How many children do Venus's parents have?

Venus's father is Jin Yongzhe, a Korean, born in 1940. He is a handsome man. He writes well and writes well. He is a staff officer in shenyang military area command's War Department.

My mother is Han Ying, a war orphan, born in 1942. She lost her parents in the Korean Civil War. 10 years old, she and her sister went to China. Fortunately, the couple from Qingyuan County, more than 200 kilometers away from Shenyang, took her in and gave her a place to live and a secondary education. My mother is a political cadre of the Commercial Bureau. Kindness and intelligence are very famous in the local area.

My sister's name is Kim. She is three years older than Venus, but she definitely looks like her sister. For the next thirty years, Venus was always taken care of by her sister.

In Venus's childhood memory, my sister always said, "Venus, can you stop playing with girls all the time?" "Venus, don't always sing and dance with girls!" "Venus, don't brag! Why are you wearing my flowery clothes? "

Seeing Venus, who loves to dress up and sing, mother always shakes her head: "Alas, our son and daughter made a mistake. A son is like a daughter and a daughter is like a son. "

The daughter is not mistaken. Although Lan Xiang doesn't like singing and dancing like her brother, she is also a typical Korean girl. Her facial features are delicate and soft, and she loves to cry and laugh, but she is not as flexible as Venus. If something goes wrong, it will take a long time to get lost

There is something really wrong with Venus. Although he is very good-looking, everyone who meets him will say, "What a handsome and lovely little boy", but he behaves like a girl: he knows all the games girls play, jumping rubber bands and hopscotch, and he plays better than his sister. He is afraid of insects, darkness and thunder; I like beauty, I like fantasy, I like singing, I prefer dancing ... especially dancing, not like it, but like an innate ability. On Venus, it is beauty, freedom, enjoyment and happiness! At that time, Xiaojinxing didn't know the words soul and dancing soul, but he thought dancing was as natural as eating and sleeping. He always likes to tie his mother's scarf on his head, put on his sister's flowery clothes and dance.

Venus showed amazing artistic talent from an early age. At the age of 5, she was a member of the kindergarten literature and art propaganda team. At the age of 9, she was selected to the shenyang military area command Forward Song and Dance Troupe. At that time, my mother resolutely opposed Venus giving up her studies and joining the army as an artist, but Venus went on a hunger strike and finally her parents had to compromise. 1988, Venus got the opportunity to study in the United States and learn modern dance.

After Venus went abroad, her mother began to feel uneasy about the life of office workers from nine to five. Her sensitive personality has sensed that China's reform and opening-up is beating drums. She went to Beijing alone and started a freelance career. First, I opened a restaurant, then I set up a travel agency, then I set up a factory, and so on. My father is a typical soldier. Although he was later transferred to other places, he preferred relative peace to wandering around. As a result, this marriage accelerated the pace of separation and finally ended in the third year of Venus' study in the United States.

Living and emotional experiences abroad have made Venus more and more aware that her life has an innate mission, that is, to complete a "revolution"-the unity of spirit and flesh, so that her daughter's heart can live on her daughter. He wants to send away the man who has been with him for more than 20 years, find his true self and make himself a real woman. He has been preparing for this "revolution" for two years after returning to China, and now he feels ready.

On Christmas Eve, Venus flew from Beijing to Shenyang to reunite with her father.

The choice of this day to see my father was decided after careful consideration. In Christian legend, 65438+February 25th is the festival of the birth of Jesus, and Christmas Eve is the eve of the festival, but the atmosphere is stronger. Venus invited her father to Shenyang Business Hotel for dinner. This is a four-star hotel. In order to welcome Christmas, it has been dressed in various colors. The tall Christmas tree is covered with decorative gifts. Venus believes that the legendary boy, in order to repay the farmers who received him, turned the branches of Chinese fir inserted in the ground into a tree full of gifts, which is spiritual. Choosing such a day, such an environment, and discussing major events in life with my father will surely get God's blessing.

In fact, my father was psychologically prepared. Although he doesn't have much subtle life contact with his son at ordinary times, he stands there at a distance, just like a staring tree, always watching his children. Therefore, he is clear about the life and career of Venus. Besides, Venus is his son. Can he not understand the daughter's heart that has been revealed since childhood? Seeing Venus's accomplishments in dance art in recent years, he has some associations: if Venus were taller or a girl, it would be more perfect.

After drinking two glasses of red wine, father and son seem to have a lot to say. Or did the father speak first: "son, have something to say to me?"

"Dad, I'm sorry ... I want to have sex-change surgery." Venus doesn't want to tell her plan directly, but wants to be tactful and take her time ... After all, she is her parents' biological, and there is no reason not to ask their permission ... However, when her father asks, she can't help but omit this process, thus revealing the topic simply and directly.

"Are you? Is it for dancing? " Father is not impatient, said slowly.

"No, Dad. For myself, for being responsible for my life. Do you know that?/You know what? I have always been a daughter mentality ... "Venus explained.

