Should I stay in Changchun or go home to develop?

I can see that you like Changchun in your heart, because you left without nostalgia. The fundamental reason why you feel "wandering" is that you don't have a single boyfriend at present, and you didn't feel anything when you were young. Now you want to settle down with age, that is, you want to have your own home. I understand you.

Tell me what I think: you lived in Changchun for seven or eight years, and your childhood and adolescence in your hometown are just memories. Your adult life was completely spent in Changchun, and you have completely integrated into it and become a part of it. If you want to give up completely and return to Hunchun, you may not feel anything in a short time. ...

We are about the same age and experience. I immigrated to Zhuhai before. At first, it was novel and valued everywhere, but as time went on, I realized that I would live in this palm-sized place for the rest of my life (Zhuhai is only as big as Changchun), and I felt more and more depressed and even suffocated. As a result, I came back. So far, I am glad of the decision at that time, although some people didn't understand it at that time. But my personal feeling is:

I think your situation is only temporary. I only found my current husband (25 years old) last year. There are leftover men but no leftover women. If the conditions are lowered a little, there will be a lot. At that time, I insisted on the principle that the house should be large or small, and it should be independent, and I could not live with my in-laws. People, no matter how tall or ugly, must really like me and really want to live. No matter how much money you have, as long as you have a stable income and people are not lazy and don't drink too much, hee hee. That's all. There must be a lot. Because there are too many single men in Changchun who are eager to find a wife and meet the above simple conditions. ...

Your contact range is too narrow now. Is your choice too small? Should we try our best to expand our contact area?

Everything will be fine, especially after you meet a man who really treats you, all your troubles will disappear in an instant, hehe,

I say this because we are the same age, have similar experiences, and want to say something useful and worthy of your reference, which has nothing to do with being inseparable.