People with different views don't need to say a word.

Working for many years, some colleagues rarely meet and communicate because of different departments. I recently changed my job, and I have a cooperative relationship with my colleague D. I didn't have much contact before. I just think he is a man of few words, thinking that he can work in one place, and everyone's life values should be similar. As a result, after a detailed chat, I found that there are really people who don't agree with me. I think it is unnecessary to say more.

Viewpoint 1: the usefulness of learning English

I am a long-term English learner. Even if you spend 5 minutes every day, you should read English, read English articles and recite a few words. My personal opinion is that even if you don't study abroad, you can communicate freely when you travel abroad. Colleague d's point of view is not to study abroad or immigrate to learn English. Why learn English? Besides, I don't need English for my work. It is a waste of time to learn useless things. Why don't you brush a few TV plays and play mahjong with your friends? Moreover, he is not prepared to let his children learn English, nor will he spend a penny more on learning English.

I am speechless. In my opinion, reading, learning English and exercising are all ineffective for the time being. Some research may be useless for the time being, but it may play a huge role in the near future. Before I was on a business trip in Beijing, I met a foreigner who couldn't find his way by subway, and everyone at the subway station was very anxious. He looks helpless by himself. Finally, he asked me how to get there with the Chinese address in the mobile phone WeChat, and I told him that I was not a local. But I can show it to him on the map, and then I can find the place he wants to go on the map and tell him which exit to take and how to turn left and right (southerners have a poor sense of direction in east, west, north and south). Say that finish also bother to thank you. I think it is useless to learn English at ordinary times, but it is also a very good thing to help people in need. Learning is never a useless thing.

Viewpoint 2: Going out to travel is just a show?

I go to a place for a walk every year during my annual leave, which is a reward for a whole year's hard work. I never go out on holidays. Basically, I travel at the wrong peak, with fewer people and cheaper air tickets. Occasionally I will send some travel photos to share my experience. Colleague d said that he never goes out because others go out just to take pictures and show off. In order to pretend, he said that going out to play is hypocritical, and these hypocritical people include me.

Go out to vent every year. Depression, stress and all kinds of disappointments in life will be completely put down as soon as you go out to play. During my trip, I will meet many very special people and hear very special things. During the trip, I will refresh your attitude towards people and things. After I come back, I will continue to work at my best and continue to fill myself up.

If a person with a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan buys a pair of jeans made in 50 yuan, do you think he is showing off? No, because you can afford it, with a monthly salary of 500 thousand and a bag of 654.38 million. Do you think he is showing off? Yes, because you can't afford it. Just as we think others are showing off, in fact, those who can afford it will only think that it is a normal expense and nothing special, especially those of us who can't afford it. We also think that others are showing off that we can't afford it. Let's be sarcastic and sum up: poverty limits our imagination.

After discussing with my colleague d, I gave up anything other than communicating with him. The final result of the discussion is that I admit that I am faking it and what I have learned is useless. Although I don't agree with these views, I really don't want to spend time arguing with people with different views. What if I win this argument for the time being? Multiple pieces of meat? What if you lose? What kind of person I am, I don't need people with different viewpoints to comment, and I don't need others to say that the way everyone is educated, the influence of people around me and the influence of family have a lot to do with my own perspective, so when I meet people with different viewpoints, I can't avoid it and just shut up.

Getting along with people with different views is only occasional contact between colleagues, which will make people feel uncomfortable, so just avoid it. What if it is the other half? Therefore, we must be cautious when getting married, and it will take a long time to find a person with the same three views. Flash marriage must be carefully considered.

Seeing a sentence on the internet can well interpret the different views of the three views.

You like reading, others like playing games. This is not a disagreement. But some people say, "What's the use of women reading? Just buy food, cook and do housework. " This is a three-view disagreement. )

So, find a job you like, so that you will be happy to work for 8 hours every day, and then find someone you like and go home for 8 hours. Life just needs to be happy every day.