Dare to act and dream vividly-12 Key words to realize life dreams

I really appreciate the activist community, which is the first borderless self-organized learning growth community with innovative ideas as the core in China. The activist community takes learning, action and sharing as its core concepts, and calls on young people to realize their life dreams by helping and learning from each other.

Recently, I studied the book "There is only one action between you and your dream" compiled by the activist community, and summarized twelve key words to realize your life dream.

Keywords 1: dream list

Everyone has a dream, but most people just dream or even fantasize, and very few people can turn their dreams into reality.

The first step to realize your dream is to make a list of your dreams. When you make a list of things you want to do, your subconscious will start to work, automatically filtering the information you receive every day, and it will be easier for you to pay attention to the opportunities that will enable you to realize your dream list, which will naturally speed up the possibility of realizing your dreams.

How to make and realize a dream list?

Step 1: Prepare a brand-new blank notebook.

Step 2: Start writing down what you really want to do.

Step 3: Cross out things you don't really want to do. An important step in writing a dream list is to ask yourself if this is something you really like and want to do.

Step 4: Decompose your implementation logic. It is to make an action plan for your dream and break it down into small things. Action will slowly resolve your confusion and anxiety.

Step 5: Imagine your efforts and success for your dream.

Step 6: Take action, just do it. This is the last step, and it is also the most difficult and important step.

The next step is to complete the steps you wrote one by one, and then you will be surprised to find the way to realize your dream list, but only to finish the small things one by one.

Yes, all the opportunities to realize your dreams are around you. In the trivial things that are decomposed, there are infinite possibilities to make your life leap.

God always gives special treatment to those who work hard for what they like. When you really start to follow your dream list, you will often find that many lists are realized much faster than you think. Yes, you are actually far more powerful than you think.

The second key word: looking for love

I've met many great people, very talented people, big coffee. These people have full-time jobs and hobbies, as well as freelancing and living by hobbies. They are all interesting and different, but without exception, they all found something they love.

So how do they find and do what they like?

1. insatiable curiosity and super learning ability. Find what you like to do, start from curiosity and try more. Don't worry about not having a professional background, willing to learn, willing to spend money to learn.

2. Gradual investment in special skills. The famous 10000 hour theory is not a simple repetition, but must be a continuous improvement in width and height.

3. efforts that are not based on quantity are hooligans. I met people who worked hard for more than 10000 hours, and I realized how tortured their enthusiasm and persistence were.

How do these talented people make money from what they like?

Beauty is productivity.

Aesthetics and judgment are valuable. This is an era in which money can be made by aesthetics and knowledge. Using aesthetics and knowledge to create better products, provide better services, or pass on your knowledge to others are all ways to make a living.

Professional people can give professional advice, help others save time, improve efficiency, and reach an idea, that is, help themselves realize their value.

2. Time compound interest.

Believe in the power of persistence and creativity. One thing can only be effective if it persists to a certain extent, which is the compound interest effect of time.

Try to find a direction you love, keep learning, expand the breadth of knowledge, and strive to accumulate, and then enjoy the compound interest brought by time when your aesthetics and knowledge exceed the industry average. This is the secret of success for all talents.

The third keyword: slash life

Nowadays, more and more young people are no longer satisfied with the boring lifestyle of a single occupation, but begin to choose a diversified life with multiple occupations and identities and become slash youth.

Some of the slash youth are freelancers, earning income by different skills, and some people use their talents to do something they like after work to get extra income.

Slash youth is becoming more and more popular and has become a lifestyle of a new generation of young people, not only because this lifestyle is more in line with people, but also for the following reasons:

[If! SupportLists] 1, [endif] service industry development. Including education, health, entertainment, culture, art and tourism in the future, there will be a large number of talents pouring into these industries. Service industry does not involve production, but mostly exchanges personal skills, knowledge and time, so a person can become an independent service provider.

2. The era of knowledge and creativity has arrived. Talent has surpassed land and capital and become the most important step in production factors. A new group of people is about to rise, that is, those knowledge-based talents, who are about to become the targets of capital pursuit.

