Where are the girls who made high-profile announcements to serve the country after completing their studies, but settled their families in the United States today?

Speaking of Liu Yiting, many people should still be impressed. At that time, this was also what parents called "other people's children", and it was the peak in the minds of countless students. Liu Yiting appeared on CCTV twice and talked about how to learn to serve the country. She was admitted to Harvard directly after graduating from Peking University. Her parents were also quite business-minded and immediately published a book, "Harvard Girl Liu Yiting", detailing her growth process. It became a domestic bestseller and earned a lot of attention and money. At that time, classmate Liu Yiting once publicly stated that she would return from her studies and serve the country. Such a talented person who also has the country in mind is really rare and admirable.

But what happened later seemed to deviate from people’s imagination. After Liu Yiting graduated, she did not choose to return to her motherland and serve her country. Instead, she married an American, stayed in the United States, and Founded a company. Although this company claims to serve the Chinese people, it is only engaged in activities that provide rich people with cross-border money. It has not contributed much to the country and the people. It promised to serve the motherland, but it turned out that Serve other countries.

Coincidentally, Huang Siwei, who also graduated from Peking University, was known as a "genius of Peking University" back then. Before going abroad, he made a firm vow that after completing his studies, he would dedicate what he had learned to the country. With the motherland as the center, he would return to the motherland no matter how far away, just like a patriotic person. The result? His face was slapped. This classmate Huang Sisi has now become an American citizen, works in an American company, and married an American, becoming a yellow-skinned American.

There is also Ma Nan from the Chinese Department of Peking University, who was labeled as an "anti-American fighter" back then. When Clinton visited China and gave a speech at Peking University, Ma Nan took over Clinton's words and said: " Freedom of choice must be combined with one's own circumstances. China's prosperity and development are the result of China choosing its own freedom. Only those who truly know how to respect the freedom of others will value the freedom of others more. What an impassioned speech. No wonder many people called her an "anti-American fighter" at the time. However, according to Ma Nan's self-report in an interview in 2006, this speech was just to attract the attention of her American boyfriend Kou Bailong. Of course, Ma Nan later got married to the United States as she wished, but last year she revealed through Weibo that she had divorced her American husband and that her husband had taken away their daughter. She wanted to find out the whereabouts of her daughter through Weibo.

In fact, where you want to go after graduation and what kind of job you want to do are personal freedoms, and others have no right to comment. There are so many people who have not returned after studying abroad. Why are so many people so worried about these few girls marrying to the United States? First of all, Chinese people believe that words must be followed and actions must be resolute. They must be responsible for what they say. If you can't do it, you don't have to say it, especially don't say it in public. Secondly, it is undeniable that these girls are excellent. From the perspective of national sentiment, everyone always hopes that outstanding talents can stay in the country and contribute to the country and the nation.

If you are really attracted by the superior conditions, high-end technology, and open thinking of the United States, then there is no problem, but please go quietly and do not use the banner of patriotism to attract everyone and arouse everyone's attention. Attention, and then let everyone down. The so-called "promises should not be made lightly" means that you should not easily make promises that you cannot keep. Of course, we must also remember the second half of the sentence, "Don't trust your words." In the future, we should not get excited when someone makes some patriotic remarks. We should listen to their words and watch their actions.