What is life like after emigration?

In 10 America, I feel that America is lifeless and too step-by-step. After a look at China, I saw that "I have a friend who did something and made a fortune", so I went back to China to try my luck. After two years in China, I learned one thing: there are many opportunities in China, and rich friends abound, but that opportunity didn't fall on me. Speaking of it, it is unfilial to live abroad for a long time and not take good care of your parents.

But after I returned to China, my parents were too worried to sleep. When I went to find their poor and useless social connections to find me a job, I felt even more unfilial, so I returned to the United States and continued to work step by step. Now my parents have come to America and bought a cheap little house to live with.

I now feel that people with skills and connections, whether they are capable or connected, do not need to emigrate. But if you are an ordinary person who works at home and abroad and earns money from foreigners abroad, it can be regarded as serving the motherland.

Reasons for immigration:

At that time, the reason for immigration was poverty. I can't afford a house, but I'm afraid to have children. My old mother has no pension, not a civil servant or a public institution, and her pension is pitiful.

Someone asked, China is not only a first-tier city, why not go back to my hometown? As a poor second generation born in a small place on the 18th Line, the marriage partner is also a foreigner. Who will return to their hometown? Besides, the so-called good jobs in small places have long been occupied.

So, those days, I thought about it, gritted my teeth, forget it, let's go. No, you can still come back, right?

At present, most students in China live better than us. But the starting point of those years was different. Most students could pay 700,000-800,000 down payment to buy a house ten years ago (300,000-400,000 for each family). Three years after graduation, we all saved1000,000, so the starting point is different.