3. The mode of economic organization will change. The traditional working way of concentrating people in a fixed place at a fixed time will gradually be replaced by a loose cooperative way, because people can have the greatest creativity only in a state of autonomy and self-drive. With the increasing demand for excellent talents and opportunities for self-selection, the traditional employment system will gradually change to cooperation, and you will never be able to hire excellent talents in the future unless you cooperate with him.

The most important investment is self-investment. The whole society has rekindled its desire and worship for knowledge, which has brought great opportunities to knowledgeable talents. Young people began to wake up from material life and make full use of their spare time to enrich themselves.

This is the best time. Because of the development of the Internet, young people no longer need to struggle for family background, contacts and financial resources, but can achieve personal success through their own strength and talent. Therefore, the most important investment in this era should be self-investment. As long as you have solid knowledge, talent or skills, you can have multiple occupations and identities, become a member of slash youth, and live a more independent, diverse, interesting and economically independent life.

Finally, please remember these facts: 1, the time of king is coming; 2. Creativity will become the basic quality of human beings; 3. People's personality is constantly released, and interest is becoming a means of making a living; 4. Freelancers are on the rise; 5. In the future, everyone is a WeChat business, and everyone is from the media; 6. You can't hire any more excellent talents unless you cooperate with him; 7. The relationship between people will switch from relationship-driven to interest-driven; 8. The quality of life has replaced the quality of life as the first pursuit.

Keyword 4: the thinking of the rich

The biggest difference between the poor and the rich is not the amount of money, but the way of thinking.

1. From the perspective of money. When poor people do many things, money is the first consideration, but the essence of things is ignored. For example, in order to save electricity, the poor don't turn on air conditioning in summer, while the rich use air conditioning to improve work efficiency and create higher value.

2. From the time dimension. Different understandings of time have caused great differences between the rich and the poor. The thinking of the poor is that as long as they can save money, they can spend more time. Saving money is their idiom. Rich people spend money to buy time, do more things they are good at and create more value.

3. On the dimension of vision. Rich people have more leisure time than poor people. Because they are rich, they will have time to receive a better education, enjoy books, travel, knowledge and other spiritual food, and improve themselves. The poor are all running for survival. After they are busy, they just play cards, drink, eat and sleep, wasting their time without thinking about changing anything.

The most terrible thing about poor people's thinking is that they not only make themselves poor, but also always influence others. It is manifested in the following aspects:

1. In terms of money, a poor man who is stingy with himself is naturally bad for others.

Poor people not only do not cherish their own time, but also do not cherish other people's time.

3. The narrow career of the poor leads to narrow-mindedness, which is more likely to lead to conflicts and contradictions.

If you are still in deep poverty, you should know more about the way of thinking of the rich, not be jealous of them. Only by actively studying and having the thinking of the rich can there be matching wealth and life will get better step by step.

The fifth key word: new thinking

In his book New Thinking, Daniel Pinker mentioned six abilities to win the future, which will make you successful in the future.

1. sense of design.

For ordinary people, a good sense of design means a strong aesthetic ability and sensitivity to art. You can improve your aesthetic ability and sense of design by going to museums, watching art exhibitions, enjoying beautiful things and reading fashion magazines.

2. The power of the story.

Telling stories deepens the other person's understanding of something or a certain truth. Humans are not born to understand logic well, but they can understand stories well. You can perfect your story by writing your own story, listening to other people's stories and reading classics.

3. The power of symphony.

Symphonic force refers to the ability to combine many different independent elements This ability can be understood as cross-border ability. Nowadays, mastering a certain field is no longer a guarantee of success. The people who can get the greatest return are those who can do well in different fields. So read more books on different majors, learn more professional skills and get to know people in different fields.

4.*** Emotion.

It is the ability to think from the other person's standpoint, put yourself in the other person's shoes, go deep into the other person's heart and understand the other person's emotions or feelings. People who lack the ability to love can't handle interpersonal relationships well, so we should first get rid of narcissism, try to be interested in others, and learn some communication and love skills.

Everyone has their own different experiences and unique stories. Try to imagine the conversation as a process of exploring someone's back story, and it becomes a very interesting thing.

