How to persuade your friends to give up their dream of settling in Tibet, herding sheep, and marrying Tibetans, and work hard in reality?

First of all, please forgive me for my subsequent answer, which must be free and rambling. My classmate met with a misfortune while hitchhiking to Tibet. All four of them could not be saved, so I started to pay attention to the issues in Tibet while being shocked. Nowadays, many people believe that going to Tibet can find the true meaning of life and lead a quiet and simple life. Not to mention 100% of these people, at least 99% are young people. Two characteristics, one is passionate, the other is irrational. For your colleagues, enthusiasm is reflected in two aspects. The first is impetuousness and madness about the current work and life, and the second is the belief that their bodies can adapt to the real life of herdsmen. And being irrational is reflected in never thinking about whether you just want to escape pressure and responsibility. It's normal to have some novel experiences while traveling, and it's normal to be touched and shocked, but it's a dangerous and ridiculous idea to rush there for the rest of your life just because of these quick glances. Life is always somewhere else. This mountain looks higher than that mountain. If the life she longed for was really perfect, why would so many Tibetans flock to urban life? The native Tibetans have adapted to the unobstructed ultraviolet rays and the unbridled snowstorms. Can your colleagues endure being sunburned until their skin is as dark and peeling as scorched earth, and sometimes being blown into pieces and bleeding like a turtle shell? Can she bear the thought of driving cattle and sheep to graze all year round when she opens her eyes? When she closes her eyes, men who don't understand style and romance are violently exercising their sexual rights. From now on, there will be no light clothes in her life. She wants to say goodbye to chiffon, silk, and the sexy exposure that women should enjoy. She wears a Tibetan robe and takes off her sleeves to breastfeed, and rubs her sweat on every corner of her clothes. There are no KTVs, birthday parties, or anything else that would seem pretentious and extravagant on the plateau. Is this what she wants? Or she had never seriously thought about everything that would follow. It was just that she was incompetent and could not adapt to the cruelty that came after she had just left the safe haven of the university and entered the workplace.