to get pregnant after three miscarriages. People think that she is healthy. There is a high probability that her husband remarried after infertile herself, and she was discarded like a rag. Do you really think of yourself as a tool to carry on the family line? Sincerely, in this ever-changing era, don't you cherish yourself? Then how can you expect others to cherish you? Think more about yourself and love yourself more to be happier.

In reality, women are increasingly insecure in this society. Especially with the promulgation of the latest marriage law, marriage seems to be more rational and realistic. Going out, there is a balance in the bank card, a key in the pocket, and the display of full charge or charging treasure in the mobile phone seems to bring us more security than having a man around us.

In fact, women are very concerned about their careers, looks and figure. This is far more attractive than being around a man to please him. Don't let yourself be trapped in daily necessities, vinegar tea, and have your own business, which is enough to make your family financially independent. At the same time, I have my own group of girlfriends, and I have an outlet to vent whether I am happy or unhappy. By the way, I will cultivate some hobbies, such as yoga, mountain climbing, flower arranging ..... and lead a relaxed life. This is also a good state. It's good to be with you. However, if the three views are not harmonious and there are emotional variables, you can maintain a decent life after leaving, no worse than before. In other words, after marriage, it is best for girls to keep the ability and courage to leave at any time.

Nowadays, illiteracy depends not on how many books you have read, but on whether the new three views are correct or not. If a doctor still prefers boys to girls, what's the difference between that and illiteracy? On the contrary, if a pupil is educated and has a correct outlook on life, he will be much more open-minded when getting along with others. This goes back to an old topic: to be honest, it is very important to get along with someone.

Finally, I quote Liu Yu's "May you grow up slowly" for everyone:

May you have good luck, if not, may you learn compassion in misfortune.

May you be loved by many people, if not, may you learn to be tolerant in loneliness.

Welcome to Xinyan.

Let's warm each other with words. ........

How to treat the phenomenon of abortion for son? I thought this kind of thing was extinct in this century, but it still exists around us.

This is what I know about Sister Li. Li Jie's home coordinates a rural area in northern Jiangsu, where every family has boys. Li Jie's husband and father-in-law are both engineering contractors. Her family is rich in the local area, that is, there are several houses in the town and two houses in the county. After Li Jie gave birth to two daughters, she was not calm because she didn't know what the third child would be like. She prayed to God and took medicine. The third and fourth children are daughters. She was a girl when the fetus was more than three months old, and it was gone. In those years, Li Jie was dark and thin, only 30 years old, and her face was dull. Later, I found an old Chinese doctor, and the couple took medicine to recuperate. This time, God bless me. The boy was relieved when the fetus was more than three months old. Now the boy is 6 years old, and Li Jie is taking care of three children at home, getting fatter and fatter.

Li Jie's situation is very common in rural areas or underdeveloped areas, because people there feel that there are no boys at home, which means that they are broken and can't hold their heads in front of others. Therefore, some families have been having children, which is the so-called "getting poorer and poorer" phenomenon, and people with better family economic conditions like Li Jie will not give up without boys. Sometimes when chatting, Sister Li will talk about the fact that she has lost two babies in three years and her body is still hurting. Every time I go back to my hometown, Sister Li always advises me to have a third child, and then tells me the secret of having a boy. In the face of her kindness, I can only smile, because our pursuit is different. Her sense of security comes from my son and my sense of security comes from myself.

However, I believe that with the increasing education level of women and the increasing openness of society, this phenomenon will become less and less, and people will not be so persistent about the gender of their children!

Another family gave birth to more children, three daughters died and two sons and two daughters were supported. One of the daughters is often beaten by her parents. When she grew up, she got married and never went back to see her parents. Once, this man came home from the market and was carrying a backpack by the river at night. Three children wanted to help him carry it. As a result, I got sick when I got home, and I have been sick for a long time.

In fact, there was no one by the river at that time. Some people say that his three daughters came back for revenge. Of course, this is superstition, but I still think that people who have multiple abortions in order to have boys are not only ignorant, but also cruel. The fetus is also a living life, and it is life when it comes. You don't want your child to have contraception, but please don't end the child's life mercilessly.

In addition, abortion is particularly harmful to women's health, and those who want to be husbands should also pity their own women. If they don't plan to have children, they will take the initiative to wear condoms. If a woman breaks down, it will do her husband no good.