5. sense of entertainment.

Refers to whether a person has the ability to play. People with entertainment consciousness will regard life as an adventure and try their best to make themselves laugh at any time and pass on their happiness to others. An optimistic person will be a very interesting person, and a person without entertainment consciousness will be a very boring person.

If a person does not have the ability to play, he is often not creative, and a person who can play is often more efficient. Therefore, don't regard improving the sense of entertainment as a waste of time. Playing is an ability. You should take some time to cultivate your hobbies and make yourself a more interesting person.

6. Sense of meaning

What are you fighting for? People who have a sense of meaning will give their lives a special meaning, and they will keep fighting for this special meaning. That is to say, people who know why they live can tolerate any kind of life. Therefore, if we can see this, if we want to find our own value and significance in ordinary work and life, and find the meaning of growth in setbacks, failures and sufferings, we will not be easily defeated by suffering.

If you have the above six abilities, then you will certainly become an outstanding talent to win the future.

Keyword 6: Time management

Time is the same for everyone, but the efficiency of time utilization is different for everyone. Here are some tips to save work and study time.

1. Establish a dedicated information base.

We waste a lot of time searching for information back and forth, so we should set up a special information base. No matter what is valuable, you can throw it away in the past and open it directly when you need it.

I suggest using note-taking software to build a database of information, such as impression notes, notes of one sentence, notes of Iflytek dialect and so on. Adhere to the usual accumulation and recording, and set it to boot, so as to record the information in the notes as soon as possible. You don't have to spend energy on memory anymore. You know that you can find everything you need by opening this notebook, and you can concentrate more on what you are doing.

2. Reduce work interruption.

Many people will let themselves multitask in order to save time, but this is precisely the most time-wasting and inefficient performance. The human brain can't be multi-threaded, and it can only focus on one thing at a time. So please focus on what you are dealing with at work, don't deal with other things at the same time, reduce the interruption of emergencies, especially turn off the notification sound of all application software.

3. divide the whole into several parts.

Many people spend their spare time in life reading books, reading official WeChat accounts or listening to lectures, open classes and so on. That's good, but the best way to use it is actually thinking.

Break down the problems encountered in work and study into smaller problems, then make a list, carry it with you, and use the time of fragmentation to think and deduce. As long as you have time, take it out and think, and write down the thinking results in time. This is the best way to break the work into parts and conquer it step by step, and it is also the most time-saving method.

Many people who look great in life are actually not much smarter than us, but they always think and reason about various situations in their minds every second when others are in a daze, and they have long been familiar with various paths and results. So when they need it, they can judge all kinds of situations very quickly and make the best decision.

Keywords: 7: craftsman thinking

If a person wants to gain a foothold in society, he must have the ability to settle down.

This skill is actually your own ability. Have you spent time and energy to make your ability professional enough, or have you done one thing to the extreme as a craftsman? With this spirit, those who do well can become craftsmen.

Skilled people have confidence in their hearts. I can live here, I can be smart there, I can serve you, and I can cooperate with others. Eating by skill is working for yourself. I don't have to be controlled by anyone, I am responsible for myself, I just need to polish myself, and I don't need to look at people's faces. This is a fact.

Emphasizing the importance of craftsman spirit is not to encourage everyone to be self-employed, not to emphasize that you want to leave, but to emphasize that you should have craftsman spirit.

1. Craft is a kind of confidence. If you have the skills, you can eat anywhere, whether it is an institution or a free individual.

2. Craft is a kind of self-control. Without leadership to give you guidance and share, you have to undertake and check, which puts higher demands on a person's comprehensive quality.

3. Craft is a kind of spirit. That is, the craftsman spirit. If you can do a job very carefully instead of being forced to do a task, you can get enough respect no matter where you are.

It is the right way to complain less about society and spend more time learning something and practicing a craft. Your craft is your iron rice bowl.

Keywords: 8: knowledge system

The biggest difference between ordinary people and experts is actually whether there is a knowledge system.

