My parents were sick and I found out...

1. Colleague Xu Dapang has been running away as soon as he gets off work recently, and he always asks for leave during department meetings. That day at lunch in the restaurant, he was so worried that he mentioned that someone at home was sick!

It’s Fatty Xu’s father. I saw Fatty when he got married. He was tall, tall and very energetic. He had just retired from his county education position a few years ago.

Big Fat said, my dad was diagnosed with advanced gastric cancer yesterday.

I always had toothache at first, which caused trigeminal neuralgia on my face. I went to the local hospital for dental treatment and it was fine. Later, my stomach hurt occasionally and I gradually lost weight. I went to the provincial hospital and took a stomach X-ray and found out.

Doctors say that this situation is to delay life and reduce pain. The cancer cells in the stomach have spread to the lungs and pancreas, and the best time for treatment has been missed. There is nothing we can do.

The seven-foot man in front of me said with tears, do you know? We are three brothers and sisters. Although our parents are working, they still save money to support our education in college. After graduation, they all went to work in other cities, and then started families one after another. When my parents were a little sick, they took some medicine and injections to deal with it. When they called home, everything was fine, allowing us to work with peace of mind.

I also thought that after the house was renovated, I would bring the elderly over to live together. Unexpectedly, they were brought here because they were sick.

My little sister said that one night when she went to the bathroom, she heard running water and the sound of crying. My mother was doing laundry while crying.

It sounds so uncomfortable. I have to pretend nothing happened during the day. She also advised us to go back to work early and just have her with us. I still can't believe it, my dad collapsed. Seeing him getting thinner and thinner, why didn't he spend more time with them? Take the elderly for annual physical examination? There will be no such thing. Children are so selfish!

While comforting Big Fatty Xu and coming up with ideas, we were also tortured in our hearts: Do we only have time to spend with our parents when they are sick? Go home after get off work and have a meal with your family! Don't wait until "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop, the son wants to be filial but doesn't wait for his relatives"!

2. Maybe the cancer example seems a little extreme, but the following things are true.

In my mother-in-law’s village, there are immigrants who have moved down from the mountains. In a family, there is an old mother and her son. It is said that a few years ago the shopkeeper lost his footing while collecting honey in the mountains and fell to his death. According to the national immigration and relocation policy, the land was divided, houses were built, and the conditions and income were much better than those in the mountains.

But who would have thought that the old mother's brain was not in good shape again. She ran around, picking up things to eat, and didn't remember anything. She only knew her son. I went for a checkup and said it was cerebellar atrophy.

The son has not yet married a wife and has to work hard to make a living. Always prepare food and drink before going out, and lock the door, lest she get lost.

Sometimes it’s okay. When I come back, I can see that my mother is at ease. I often see them cutting nails, washing hair, and talking to the elderly in the hospital. Sometimes, when the door is open, I know that the old man has run away again. I don't have time to rest, so I ask and look for him one by one.

It is said that he is very filial.

People in the village talked about why he was still an only child. If he had a brother and sister to help him, he would have lived a good life. Later, my mother fell, kowtowed, and died. Some people say that the fall is true, and the son drugged his mother...

Parents are bound to suffer from minor illnesses and pains, and it is really hard for a child. I was hospitalized and stayed up night after night to take care of me. I really couldn't stand it. There is no one to discuss big and small matters at home, so I am helpless.

It would be great if the country relaxed its two-child policy earlier!

3. You must have money. The old man is sick and you don't have time to take care of him, and he is an only child. Find a nanny or a caregiver. You should always pay for the care.

There was an old man who sprained his ankle and couldn't get off the ground. He wanted to call his two sons who were working outside to see if they could come back and take care of them. The call was finally answered, and the old man thought: Isn't it because my family is poor and I finally opened a noodle shop? Once the store is closed, how much money will be lost in a day? We haven't even started a family yet, so we can earn a little bit. The sons are considered filial, so they send their living expenses monthly, buy more fruits and nutritional supplements, and get ready early!

The neighbors gave me bowls of rice, boiled kettles of water, and helped buy some food. I was able to go to the fields, but my sons still didn’t come back.

The old man was so upset that he couldn't say anything.

If you have money, at least you won’t have to worry about medical expenses when the elderly are sick, and you can recuperate comfortably. If you have a serious illness and have no money, can you provide your parents with good medical conditions and standards? In other words, are you willing to sell your house and car to treat the elderly?

4. My parents are sick. No matter what the illness is, they look uncomfortable and hope to get better soon.

But have you really cared about their bodies? It hurts somewhere, feels uncomfortable somewhere, I feel uncomfortable tossing and turning at night and can't sleep, you know?

But my parents often tell me not to drink too much. If I have a bad stomach, I should eat on time...

"The hair and skin of the body are received by the parents and dare not damage them. This is the beginning of filial piety."< /p>

When your parents are sick, children should pay more attention to their own health. Only when children are safe and healthy can they honor their parents.

Sometimes, the disease comes very suddenly, and we want to do something for our parents, but we don’t have the chance. When your parents are in good health, pay more attention to them and accompany them to spend the rest of their lives slowly.

The above are purely personal opinions. If there are any similarities, please do not disagree!

When someone else’s elderly person gets sick, that’s a “story.” If someone’s family has a sick person, that’s an “accident.” We all experience "accidents", so think more about what we can do.

Because we will all grow old!