I met my girlfriend on a blind date in my hometown … then she went to Xinjiang with her parents … I went to Shenzhen … it was not bad to call. She also called me husband ...

First, that woman didn't dislike you at first, just wanted to be friends. Second, you said she called you husband, which was nothing. Maybe she doesn't want to reject other people's women so directly and wants to get along with you further.

Third, I don't want to be with you later, but I'm not satisfied with you. No matter my financial conditions or personal charm, I gradually figured it out, so I don't want to be with you. After all, my elders are here, and I don't want to refuse so much, lest you lose face. This happens to me everywhere, but I didn't call my husband. Oh, I feel uncomfortable, because I don't want to refuse others so directly. Maybe it's wrong for us girls to do this, but we just want to go to various places first. Others say don't reject someone so arbitrarily ~ so you'd better think about it and take your time, right ~ we can't rush to find a good one. Many people get married in a hurry and leave soon, which is absolutely tragic, so don't lose confidence because of the failure of a relationship, and don't just find a good life for yourself! Bless you and bless myself ~