What is happiness?

/view/8334.htm The state when psychological desire is satisfied. A lasting satisfaction with life and a feeling that life is very interesting and naturally hopes to last for a long time. Another way of saying happiness is that happiness cannot be separated from four elements: wealth, emotion, health and ideal. When these four elements exist in harmony, balance and unity, they are the happiest! The definition of happiness is the income you trust and freely give and want. It is defined as happiness. The state in which psychological desires are satisfied. A lasting satisfaction with life and a feeling that life is very interesting and naturally hopes to last for a long time. I'm afraid the word happiness was used together only after the Song Dynasty, and its meaning is far from modern people's description of a happy, comfortable and satisfactory life or situation. The word "hi" should be used as a verb of "wish" and "hope" at the earliest, so the Book of the New Tang Dynasty 18 1 says that Tang Xianzong welcomed Yu Fengxiang, a Buddhist bone, and entered the palace to receive gifts, and Han Yu wrote a "table to persuade Buddha bones". The emperor was so angry that he almost made Han Yu angry, but even if he prayed for such a pious emperor, he could not enjoy life well. Historians say: "Happiness is a disaster, nothing is left!" " That is to say, it's really against people's will to seek happiness and get disaster! If the word "happiness" is used together, it can be simplified to using the word "luck" as a verb, which should give people who feel unhappy or unhappy all day a more practical feeling. The reason is simple: "happiness" is not a state of completion, but a desired process-and it is often not realized. (Zhang: Know a few words) Happiness is the desire for repetition. (Milan Kundera: The Unbearable Lightness of Life) The classification of happiness comes from the number of happy events. The size of happiness comes from the size of what you do (such as guiding society and the earth, etc.). ), the length of happiness, the length of happiness (such as big dreams, goals and wishes, etc. , Changle), and the depth of happiness, which comes from the depth of this matter in your heart (such as love, friendship, major events and so on. If you want to feel all kinds of happiness intuitively and emotionally, let it be. The logic of complete civilization: everything in nature has something to guide its existence, which is called guiding existence for short. What guides things for the first time is essence and law, which is called guiding existence for short; The second guiding thing is biological consciousness, referred to as the second guiding; Happiness is a special indicator tool for secondary storage. For positive instructions (positive special instructions, indicating that what people do is beneficial to themselves/society/universe, please continue to do it), edit this source of happiness. Complete civilization logic: everything may become the source of people's happiness! Fun and happiness are positive indicator tools for secondary guidance (consciousness), reminding people that related things are beneficial to their existence, so they continue to acquire or chase; As we all know, everything has potential benefits to people, so anything can become people's happiness! Therefore, as long as everyone works hard to tap the benefits of these things to themselves, then people's lives will be infinitely happy. The Secret of Happiness in Northern Europe, published by Cambridge University in 2008, shows that cold northern Europeans have the highest happiness index, among which Danes are the happiest. Warm southern Europeans have the lowest happiness index, and Italians are the most melancholy. The survey of Cambridge University was conducted in 15 former EU member states. They asked respondents to rate their happiness index and social satisfaction (1 lowest,1highest), and finally calculated the average score of happiness index and social satisfaction in each country. The survey is funded by the European Union and conducted every two years. Every time, about 20,000 people are sampled from the EU 15 countries and asked to evaluate their happiness and social satisfaction. In addition, they have to answer a questionnaire designed by psychologists. The survey results show that the overall happiness index of Scandinavia is very high, with Danes ranking first with an average score of 8.3 and Finns ranking second with an average score of 8.06. Italians, Portuguese and Greeks in southern Europe are at the bottom, and the average score of Italians is only 6.28. In the ranking of life satisfaction, Denmark also tops the list, followed by Portugal, Greece and other southern European countries. "In the past, people always thought that people on the sunny coast of the Mediterranean were the happiest, but our survey results were not like this." Dr Luisa corrado, the head of the survey, said, "In our previous surveys, Italy, Portugal and Greece have always been at the bottom, while countries with cold climates are generally happier. Countries such as Sweden and Finland have relatively high happiness indexes, while Denmark is the happiest country. " Key words of happiness: reasonable social structure. Denmark has a high GDP and a low unemployment rate. Danes love their royal family very much. The fairy-tale marriage between Crown Prince Frederick and Australian commoner Mary is even more fascinating. Among the 180 regions surveyed in 15 countries, Copenhagen, the capital of Denmark, ranks first in the happiness index. Denmark also has a high degree of social openness. It is the first country in the world to legalize gay marriage. Lars Joergensen, manager of a travel company in Copenhagen, said that the secret of happiness for Danes lies in "balance"-the balance between work and family life, and the balance between urban life and rural life. "We are a small country, the gap between the rich and the poor is very small, there is basically no hierarchical difference, and people's lives are very comfortable." Jorgensen said. Bilger Joergensen, Danish ambassador to Britain, also said that Denmark is an open country with a high degree of globalization, which are all factors that make Danes feel happy and satisfied. Another study pointed out that Danes' psychological expectation of future life is relatively low, which is also an important reason why Danes are happier. Happiness keywords: friends According to the questionnaire survey, psychologists come to the conclusion that people who feel happy generally have more friends and at least one close good friend; Women's happiness generally exceeds that of men; The happiness of the elderly and young people is generally higher than that of middle-aged people. In addition, the survey also shows that the happiness index of local residents is generally higher than that of immigrants, because local people have a wider social communication network. In this regard, Dr. corrado pointed out that "the government should take more measures to strengthen social inclusion, which is very important to improve the social happiness index." Key words of happiness: