Analysis of Japanese personality characteristics

The most striking feature of Japanese conduct is

not causing trouble to others

I heard the Japanese say that this is their life creed written into elementary school textbooks. This is the idea that has been instilled in Japanese people since childhood. I wonder if it is because Japan is a troubled island country with a large population and a small area. Therefore, if you want to live a decent life, everyone must abide by this ironclad creed. , otherwise it will be a mess. Therefore, in reality, once someone does not abide by this creed, he will be abandoned by the entire society

Positive meaning 1

1) An orderly society:

Japanese Etiquette and rules permeate every corner of Japan. When I first came to Japan, I was very uncomfortable. I always felt that too many rules created a distance between people. Nod and bow when friends meet, thank each other when husband and wife get along, and don't speak loudly in public places. Even when children cry, they are afraid of affecting others and are taken to a place with few people. All Japanese people are working hard to implement this iron law - "Don't cause trouble to others." I believe that all Chinese people who come here have a process of adaptation. As time went by, I gradually got used to it, and I felt more and more that it brought great convenience to life because everyone abides by the rules. For example, whether it is the station, the restroom or the supermarket, everyone consciously queues up in every corner of daily life. This kind of queuing habit makes the Japanese not confused at all even in the face of disaster. During the 311 earthquake, the Japanese still queued up to take refuge in an orderly manner. No one was fighting for them, which made it faster and more orderly.

Negative meaning 1

1) The human touch between family members is not strong enough. If you don’t cause trouble to others, you naturally don’t like others to cause trouble to you, so Japanese elderly people will never do it. Those who raise children and grandchildren will go to nursing homes when they are old. They will not let their children take care of them. If their family members are sick, they will not have to take care of them. There are only fixed visiting hours every day, and they do not need to stay overnight. Most of them will be left to professional caregivers and nurses. . Therefore, Japanese people generally don't like to have children now, because they feel that children are unreliable and it is not worth sacrificing their youthful years to raise children. Even if the government repeatedly introduces fertility incentives and incentives, it will not help

Positive meaning 2

The environment is good, the food is safe, and it is very clean

I have been to so many countries, Including Europe and the United States, Japan is the cleanest country. Japan often has an unobstructed view of the blue sky and white clouds. The city is quiet and comfortable. Sometimes I wear a pair of newly bought white shoes and walk on the streets of Japan for a whole day, and when I get home, it is still spotless. clean.

Because I don’t want to cause trouble to others, I naturally don’t smoke, spit, or litter. I have to say that the gap between Chinese people is still very large, especially in the economy. In the past ten years of rapid development, discarded cigarette butts, phlegm and garbage, dog feces and even human excrement can be seen everywhere on the streets of Shanghai. I think this cannot be concluded solely based on the poor quality of Chinese people. It is more about differences in thinking and culture. Chinese people pay more attention to themselves and their families, while Japanese people pay more attention to the general public and others' evaluation of themselves. In addition, China has a large population, a vast territory, and a relatively large gap between rich and poor. Everyone generally feels that it has nothing to do with them. I believe that with the development of China's economy, more and more Chinese will have the opportunity to go abroad and come to Japan. , advanced countries such as Europe and the United States will gradually improve their self-awareness and quality.

Negative Meaning 2

To make friends with the Japanese, you must learn to "read the air"

It is precisely because the Japanese practice "not to cause trouble to others" that they Often do not express their true inner thoughts. It's about obeying others "without causing trouble to others", but the inner unhappiness cannot be calmed down, and then... you know. To give the most common example, three friends go out to eat together, if the one who speaks first When a friend says to go to KFC, the other two will obey even if one of them wants to eat sushi and the other wants to eat ramen. OK, go to KFC. If you foolishly think that they want to eat KFC just like you, If you can't read their "air", you are screwed. If you do this a few times, they will stop playing with you. . Especially girls, they are even more sensitive and delicate.

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Generally For example, whether you are pretending or being hypocritical, this is the Japanese character. On the surface, you will definitely be 100% comfortable. You are simply the most important friend in her life. When you are still immersed in the thought that you have made When a good friend has a sweet dream, he has already blacklisted you in his heart, haha, of course it may not be so absolute, but when making friends with Japanese people, don’t be confused by the kindness on the surface, read more carefully Maybe you will find more about the other person’s air~~