Why do I always see girls only when sharing a flat? What should I do?

? When I was studying abroad, except for one time when I was an exchange student and lived in the school dormitory, the other times I rented a house outside. I have lived in four or five houses by now, some for long-term and some short-term. Live, share your personal experience here. Let’s first talk about the common bad habits that both boys and girls have. Since many bad habits are common to both men and women regardless of gender, we’ll just talk about them here. 1. Occupying the bathroom for a long time. I don’t know the situation in China. The UK does not allow more than four people to use a bathroom. Even so, if you imagine that four people have to use a bathroom during the morning and evening peaks, you will know how tight the resources are. It may be even worse in China. So at this time, if your roommate doesn't get up early or late at 8 or 9 o'clock, he won't come out for half an hour after entering the bathroom, takes a slow shower, washes his face and brushes his teeth, or even puts on makeup in the bathroom... Will everyone else have to stay outside the toilet and not be able to do anything? 2. Do not turn on the ventilation fan when going to the toilet, do not flush the water promptly after defecation, and do not cover the toilet seat after urinating. Since we are discussing a problem, let me talk about it. Nowadays, many people do not like to exercise, and their gastrointestinal obstruction is not smooth. The consequence is constipation. Over time, the smell becomes difficult to flush out, and it may even block the sewer. In this case, if your roommate doesn't like to open the window for ventilation or turn on the ventilation fan, the person behind him will have to cover his mouth and nose to ventilate and wait for a quarter or two before he can go in? Don't say it's a big deal, it's a big deal three times a day, and it can be very annoying. Men, the standard procedure before and after urinating is this: lift the toilet seat, pee, flush, and cover the toilet seat. Put yourself in another person's shoes. A girl is using the bathroom behind a boy. When she enters the door, she finds that the toilet seat is not covered. At this time, she should restrain the thought of "there may be some residue on the toilet" and cover the toilet seat with delicate hands... 3. After bathing Not cleaning up residue. This residue may be stubble, hair, or dust from rubbing. It's better to have stubble. If all the hair is flushed into the sewer randomly, it will get clogged over time. In the future, when the sewer service personnel come to your door, you might as well stand aside and take a look. What comes up in 1989 is a lump of black flocculation that is entangled and agglomerated, and that is hair! There are probably not many girls who don’t lose their hair. It can fall out every time you comb your hair. So just imagine how much hair will fall out when you wash your hair. Who is going to clean up at this time, anyone else? The most unpleasant rental experience I had was when there were four girls in the room except me. None of them knew how to clean up their own hair. In the end, they had to play a detective game to find out whether the hair in the bathtub/washbasin was black, yellow, or straight. It's whether it's curled or curled, to judge who didn't deal with the aftermath. 4. Personal belongings are placed randomly. This happens in bathrooms and kitchens. If you accidentally put your shampoo, shower gel, and cosmetics with their lids open, they will spill all over the floor. If not, I would argue with others and suspect each other: xx must have secretly used my facial cream. This bad habit will evolve in the kitchen: not washing the dishes or washing the pot after eating, using other people's dishes and chopsticks before they are clean, and not washing them after use. In the unpleasant rental experience I mentioned above, I lost three of my fresh-keeping boxes without saying anything. The aunt in the next room suspected that there was less milk, so she yelled all night. The next day, I found that she had taken everyone's milk. Marked with a scale. "Did I give you permission to touch my things?" Put away your own things, clean up used things in time, don't touch other people's things, and remember to ask for permission before doing so. Unfortunately, not everyone understands this simple truth. 5. Public facilities are cleaned haphazardly or even not cleaned at all. According to the conduct described above, if you find such a roommate, you don't have to expect him to be responsible for public hygiene. When you share an apartment, the hygiene of your own room is your own business, and the hygiene of common areas such as the kitchen, bathroom, corridor, and living room is everyone's joint responsibility. Now that you have come out to live your own life, is it appropriate to still think that everyone in the world is your mother? 6. Poor personal hygiene habits. Article 5: What I said is not accurate enough. The hygiene of your own room is indeed your own business, provided that the hygiene of your own room will not be so bad that it will cause trouble to others. I once had a roommate who looked clean and polite when he walked out. But when the door to his room was opened, there was a strong smell. This happened to boys more than girls. Isn't the air flowing? Why is it like this? I still don't know. 7. Excessively occupying public space. This public space can refer to the washing machine: if you don’t wash clothes for a month, the washing machine will run like crazy for two days when you start washing; it can also refer to the refrigerator: the four-layer refrigerated tower can be stacked in three layers, and there are a lot of leftover takeaways. , spoiled fruits and sour overnight meals; three layers of frozen food can occupy two layers, and steamed buns and bread are also frozen; it can also refer to the cupboard, the living room, or the corridor. My habit is that if I want to occupy the office space to place my own large items, such as suitcases and bicycles, I will first discuss with my roommates whether they can be placed, how many days, and how to put them. After everyone agrees, try to put it in a location that will least affect other people's use, and then take it away as soon as possible. I will not put small items outside at all, especially bathroom and kitchen supplies, but store them all in my own room or in the storage space assigned to me. Unfortunately, not everyone does this. 8. Always bring strangers back to spend the night or even stay for a long time.

We are all adults. When looking for roommates, the first thing to think about is whether you can sublet or sublet at will; whether you can bring others to live with you, whether they are of the opposite sex or the same sex, whether they are family members, friends or strangers. The rules should be set first so that some people's bottom line will not break their world view in the future. It's easy to say in the UK, HMO, only how many people can live in an apartment according to the number of people signed in the contract. Renting a house in China means renting a bedroom and paying the rent for one person. Good thing, seven aunts and eight aunts are here. It’s so lively that you can hear children crying at three in the morning. What should you do if you are a nine-to-nine office worker at this time? Or rent a bedroom and bring your boyfriend and girlfriend to live together. In the morning, you are still bleary-eyed, and you suddenly bump into your roommate’s foreign boyfriend wearing a bath towel to say hello to you. Suddenly you understand what the strange sound last night was. What happened... Then I was so sick that I didn't want to eat breakfast and went to school (yes, this is my experience). 9. Others.

This includes noise, pets, smoking, drinking, work and rest schedules that are very different from ordinary people, and hobbies that are very different from ordinary people... If you don't understand these clearly, how can you share a house? How can we share a house?