Knowledge in a broad sense can be divided into five categories: data, information, knowledge, talent and wisdom. Data is organized into information, and information can solve a problem. Knowledge can be integrated through repeated practice, which is wisdom. The construction from data to wisdom is the establishment of knowledge system.

How to build your own knowledge system?

1. target

Knowledge architecture is a way to achieve the goal. Knowledge must be acquired to solve a problem, and solving a problem is to set goals. In order to achieve the goal, we need to construct the corresponding knowledge structure, so that everything around the goal will be very clear and avoid doing useless work.

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After the goal is established, the next step is how to acquire knowledge quickly. The methods include searching online, asking people, reading books and doing it yourself.

3. refining.

Eliminate the useless, delete and refine the knowledge in order to find the key points and facilitate memory; Sort out the logic, sort out the logical relationship of knowledge, and divide and label the primary and secondary, so it looks clear at a glance and the key points are self-evident; Modularization of knowledge means playing routines, and routines are modular knowledge. The best way to modularize knowledge is to sort out these underlying theories and methods with mind maps and form one knowledge module after another.

4. output.

The process of output is the process of practice, the process of turning other people's knowledge into their own, and the process of knowledge from theory to practice. Therefore, knowledge must be exported, that is, it is constantly shared, exchanged and practiced, otherwise it is dead knowledge. Taking notes, writing articles, making products and sharing communication practices are all outputs, and they are also rethinking and testing the original knowledge module.

Output is also a process of correlation reconstruction. Knowledge is not a simple accumulation, but a connection, otherwise a system cannot be formed.

5. polymerization.

To build a knowledge system, we must go through the decomposition and reorganization of knowledge, which is a cyclic iterative process from theory to practice and then to theory. Finally, it takes a lot of practice to integrate all knowledge points, so it is best to start with practice, solve problems and build a knowledge module.

6. expansion.

The essence of constructing knowledge system is actually to construct systematic thinking. Environment has the greatest influence on a person's systematic thinking and values, and it is difficult for most people to jump out of some concepts instilled by family environment, growth process and life circle. Therefore, it is a better way to establish excellent systematic thinking and values by contacting people who grew up in different environments, listening to ideas completely different from their own, and understanding these things with a peaceful mind.

After the above six steps, I believe you must have established your own knowledge system.

Keyword 9: Say goodbye to confusion

It's easy to get lost when walking.

Nowadays, there are fewer sober people and more confused people. Confusion makes people sleepy, and the final result of confusion is to degenerate into powerlessness. The more confused you are, the less willing you are to act, because you can't see the meaning of action; The more confused you are, the less you can see the method, because all methods seem to have uncertainty; The more confused, the easier it is to fall into negative emotions.

Get up and act when you are confused, and start to bid farewell to the confused strategy;

1. Write down the confusion and calm down.

Find a blank piece of paper, write out all the current puzzles in a complaining way, and take the trouble to write concrete and keep writing until you can't write them out.

2. Analyze the confusion and distinguish it.

Confusion is generally divided into three categories: 1 class has no direction at all and doesn't know what to do; The second category is that there was a direction, but every action ended in failure and eventually lost confidence; The third category has a direction worth looking forward to, but the reality is so far away.

3. Find the reason and make a strategy.

Every kind of confusion has its own reasons. When the reason is found, the strategy naturally appears.

The strategy to solve 1 confusion is exploration. Constantly explore yourself and explore your infinite possibilities; The strategy to solve the second puzzle is adjustment. Adjust every time the result appears, and learn to use resources to realize the ideal state in reality; The strategy to solve the third puzzle is Zhi Zhi. Is to stop, stop and find the center of gravity, and then start again.

4. Start action and make constant adjustments.

Think, act and adjust. With some strategies and plans, we are still uncertain and imperfect, but we still have to start acting.

In short, remember: act in time when you are confused, and act when you are confused.

Keywords: 10: transformation work

What wakes you up every morning? Is it a dream? Are you excited and looking forward to what you are going to do today?

For many people, the answer is no. They hate going to work and are tired of it, but they have to go. How can I get up and go to work with great excitement and desire every morning? The answer is: reshape your current job.

1. reshape your work tasks.