honesty and trust. The honesty of Danes has a long history and is manifested in all aspects of life. People don't lie or cheat, which left a deep impression on reporters. For example, if you shop in a store, you can return it at will within one week with the invoice, without any reason, because the store completely trusts customers. Now that they have returned the goods, the goods must be defective. The reporter once bought a pair of shoes and wore them for more than two months. The buttons on the shoes fell off. Unexpectedly, the shoe store immediately changed a pair of new shoes for the reporter. They never suspected that the buttons on the shoes might have been dropped by customers. Therefore, Seren christiansen, 32, told the media: "In Denmark, I can walk on the road without worrying about deception and lies, which makes me feel very happy." In addition, the integrity of Danish merchants is praised by the world, especially those involved in food safety, which do not fake and ensure people to enjoy a high-quality and safe life. There is an environmental protection model island-Samso, which is famous for producing green vegetables. In the supermarket, you don't have to worry that the supermarket will sell non-green food under the label of Samso. Moreover, the producers of Samso are trying to protect their original ecological land and will not use chemical pesticides to increase production. In addition, a person in charge of the supermarket told reporters that every egg, every bag of milk and every piece of bread they sold were printed with a shelf life, and all of them were recycled and destroyed after one day. Referring to the act of changing the shelf life without authorization, the person in charge said that they never thought about it at all, and only when the merchants said they would do it could people feel at ease. Based on the opinions of respondents from 15 countries, the report points out that money has little to do with happiness, and the key factors of people's happiness are "trust"-trust in friends and neighbors, and trust in public institutions, such as government, police and monarch. Dr. corrado explained: "People in countries with high happiness index generally trust their governments and laws, and there is also a high degree of trust among people. The current social situation in Britain is just the opposite. The government, the police and other public institutions are not trusted, and people in society are often in a state of mutual distrust. " The survey shows that Italians have the lowest trust in the government, and even wealthy Italians feel that their happiness is not high. China's happiness theory-happiness formula 1. Seeking a formula according to the definition of happiness is the feeling when people's desires are satisfied or partially satisfied, and it is a kind of spiritual pleasure. According to the above definition and everyone's different situation, we can get the formula of happiness. As far as a person's happiness is concerned, a person's happiness (F) for something is directly proportional to his desire for something beforehand (Q), his satisfaction afterwards (Z) and his unique happiness coefficient (K). That is, happiness (F)= happiness coefficient (K)* desire (Q)* satisfaction (Z). According to the above formula, we can know that 1, when the happiness coefficient (k) and desire (q) are fixed, the greater the sense of satisfaction (z), the greater the sense of happiness (f) and satisfaction (z). Explain that what you want has regressed instead of improving. Then, happiness will be negative, that is, the desired result will not be happy, but will fall into misfortune. For example, stock speculation is eager to make a profit of 10% this week, but the result is a loss (or quilt) 10%. The result is of course unfortunate. When satisfaction (z) is equal to zero, so is happiness F. It is equivalent to not losing money or making money. When the degree of satisfaction (z) is greater than zero and less than 1, it shows that the desired thing has made progress, but it has not reached the expected goal, resulting in happiness, but it is still lacking. Stock trading is like trying to make a profit 10% this week, but the result is less than 10%. When the satisfaction (z) is equal to 65438. The happiness obtained at this time is perfect. In stock trading, it's like looking forward to this week's profit 10%, and the result is also 10%. When the degree of satisfaction (z) is greater than 1, it means that the desired result exceeds expectations and the happiness obtained exceeds imagination. In stock trading, it's like longing for this week's profit 10%. Results The profit was greater than 10%. 2 When the happiness coefficient (k) and satisfaction (z) are fixed, the greater the desire (q), the greater the happiness (feeling) F. Desire = the expected value of the expected thing/(divided by) the normal expected value of the expected thing is usually 1, that is, the target value of the expected thing is set to be normal with you. If the set goal is beyond your ability in a certain period of time, then such desire will be greater than 1. Of course, this desire is not easy to satisfy, because it exceeds your expectations. But if satisfied, then happiness will be even greater. In stock trading, it is realistic to expect this week's profit 10%, but if you set a profit of 20%, then the desire at this time is 2. If the set goal is less than your ability in a certain period of time, or the desire goal is easy to achieve, then the desire degree at this time is less than 1. In terms of stock trading, it is expected that the profit this week will be 654.38+10,000 yuan, which is more realistic and sure. If you are eager to make a profit of 50,000 yuan this week, then your desire is 0.5. Then, if you are eager, 3 If the degree of desire (Q) and satisfaction (Z) are fixed, the greater the happiness coefficient (K), the greater the happiness (F). Under the same conditions, with the different degree of desire (Q) and satisfaction (Z) for the same thing, everyone's own characteristics are different, which leads to different levels of happiness for everyone. It's simple. The difference coefficient of happiness is the happiness coefficient. If the minimum value of the happiness coefficient k is set to 1, then under normal circumstances, everyone's happiness coefficient is greater than 1. Usually, women's happiness coefficient is greater than men's, because women are generally more excited than men, so women are generally more likely to get happiness and happiness than men. For example, men and women get different happiness when they get married; Accordingly, women are easily frustrated and have a sense of misfortune. Usually, children's happiness coefficient is greater than that of adults, because children are more excited than adults. 2 Simplified happiness formula because happiness (F)= happiness coefficient (K)* desire (Q)* satisfaction (z). Because satisfaction (Z)= actual satisfaction value of desire/(divided by) expected value of desire, because desire (Q)= expected value of desire/(divided by) normal expected value of desire, happiness = happiness coefficient (k