Why do parents and teachers feel more and more tired of educating their children?

Compared with domestic education, foreign education is more open, and it is relatively easy for foreigners to raise children. Therefore, young parents in China are even more dissatisfied with China's exam-oriented education, and they all have their own ways to raise their children. Why do many people feel tired of educating their children? These three reasons are common problems of many parents!

1. Instill children with their own ideas.

Some parents are very strong and educate their children in their own way. I have enrolled my children in remedial classes, piano classes and dance classes since I was a child, saying that I should train my children from an early age. In fact, some children are often unwilling to be forced to study by their parents. Although the child has learned, he is unhappy inside, perhaps depressed. This kind of study will make parents tired and children tired. In fact, if children are willing to take the initiative to learn, the effect is very different from coercion. In fact, it is not correct for parents to force their children to instill their own ideas. Children should be allowed to cultivate their own interests. Let yourself be full of initiative in your study.

2. Expect too much from children

In many modern families, children are only children, which puts too much pressure on children. Although children are happy when they are young and the whole family is busy with their children, they are faced with the burden of supporting their parents when they grow up. Therefore, these parents cultivate their children's ability from an early age, invest heavily in their children, and are eager for their children to become talents in the future and take good care of themselves and their families. For example, in primary schools, if children fail to get into the top grades, parents will give them various crash courses and cram schools. Children are already nearsighted at an early age, and parents will naturally be very tired. Parents often ignore their children's psychological problems, and children at each stage are different. Parents should not encourage their children, but should pay attention to their mental health development when educating them properly. This is the best education for their children.

3. handle all kinds of things for children

There was a news that a gifted child was admitted to a key university at the age of thirteen and went on to study for a master's degree. But it wasn't long before he was dismissed because the student didn't have the basic ability to take care of himself. I know nothing about abilities other than study, not at all. Finally, a gifted child lost the opportunity. This is a case of hurting Zhong Yong. Faced with the phenomenon that many parents in China do everything, it is actually a great sorrow in the education sector. How can parents not be tired? Parents should let go when they should, and children will eventually go to society and always face independence. Your letting go is the best education for him.

Teach children to pay attention to all aspects of their children. The right medicine can relieve parents' fatigue and reduce children's detours. Did you do all this?