Documentary "The First Time in Life" (6)

episode 6: getting married. The lens focuses on China, Shanghai Pudong New Area Civil Affairs Bureau. On average, more than 1 new people register for marriage here every day. It is not difficult to register for marriage, just like getting a bank card, but it is not easy to make this decision.

"what is love?" Interview passers-by randomly as the camera comes to the street. Some said that they have heard of it and have never seen it; Some say, like fireworks; Some say, like wine; Some say, like a cake; Others say, like lotus, like grapes ... like fog, like rain and like wind. So, what do you think love is?

"Do you believe in love?" Continue interviewing passers-by. Some say they believe, while others say they don't. So, do you believe in love?

Bo Jun, Yun Yun, a couple of newcomers in Shanghai, were happy and excited when they got the certificate. The process of preparing for the wedding is very complicated and hard. Lulu's mother is accompanying them to choose wedding dresses and do shopping, among which there are many rules. Lulu's mother said, "I only have one request. There must be a set of Xiuhe costumes at the wedding."

with the revival of Chinese culture in our country. Now newly married couples will have two sets of costumes and a western-style wedding dress at the wedding; A Chinese dress. Very particular. Both sets of clothes are beautiful.

For the decoration of the wedding room, the two of them worked hard to create what they wanted.

Lin Zhenliang, Singaporean Chinese; He Jiameng, Shanghai Xiaodong, a couple of international newcomers. They wanted to get a marriage certificate from China, so they returned to Shanghai. When they finished the marriage certificate, they took photos in the licensing hall at that time. They were very excited and happy.

Xiao Lin came to Shanghai and saw that everything was fresh. Early in the morning, I accompanied my mother-in-law to the market to buy food. After coming back, I learned to cook with my mother-in-law in the kitchen. Although sometimes I don't understand what my mother-in-law said, I still watch and learn carefully. My mother-in-law likes him very much.

My father-in-law, too, is teaching Kobayashi how to get along with husband and wife: "Make girls happy!" Kobayashi nodded. "Don't worry about Jiameng. I'll take care of her." Kobayashi speaks blunt Mandarin and promises with his father-in-law.

Jia Meng's childhood dream was to hold a Chinese wedding when she got married. Now that I have found a foreign husband, this dream remains unchanged. When Jiameng tried on the Chinese gown, Kobayashi asked, "What is this?" Jiameng said, "Gua." Kobayashi said that he had never seen it and thought it was a cheongsam.

When the daughter gets married, Jiameng's father and mother have a lot to give up. Dad said, "How could my parents cry when they watched other people's weddings?"? Now at this time, we will have this feeling. "

On the day Jiameng got married, her mother got up early in the morning and cooked a soup for them-Five Blessingg soup.

the groom has come to pick up the bride. In order to open the door, Xiao Lin stuffed a big red envelope from the crack of the door. After entering the door, I have to perform various programs and undergo various tests. It is really lively. Finally, the bride can be picked up. Mother brings out Five Blessingg soup, and the two newlyweds eat it sweetly. The moral of the soup naturally includes the early birth of your son. Kobayashi said happily, "twins, twins." What a celebration!

Chinese wedding scenes, although the procedures have been simplified a lot, are still a challenge for the two newcomers.

In the children's singing and reading of "Guan Guan Ji dove, in the river continent ...", two newlyweds entered the wedding hall, and the wedding was beautiful and grand, which was perfect.

Xu Peng, from Xuzhou, works hard in Shanghai; Sun Wei comes from Xining and teaches in Kunshan, Jiangsu. After eight years of long-distance love, a couple separated from each other finally decided to get together and settle down in Shanghai.

Their wedding was decided to be held in Xuzhou. Sun Wei's parents also came from Xining. Between the wedding preparations, Sun Wei's father kept telling his daughter that he was almost in tears sometimes. This is especially true on the wedding day. This is the love and reluctance of the father to his daughter! The wedding was grand and warm, and it was very happy!

"What do you see in the other half?" The camera came to the street again for a random interview. Some people say that I value her beauty, others say that she is a character, others say that she values kindness more ... and even more, she says that the beauty of a man lies in generosity and responsibility. Is there your answer here? So, what do you see in the other half?

When watching this episode, it was all festive and joyful. Whether Chinese or western, weddings are festive and beautiful. In real life, it's real and trivial, it's getting along day by day, it's bit by bit.

Love is a long-distance running in stages, while marriage is a long-term jogging. We need mutual understanding, tolerance and support. Marriage is not the end of love, but the real beginning of love.

Marriage needs love, tolerance and responsibility. Marriage is the continuation of love. Love is romantic, and marriage also needs romance. It is your attitude towards life, your little sense of ceremony and happiness, and a necessary seasoning for your life.

how to run a good marriage life is a science that needs to be learned. Everyone's views on love and marriage may be different, but the purpose is the same, all for happiness. So we should cherish each other and love each other.

"The most romantic thing I can think of is growing old with you ....." Somehow I remembered this song-The Most Romantic Thing.

"In the twilight years, when you look back on your marriage, you will find that the love you promised at the beginning has become the companion of the present." This is the prologue of the sixth episode of Lang Yueting, the storyteller and actor.