Immigrant village Yaopin village

Giving birth to a boy is joyful and energetic; Having two boys is a headache for the rest of my life.

People in the city are like this, and people in the countryside are even worse. Shanhe parents is a difficult word to interpret. Li Bai's poems are hard to get to heaven.

There is a way.

First, change traditional ideas. Those who are good-looking and can earn money can emigrate to the county seat, buy a house and try to create conditions to attract girls. Birds know how to build nests and scatter flowers to attract the opposite sex, and so do people.

Secondly, parents change their ideas and let the boy come to the woman's house, and the marriage problem will be solved. Now that there are many only children, the woman is eager for a boy to come to the door.

And I have gained a skill, a skill, and I have eaten all over the world. No matter how ugly the boy is, as long as he has the ability to make money, beautiful women will catch a lot.

Poverty and bad environment are all excuses. In the final analysis, people can't do it.

There is a boy in my village. His mother took him out of the mountains and married a poor boy in my village. The boy didn't finish primary school. Because his mother is soft-hearted and incompetent, he can't protect the child. When the man was angry, he kicked the boy out of the house. The boy's master mixed a meal and borrowed it for the night. Very pitiful.

Seeing that the boy couldn't stay in the village any longer, the good-hearted people in the village asked him to go to the garage of an acquaintance to help.

The boy devoted himself to his studies, and after a few years, he became an able man to repair cars. In a few years, my wife got married, my children had a car and a house, and my father was very happy to have a boy family.

Destiny is in your own hands, you can walk by yourself. As long as you are willing to work hard, your daughter-in-law will find you.

This is a social problem, not only in one village, but also in many remote villages. Ask experts for answers.

As early as the beginning of 2000, a magazine pointed out that there was an imbalance between men and women, and there were about 30 million bachelors in China. Many people don't agree, and they won't stop until they have a boy. The first child is a boy. No problem. If the first child is a woman, there will be a second child, and there are many one-child families. Nine out of ten families in my village are boys, and they get honorary certificates and rewards every year.

In this cycle, it is a natural phenomenon that there are more men than women, which also causes the phenomenon that young men of school age can't find a partner and the bride price is high, which has a lot to do with imbalance.

In this case, if there are boys at home, we should prepare enough funds to buy a house in the city and a car at home. When you meet a matchmaker, you should take the initiative, don't be picky, and the right one counts as a positive result.

Fortunately, the family planning policy has changed in the past two years, allowing two children and three children. But the demographic structure will not change for a while, that's twenty years later. This decade, young people are still trying to find a wife. It's a long way to go, Xiu Yuan.

Nowadays, there are too many older young men in rural areas who can't find wives, which is really a very serious problem. Personally, I think it is difficult to solve by conventional means and it needs drastic medicine. I can try it from three aspects.

First of all, all unmarried young men from rural areas will emigrate to urban areas, and the government will provide low-rent housing. A few years ago, poverty alleviation was carried out in some mountainous areas, and all poor households in mountainous areas moved to cities and towns, thus solving the problem of a large number of poor people. At present, it is difficult for unmarried young men in rural areas to get a wife. A big reason is that they live in the countryside and have poor economic conditions, so few girls are willing to marry in the countryside. Now, the government has immigrated these unmarried young men from rural areas to cities, which can provide them with guaranteed housing and necessary jobs, so that they can have a decent life, so that they will not be looked down upon during blind date, which should help them find wives.

Second, local governments can take some measures to attract Phoenix. At present, a very important reason for the large number of older young men in rural areas is that young girls in rural areas have gone to work and got married in big cities. Local governments can take some measures to attract unmarried women to work and settle in the local area. For example, every three years when a girl works in the local area, the government will give her social security for one year, provide affordable housing when she settles in the local area, and get social security for ten years when she marries a local person, and so on. These measures can attract a large number of young women to return, and can solve the problem that a considerable number of local young men are difficult to get married.

Third, local governments can take measures to encourage young foreign women to get married locally. At present, many foreign women have married people from China. However, due to various reasons such as difficulties in settling down, working and social security, many foreign women have many difficulties in marrying in China. In addition, the channels are not smooth and opaque, and many criminals use these channels to cheat. If the local government can guide and standardize and do a good job in safeguarding the legitimate rights and interests of local married women, I believe it can also play a very good role in promoting local unmarried young men.

The above is purely personal. I hope everyone will brainstorm and work together to solve the problem of rural bachelors.

what can I do? I can't get many wives, so I have to work hard on my own. I'm afraid I can't find a wife when I have money. Work hard, young man.

This situation is really special. None of the boys in the village got a wife. I can guess that the standard of living there should not be high, and girls don't want to marry there. Only when boys go out and break out of the world by themselves can they change the status quo.

Doesn't everyone like boys? What should I do? Cold salad.

Strive to improve one's ability

Man struggles upwards. Generally speaking, if there are more men than women, the requirements for girls will be high. Put yourself in others' shoes. If you are a girl in this village, who can marry and find a better husband's family, and who wants to be poor in the village for life? The most fundamental thing for boys is to improve their abilities. People who don't have great skills should also have skills to settle down and make girls feel safe with them. A girl may not be able to cry in a BMW, but she can't cry on a bike.

This is a common problem in China, which has a lot to do with family education, growing environment and personality.

With the development of society, materials and technology have exploded. As a result, the distance between people is getting farther and farther, face-to-face communication is getting less and less, and more communication is through the network! Love and marriage have already become dispensable, with little influence!

All kinds of dog blood's views on love and marriage around us have repeatedly lowered people's cognitive lower limit! As a result, the marriage rate is getting lower and lower and the divorce rate is getting higher and higher. Because of love, marriage is dispensable and insignificant! If you can't, you will be dismissed, and the marriage system will soon die!

Not only men, but also more and more women. Material technology occupies almost all our time, so we have no time to fall in love and get married! Many people who have led to love and marriage have given up, which is not a necessary option in life!

Therefore, everyone should know how to follow the trend, and the marriage system is dying out. Everyone should know how to accept the single tide and don't always make a fuss. Singlism is the general trend, and no one can stop it!