Is it necessary to study abroad now?

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20 14 There is a hot article in the education pages of major media: "The sad self-report of a 5-year-old mother in China: Children must go abroad". The author mentioned that at that time, she interviewed the "International Department" of a public high school in Beijing, and every child firmly told her that she would go abroad in the future, to Britain, the United States and Canada ...

Although studying abroad is expensive, the market is still in short supply. It is particularly sad to think that my five-year-old daughter will follow the path of these children in the future: it is not that I don't want my daughter to stay with me, but that China education has become an evil force in my heart:

Why did you send the child out? Because my mind was influenced by evil. I'm disappointed in myself. I have no self since I was a child. I am disappointed in our culture, especially the political culture. For thousands of years, I have never understood the respect for individual values.

My generation accepted fate, but the children didn't recognize it. Children are similar to religion to me, and they are the only possibility to transcend reality and point to the future. I hope that children can build a happy and healthy personality and have a bright and warm psychological background.

When my daughter was a baby, I would cry in the middle of the night: how can her clear eyes face the complexity and filth of this world? Therefore, I constantly strive for what I don't have in my life, let her receive the best education, let her know what is individual, what is freedom and what is equality, and be a sincere and happy person who doesn't lie.

Our parents are the generation in China who have respected their children the most for 5,000 years, felt inferior in front of them and actively restrained their rights. We think that we are equal with children in personality, even if they are babies, we should use our rights carefully.

Some people say that I have no ego at all. In fact, I once had an ideal, but it was blown away by years and rain. Give up if you can now, compromise if you can, and get close to your ideal. Is to let children realize their ideals.

Countries studying abroad are similar, except the United States, Britain, Australia, Canada, Japan and New Zealand, but the reasons are different:

Studying abroad is to cultivate independent ability.

Ms. Huang, who works in a media company, sent her 17-year-old daughter to New Zealand to study a few years ago. At that time, my daughter's grades in science were not good, and her English and Chinese were quite good. In addition, the daughter is timid and has poor independence. Ms. Huang hopes that her daughter will go abroad to learn English well and exercise.

After all, when my daughter went abroad, she was still young and lacked self-control. Influenced by other students, she often goes out to play abroad, which delays her study. Ms. Huang specially flew to New Zealand to have a long talk with her daughter who finally finished her studies. Now, her daughter has returned to China to be a translator. Because of her good English and hard work, the unit leaders are very satisfied with her.

Going abroad with the wind: others send me.

"My relative's daughter was only in the second grade of primary school and was sent to study in the UK." Zhang Jing, a citizen, said, "I'm going to send my son to high school in England to enjoy a British education."

She introduced that at present, most students in private schools attended by their sons have good family conditions, and many parents began to study abroad when their children were in primary school. Zhang Jing said: "Almost all children's classmates have to study abroad. It seems that they are very upset if they don't go. "

Worried about children's college entrance examination: children's grades are too poor.

Mr. Ma said that sending children abroad is a last resort. If his son didn't get good grades and didn't want to go to a good university, he wouldn't have thought of sending such a small child abroad. His son is studying in an ordinary middle school with average grades. It is very difficult to compete with students from key high schools for those key universities. Moreover, Mr. Ma thinks that students studying in domestic ordinary universities apply for going abroad because of employment problems.

He said, if you work hard to get into an unsatisfactory school in the college entrance examination, it would be a pity to give up and go abroad two years later. Isn't that delayed? Therefore, he thinks it is a good policy to let children go abroad early. No matter what university he is admitted to, in the eyes of people nowadays, going abroad can always be gilded.

Parents' personal wishes

In order to let her daughter escape the severe college entrance examination, Zhou's father came up with the idea of letting her study in Australia. He has a good friend in business who can live there and be her guardian. Moreover, he felt that he had no chance to study abroad when he was young, and now he must send his daughter to study abroad when conditions are good.

Dad Zhou thinks that even if he sends his daughter abroad to study, even if he doesn't learn anything, his English level will definitely be different in that environment and someone will take care of him. The daughter thinks that her father has no confidence in herself, but she is not sure whether she can be admitted to a famous university, so she decides to let herself go abroad, which is a circuitous way to avoid the college entrance examination. Moreover, my daughter feels that going abroad costs a lot of money and is under great psychological pressure.

Immigrate through studying abroad

Mr. You, an executive of an investment company who lives in Nanshan District, Shenzhen, said that education is also an investment, and many people around him are prepared to emigrate by sending their children abroad to study.

So Mr. You's son has been in Canada since middle school. Mr. You also said that he was going to let his children finish their studies abroad, then directly find a job there, and then buy a house and land there. When I retire, I will also go there to support the elderly.

Is your child suitable for studying abroad?

Many young international students are full of excitement and curiosity when they come to a foreign country for the first time, but after this novelty, many children feel the loneliness and hardship of studying and living in a foreign country.

Many children can't adapt to local life and study because of psychological pressure, give up their studies or give up on themselves; However, some children accept the challenge of studying abroad. Studying abroad broadens their horizons and enables them to achieve higher development.

So what kind of children are suitable for studying abroad? How to avoid studying abroad blindly?

At present, the domestic students studying abroad are mainly college students and graduate students, and the market is relatively mature.