What is a formal marriage? What are the benefits of formal marriage? Is formal marriage the biggest scam?

Some girls think that formal marriage is suitable for her choice, and give four reasons, thus solving the pressure of being urged to get married, and parents don't have to be too sad for their daughters not to get married; Don't waste time on such issues as love and marriage, you can focus on your career and life; The boy is her best friend, and they have known each other for quite a long time, knowing each other well and making sure that the other is not a bad person; After she married her best friend, her property was independent, she didn't want children, and so on.

If these four conditions are met, do you think marriage is a reliable choice? Today, for these four reasons, I will fully explain to you why choosing a formal marriage is asking for trouble.

"Because formal marriage can satisfy parents and stop urging them to get married." Although you are married, parents certainly don't have to rush them to get married, but after marriage, they will still have children. Since you can't resist the pressure to get married, why do you think you can resist the pressure of parents to have children? Since parents will be sad because you are not married, of course, parents will be sad because you have no children. Then what should you do? So people see that formal marriage has not solved the problem at all. At most, it will only help you temporarily delay the contradiction with your parents.

"Because then, you don't have to waste time on love and marriage, and you can concentrate on your career and life." But have you ever thought that after marriage, the two families will inevitably visit relatives and friends, and return the courtesy, which will also take up her time and energy. She has to face another person, and there will definitely be friction and trouble to occupy the same living space with herself. Not only that, because she is officially married, her future husband will continue to associate with her new boyfriend and will also enter her living space. Before marriage, she was so easily influenced by blind date and parents. After the formal marriage, the number of relatives she has to face only doubled, and the strangers she will meet can't escape.

There is an old saying that "because a boy is her best friend, he knows the root and makes sure that the other person is not a bad person", which makes sense. No one can say that he really knows everything until something happens. She and her best friend have no experience of living together, so she doesn't know whether they can maintain friendship and tacit understanding under the same roof. And after marriage, this is the husband, not the roommate, and the roommate is really bad. We can still move away and break up, but the nominal husband has greatly disturbed your life and you can't get rid of him.

"Because two people have an agreement on the property of both parties after marriage, no children, etc." We regard this agreement as a legally binding and strict written agreement with the full participation of lawyers. So, what can you do if your best friend breaks the contract and wants to have a baby? If you make an appointment to get pregnant again, he won't just disappear. What can you do if he complains to your parents that you don't want to get pregnant, so they don't have children? Then this so-called agreement, the so-called trust, depends entirely on the other person's character.