"That's true. I have long felt that my son is like a girl. There's nothing wrong, is there? Now I finally understand. " My father is a man of seeking truth from facts. Even in the face of complex emotions, he can sort things out.

Venus was worried about her father's reasons.

"Dad, without a son, you can't have grandchildren. Don't you feel sorry? " Venus, like a reporter, asked her father a crucial question.

"Of course, from the perspective of ordinary people, this is a problem. To carry on the family line, my ancestors taught me that there are three kinds of unfilial, and there is no need to be great ... but being responsible for life is more important than tradition. There's nothing wrong with you. What's wrong with you respecting life and completing yourself? After all, people can only live once. Your dance is wonderful. If you treat life truly, your personality will be more wonderful. Isn't it proud to have such a child, whether it is a son or a daughter? " Father's words are profound and affectionate.

Venus shed tears. His father's understanding and support made him very excited. But his father also reminded him: "it's your mother, you should communicate with her well, she may not understand!" " "Father charged Venus.

As my father said, when my mother heard the plan of Venus, it seemed that the sky was falling.

"no! I gave you a good life without any shortcomings. Why do you want to be transgender? " Mother said anxiously.

Yes, Venus is a standard male without any physical defects. However, can a mother not know her daughter's heart? He is gentle, loves things, and never talks to girls ... After this year, he will be 28 years old next year, but he hasn't even had a little affair with any girl ... as his mother knows. But which mother will agree that her "job" has been changed? "no! Just can't! "

Mom is ill. Venus also loves her mother. He bought her fruit, peeled it, sent it to her mouth, and told her heart to heart:

"Mom, I'm sorry. I can't listen to you this time. In fact, I longed to be a girl when I was very young. Do you still remember the time when you got wet in Qingyuan? At that time, I thought, if lightning can help me turn into a girl ... do you remember that I like to wear fancy clothes and all the things that girls like? Later, I went to the United States and some countries in Europe. I wonder if I'm gay, and I contacted them. How depressed I was at that time! As a result, I know I am different from them. I am not gay. But I'm not a man. I do not like girls. I've never. When some girls showed their love to me, I was very sad and uneasy. Mom, of course you are right. You gave birth to me completely, very standard male characteristics, but, mom, you know what? That means nothing to me. Just an empty name, my soul and heart belong to women, and I have lived with my daughter's heart for more than 20 years! When I dress, walk and do things like a man, I am reluctant but helpless. Especially when I want to show that I like a man according to my own nature, I feel uncomfortable all over. Mom, can you imagine how painful I am? " Venus holds her mother's hand and tells with tears.

"But why don't you do it abroad, but come back to my eyes? Don't you know that you are tearing my heart? " Mother is lying in bed, tears have wet the pillow.

"Mom, don't you understand this? I ask your blessing and blessing! How can I do surgery about life without you around? You gave birth to me, and now I'm going to have sex-change surgery. It's me who bleeds and suffers, as if I was born. However, without the delivery 27 years ago, there would be no me in the world. Therefore, you must bless me so that I can successfully complete this long-prepared mission. In this sense, this time from a boy to a girl, you are still giving birth to me, but I share more pain! " Venus tried to comfort her mother.

Choosing to go back to China for surgery, in addition to parents' consent and family blessings, Venus also believes that the local atmosphere is auspicious, and rebirth in the birthplace is also a necessary choice. What's more, domestic technology is not worse than that of the United States or some European countries. Even if there are some differences in the equipment, it can be made up if the doctor with the scalpel is skilled.

Mother was ill for more than half a month. Venus told her mother as soon as she was free, and her mother finally figured it out. She told Venus, "Xing Er, be careful! You are my child. Since you want to give birth to you for me, you must ensure your health! "

Mother also knows that her dissuasion can't achieve her goal. Once a child has made up his mind, he will stick to it. Now I really feel sorry for my son after listening to his story. He is not fooling around, nor is he whimsical. His son has grown into an artist, and he has never made this choice rashly. Although I can't fully understand my son's pain, what I can understand is already very painful. As long as the child is healthy, what should I do if it is a boy or a girl? After all, an individual's life is the most private, and even a mother has no right to interfere with a child's thoughtful choice!

So she paid special attention to Venus' diet. She wanted to give Venus nutrition before the operation. Without a strong body, how can you stand that ordeal?

At this time, my father made a special trip to Beijing and handed the rewritten ID card to Venus.

"Dad, is it difficult to rewrite your ID card?" Venus was very sad when her ID card changed from male to female.

"There is a struggle. In addition to applying for an account, I have to apply to the provincial public security department for approval ... however, it is still very smooth. They all praised you for being beautiful! " Father said with a smile.

This is mom and dad. Maybe there are many disappointments in their own lives, but they want their children to be healthy, happy and happy all their lives.

The most selfless thing in the world is parents. Filial piety is fleeting. Looking at his father, who is still in high spirits, Venus is thinking: "Being honest, doing things seriously and leaving shining footprints in the world may be the greatest filial piety. However, if you have time, spend more time with them! "