What should I pay attention to and say when visiting parturient women?

Generally, after giving birth, relatives and friends will go to the hospital to visit the parturient, but there are also some precautions when visiting the parturient. The following are some things that I need to pay attention to when I go to see a parturient. I hope it helps you.

Visiting pregnant women is taboo. 1. When giving birth to a daughter.

Although the phenomenon of son preference is not so serious now, after learning that the mother gave birth to a daughter, some elders said this: Nothing, still young, rest for two years, and then give birth to a big fat man! ? I believe that when I heard this sentence, my mother's heart was full of Ma Benteng. What's wrong with my daughter? It's meat from me. In fact, it doesn't matter if you have boys or girls. Pay more attention to praise the good-looking children when visiting. Don't talk about those gender issues, it is easy to cause maternal dissatisfaction.

Second, evaluate the baby at will.

After seeing the baby, there are always some people who find fault with the baby. They always think their children are good. "Look, my eyes are bigger and whiter when I visit what gift fruit my mother gave me!" Did the baby shit? Lazy people just shit a lot. I changed diapers twice an hour, but mine won't? Martin, you can roll rough.

Third, when a boy is born.

? You're amazing. You gave birth to a big fat man at once, which really gave your husband a chance! ? We women are not tools of production. Can people who say such things have a little heart? Are you praising others or hurting others?

If you can't talk when visiting pregnant women, a relative with smaller breasts than me said? Why is there no milk in such a big place? A relative with bigger breasts than me? So small, how can there be milk! ? Everybody! Am I old or young?

Originally, I was embarrassed to watch others breast-feed. My relatives still pointed fingers, and some of them were even more exaggerated. I even started to talk directly: How can milk be enough for the baby in such a loose way? ? She also said that she had a lot of food at that time, and it seemed that she could water two acres of fertile land. I was really going to get drunk on the spot!

? The baby is crying. It must be not full. If the milk is not enough, feed the milk powder quickly, but don't starve the baby. ?

She sat watching while you were eating, as if she were supervising you. How can you do this like a chicken peck? Want to eat more, how can there be milk if you don't eat?

? Children can't drink milk all the time, so they won't pee. They will cook some porridge for him to drink, and he will be able to drink it in two or three months. Look how beautiful my grandson is. ? OMG, if your grandson is tough, go eat porridge yourself, and don't come here to push him.

Some relatives pinch the baby's nose when they start work, saying that a collapsed nose will grow taller. Mom, if it is broken, you will pay for it. I said pinching the bridge of the nose is a bad habit, except hurting the baby!

I finally put the baby to sleep, and when my relatives came, I went straight into the room. Oh, are you still sleeping? Then touch your little face, move your little hands and rub your ears. She left happily when the child cried.

Some relatives are very loud and like to talk when the baby is sleeping. It's hard to cry when the baby wakes up. The most important thing is that you want to secretly take the baby to a quiet place, and they followed you.

Has been hurting your children. As soon as she enters the door, no matter what the baby does, she always finds fault and praises the child. The baby cried. Your children are really disobedient, but my family won't? Did my baby shit? Lazy people just shit a lot. I changed diapers twice an hour, but mine won't?

Don't say which pot doesn't open. ? How did you get so fat after giving birth to a child? Why are there so many stretch marks on the stomach? ? Oh, you are so ugly, I didn't recognize you! ? Your scar is scary enough. Will your husband dare to watch it again?

Having boys and girls is not to her taste. ? You can't get a wife after giving birth to a son! ? Giving birth to a daughter is a loss-making product! ? What should I have? ! Give an opinion! )

I gave birth to a daughter, and my relatives said? It doesn't matter if you have a boy or a girl for the first time. If you have a younger brother in the future, will your sister take care of your younger brother? . NND, my daughter was not born to be a nanny.

? Look at these big eyes, high nose and black hair? It depends on his father! ? Anyway, the beautiful one is with dad, and the ugly one is with mom!

? You can't do this to children! get

Show off your wealth in disguise. ? What kind of bottles do you use here? My household is imported from Japan, each of which costs more than 200 yuan! ? What kind of milk powder is this? I imported it from Holland! In-laws immigrated to Europe, but they are pure Dutch goods! ? What kind of clothes are these? How much are they worth? My grandson's monk's costume has a foundation of several hundred! ?

There is also a kind of thinking about the past, that is, remembering the bitter, not thinking about the sweet. ? You are too delicate now, you can't have a baby, and you have to have a caesarean section. At that time, we worked every day until we were born, and the baby was born soon after having a stomachache. ? What's more, no one was in charge of the month, and we didn't even eat an egg, so we worked in the field for three days and waited on the family, as if our happy life today was a crime.

Pay attention to the etiquette of visiting parturient: 1. Before visiting the parturient, call to ask what time is convenient.

Whether the mother is in the hospital or at home, she will be untidy during confinement. But almost all new mothers don't want to be seen like this. Therefore, when relatives and friends want to visit, call in advance to give the new mother time to tidy herself up. In addition, you can also tell the parturient that you can visit her when she is well. Moreover, it is possible that everyone will visit at the same time. Calling in advance to ask for the specific time can avoid too many people crowding in a room at the same time. If it is okay at home, if it is in the hospital, it may affect other mothers and babies.

2. Don't rush to visit just after giving birth to a baby.

Because the process of maternal delivery is very hard, the body will be very weak after giving birth. You need a quiet environment to recover your strength. In addition, the baby is just born and unfamiliar with the surrounding environment. It takes some time to get used to it. Therefore, pro-prestige friends should give mothers and babies some time to recuperate. Under normal circumstances, it is most appropriate to visit the mother within 1-2 weeks after giving birth, and the visiting time should not be too long, because the mother is weak and can't be too tired, and the baby needs to rest.

Don't visit everyone at the same time or often.

Because the maternal body system has not fully recovered after giving birth, the resistance is also very low, the immune function is not perfect, and the baby's resistance is weak. At this time, if everyone sees a doctor at the same time, it will form a source of infection, produce a lot of bacteria, and the living environment of mother and baby will also be polluted, which is not only bad for the new mother and baby, but also harmful. In addition, it will make the new mother rest badly, and the noisy environment will also affect her mood.

Relatives and friends with colds or other infectious diseases should not visit.

As we mentioned earlier, the resistance between mother and baby is low and it is easy to cross-infect, so we should politely refuse his visit to such friends.

5. Maintain hygiene when visiting parturient women.

People always like to hug or touch the baby's face when visiting. This is not only unsanitary, but also the newborn is always held against bone development. At the same time, when you talk with your baby in your arms, it is easy to spread the bacteria in saliva to your baby, so when visiting, just look. (Personal hygiene that women need to pay attention to in confinement)

6. Don't send flowers when visiting the parturient.

Some people like to send flowers when they visit their mothers. Actually, this is not right. Because the baby's respiratory system is not fully developed, it is easy to have respiratory diseases on flowers or pollen, and even because the baby's immunity is low, it may be allergic. At the same time, the baby's eyes are still in the development stage, and the bright colors of flowers are easy to stimulate the baby's vision.

Finally, pay special attention. When visiting the parturient, pay attention to your tone, say more happy words, and don't speak too loudly, so as not to affect the baby's rest.

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