Is it worth giving up your job and studying abroad?

Hello, I would like to share some insights with you.

Studying or working is actually for a better life in the end.

Have you ever asked yourself what a good life is?

You envy others for being able to study abroad, as if the label of studying abroad gives you an aura of superiority. Just like your beginning, 211, professional 8, average family, good income, these things are your label, and they are also your aura, your sense of accomplishment, at least it is envied by many people, do you feel that you have these? What about a deep sense of happiness? Just like if you get the label of studying abroad in the future, will you be able to feel stable, full of passion, and have a sense of accomplishment for the future?

In fact, you just want to escape your current life, right? Just like other people's travels, the essence is the same, that is, I must hold on to something in order to survive in this world. Maybe it's money, maybe it's fame, maybe it's the inexplicable superiority in my heart? The more we get, the safer we will be. Sigh... All the talk is really unconvincing. Let me tell you some real examples that happened around me.

I teach in an aristocratic school, and students who don’t study say something all day long: I don’t need to take the high school entrance examination, I want to study abroad, I don’t want to take the college entrance examination, I want to study abroad , your sister, you can’t even explain the tricks clearly, and you can’t solve a linear equation in two variables. The exit point is that I want to study abroad. It doesn't matter if I score more than 200 points in the college entrance examination, because I want to study abroad. You can do it if you have money, right? After going abroad, I post on Weibo Moments every day to show off how well I am doing. So what I hate most is hearing "I want to study abroad", haha. I asked them, will they come back in the future? Some said they came back to inherit the family business, some said they were immigrants...how many students envied them? Many wealthy families have a lot of problems, including divorced parents, mistresses, and mistresses. As long as they have money, the children can be taken care of. Teenagers are the age when parents are most needed. Many of them are put aside by their parents in school. Just one semester. So don’t envy those who can study abroad. Nowadays, many scumbags are studying abroad.

A friend of mine is from Guangzhou, 30 years old. His old house was demolished and his mother could even give him three apartments. He graduated from a prestigious school and his English is excellent. Work is fine too. I have never felt that he was happy. He lives in a flashy and utilitarian society every day, and life is meaningless. What should he do if he pursues so many things? Later, I resigned to take the postgraduate entrance examination, saying that I would stay in the university to teach after getting a doctorate. The university professor said that it was cool and noble, and that I would gain both fame and wealth. But the fact is that he is just looking for a place where he can feel at ease. Just like he decided to become a monk before taking the postgraduate entrance examination, the final essence is the same. Can his mind settle down in school or monastery?

Your current job is not so much that you chose it, but rather that it chose you implicitly, because your temperament and label are in tune with it. The marriage is a good match, and the same is true for your job. Even if you are currently holding a job with an annual salary of one million, you will still be worried about the future, just like if your boss is smiling and filled with happiness every day? Because I am afraid that I don’t have enough and I am afraid of losing it, I try my best to add more to myself. This is a disease. Few people will think about why I have such a mentality and why so many people in this society have such a mentality. Society is like a big hand that makes you have such an ideology without knowing it. Let’s get straight to the point of utility. No one can guarantee your future, just let it take its course. What is yours and what is not is already determined.

I like the saying "Life is so short, everything we do is wrong, so we might as well make mistakes." There are always people who will say that if you are still studying or starting over at such an old age, you will feel too old to read. It seems that if you sit still at home, you will never grow old. Just do whatever you want to do. You only have two-thirds of your life left at most. Don’t live in fear and anxiety. Even if I have nothing, I still exist in this world. My existence is this universe. The meaning of existence.

I am sorry to you, but also to myself.