The purpose is to make all your current jobs more in line with your personal characteristics, that is, to match your personality, talents, interests and abilities. It can be done by changing the way of task completion and adding or subtracting some work tasks.

2. Reshape your working relationship.

Everyone has the need to communicate and interact with others. Establishing closer and more positive contact with people around you at work will produce a stronger sense of meaning and happiness. This requires you to change your old contacts and establish new ones at work.

3. Reshape your work cognition.

It is to reshape your knowledge and understanding of the work and reinterpret its essential significance and influence. Find meaning and value from work.

How to reshape your job?

1. List your tasks. According to the amount of time and energy spent, it is divided into three categories: low, medium and high.

2. List your talents. Classify your talents according to motivation, strength and enthusiasm.

3. Combine your work tasks with your talents. Your goal is to better combine your work tasks with your talents, so that your motivation, advantages and enthusiasm can be reflected in your work. When you completely integrate your current job with your talents, you can find the motivation and sense of meaning in your work and make use of your advantages to do things that make you energetic.

4. Start action. The most important thing is to take action and put these ideas into practice.

Keywords 1 1: become interesting.

Interesting is the highest evaluation of a person.

In front of him, there are 100 ways to interpret the world. Interesting people make you happy, arouse your laughter and arouse your love for the world. You will never get tired of them.

How to be an interesting person?

1. Always keep the innocent part of your heart and liberate your identity. If you want to be an interesting person, you must be childlike and sincere, don't stick to identity labels, and dare to do something special.

Don't look at things with conventional eyes, be curious. Get rid of a mindset and jump out of the old pattern. Life is indeed infinite.

3 get rid of language stereotypes. It will be interesting to change the rigid language and indirectly improve the relationship between people.

4. A wide range of knowledge. An interesting person must have ink in his stomach, extensive knowledge and interesting conversation. Speaking something informative at any time requires a certain knowledge reserve.

5. Become a person with temperament. There is a self-deprecating and self-deprecating mentality, and spontaneity is also a craft. You keep discovering his honesty and shortcomings, getting closer and closer, and finally you have a good impression.

6. Give up utilitarian ideas and become gentle. Really interesting people are gentle people. Years of experience have made them present different styles and inclusive values. They are tolerant, compassionate and willing to show their love and add some temperature to the world. Interest is aesthetics. Only by giving up the utilitarian mentality can we pursue beautiful things.

Life is boring, because people who live are unkempt; There are various customs in life, because the people who have experienced it are interesting and interesting.

Keywords: 12: establishing relationships

China is a country that attaches great importance to relationships, but few people teach you how to establish and maintain good relationships.

The more intimate people are, the easier it is to become enemies. Once upon a time in America, outside and at home, I was bossy, kind and furious at home. This is because the more intimate people are, the less they will terminate their relationship with you, so you will not take the initiative to save money in these relationship accounts, but over time, these relationships will become negative, and over time, negative numbers will become resentment.

A person who knows how to build relationships must be a happy person. Building relationships is an important vocational skill. Here are five important ways to build relationships.

Spend time together. Nothing is more important than spending time together. Spending time is your experience marketing. When two people are together, they only focus on one thing. Spending 15 minutes together every day * * * enjoying attention is the foundation of any relationship.

2. Exchange topics that both parties love to talk about. The conversation should start with a topic that everyone likes to talk about, especially the topic that the other person likes to talk about.

3. Do something for each other's goals. It may be just a small matter for the other person's goal, but it is very helpful to the relationship.

4. Really awesome. The law of 5+ 1 is a relationship between criticism and damage, which probably needs five praises to make up for it.

5. Small gifts. The best gift is that he can really use it, but it's a grade higher than what she usually uses and he won't buy it at ordinary times.

I believe that you have achieved all the above five points, and you must have good interpersonal relationships.

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Life is a proposition with infinite possibilities. I hope this keyword 12 can at least open a new window for you, help you to tap your potential interests and talents, and thus unlock your second life, even your hundredth life. You have the right to 10000 kinds of beautiful life.

Finally, remember that there is only one action between you and your dream. Dare to act, dreams are vivid.