2 1 century, it's time to change your mind. Boys and girls are the same. Please give birth scientifically, use contraception reasonably and stop abortion. Good luck!

Some people can still get pregnant no matter how much the uterus is damaged, and some people can hardly get pregnant even without abortion. This is what others call drought, drought, death and waterlogging.

I am the mother of type O blood, and I used to have palace cold. Every time I have my period, dysmenorrhea hurts. I doubt my life. From school to adulthood, the pain was once relieved by doctors prescribing several bottles of painkillers.

Dysmenorrhea relief is still an opportunity, an opportunity to fail in the college entrance examination. 10 years ago, I failed in the college entrance examination and had to study in a junior college. Poor family conditions gave up the opportunity to go to college for further study. In fact, I still regret this decision.

Later, I went to work in Xiamen, Fujian. At that time, the salary was very low, but maybe the body was too wet and cold. After staying in Xiamen for a year, I found that dysmenorrhea has been greatly relieved. Facts have proved that girls really protect themselves from childhood and don't touch cold water in winter. Not to mention touching cold water during menstruation.

Until I got married, I thought it was difficult for me to get pregnant. Sure enough, I didn't get pregnant for half a year without contraception. Later, I finally got pregnant, and I began to know something about pregnancy, knowing that type O blood would hemolyze. At that time, I was afraid that these bad things would fall on me every day.

Facts have proved that things are really eventful. I have experienced seeing red, morning sickness and hospitalization ... So, after all the hardships, how can I not cherish this child? ...

It is not easy for a life to be born from your belly. This kind of mother-child love really should not be easily missed because of gender. ...

People always don't cherish what they have and always chase what doesn't belong to them. Put the cart before the horse and regret it.

I already have two daughters, and I was chased by my family and friends for almost a year before I gave birth to three children. Ironically, the voice that forced me to have three children most was not my husband's family, but my parents' and husband's friends. Their reason is that my husband is good to me, to my children, to earn money and to take care of my family. My husband is really good to me. My mother forced me to have an abortion when the second child was found to be a girl. My husband married my mother, which means that the child is his and the daughter-in-law is his. He didn't say anything. Why can't we settle? With Bauer, I also regard my daughter as a treasure.

Now, under the persuasion of his friend, my husband also has the idea of having a third child, but he has never forced me. He is always afraid that the third child will be a daughter, and I will abort without mercy.

It's not that I don't like girls. Subconsciously, I think I am forced to have three children now because I have no son. My husband and friends suggested me to be a test-tube baby directly because of our two daughters. If the third child is a daughter, will it force me to have four children? I don't want another daughter. I don't want to get entangled in abortion because my third child is a daughter.

I also fantasized that if Sam Tai is a boy, I must let him learn Taekwondo and protect his sisters.

There are many things to do, I can't speak clearly in a few words, and my thoughts are very chaotic. I'm sorry

Some people say that the bride price should be abolished on the grounds that it is a feudal custom, and the bride price is to sell a daughter, not to marry a daughter. I don't think the bride price can be cancelled, but it should be improved. If the bride price is cancelled, more people will try their best to have sons, and fewer people will be willing to have daughters. The bride price has a certain effect on restraining the phenomenon of son preference. At present, the gender ratio is still seriously unbalanced, indicating that the bride price is too low and should be improved. If the bride price is high, fewer people will try their best to have sons. At the same time, if daughters get married and get a higher bride price as compensation, more people will be willing to have daughters.

A friend of mine married a big boss from five districts and eight counties in Fuzhou. The phenomenon of son preference in that place is extremely serious. She gave birth to two daughters, and she was pregnant three times. They are both daughters, so she decided to have an abortion. Twenty years ago, she wanted to know that both men and women had to be pregnant for five months before they could say that they wanted to induce labor, which was very harmful to their health. Finally, she got her wish and gave birth to a son, one year older than my daughter, born in 2000. She has a good life, lives in a big villa and spends all her money casually. When her son was ten years old, she immigrated to Canada. Last year, she went back to Fuzhou to take care of her sick mother-in-law. She told her classmates who were doctors that she was aching all over. The classmate took her for a general examination and found that she had advanced lung cancer. She immediately returned to Canada. Canadian doctors prescribed anti-cancer drugs, equivalent to mice. This is the only way out. It's really good.