Why do women have children? I don't want children.

The reason is this. I am a mental cleanliness freak. I just want to be husband and wife for life! I don't want such a third party. I hope my husband's love only belongs to himself. I don't want a child to share his time and love. He doesn't spend much time at home and even less time with me. If I have children, how long do I have to stay with me? I think if I have a child, he will love that child more, and I will become a slave to the child, and there will be no more love. After I gave birth to the child, his parents naturally gave all their love to the child. What am I? Besides, my husband likes children very much, so do other people's children, not to mention his own, so after having this child, he naturally won't love me anymore. And everyone knows that men don't take care of children, so in the end they have to take care of themselves and raise them themselves.

Maybe you will think my idea is more extreme! But this is the reality. With this child, my husband doesn't love himself. His love for you is family at most, not lover. If a man loves a woman, no one can look at it again. What's more, let you feed that child! Forget it if the child is a woman, if the child is a man! He can safely give you to a man, which means he doesn't love you anymore. Of course, I gave birth to a girl, and maybe I will be close to him in the future, which will make me more jealous. So you think, if a child is born unpleasant, what will he do?

I know many people may object to my point of view. It is a lie to say that he will love you more when he has children, and that his family will love you more when he has children. Just like at the beginning, he said he would love me more after marriage, but in the end he just let his mother force me, making me unable to resist. In fact, from the first day I fell in love with him, I was forced by my mother to have children. I didn't like him very much at that time. I want to leave him, but to be honest, I still care too much about him, so although he chases me, I actually love him. Perhaps for this reason, women who are easy to get always don't cherish them.

If he will leave me eventually, it can only show that he doesn't love me enough. I think, if I were a man, I would not stand it. There is such a nuisance in my wife's belly. A wife should only belong to herself. Why should one more person share her love for me? A woman will give her children a lot of love after giving birth. How much love can she get? Of course, if she insists on one, I can only respect her. If you don't want to, I happen to be happy to spend my life with her. I really can't understand why men want children. Don't they all love their wives? I think maybe the person I really love is not the one who married home. Maybe they just married a woman to satisfy their family, and the real purpose of marrying a woman is to have a child and let this woman be the mother of this child. If one day, I give birth to a child, it must be because I am completely disappointed and desperate for the father of the child. I just want to leave him with our children. When I miss him, I can see our children. I don't think I will accept him anymore, because he betrayed our feelings. He wants to trap me with a child, so that I can no longer care about him and bother him. So he can go out to play with other women. It's best to leave him at the beginning, so that you won't be sad.

Actually, think about it. Throughout the ages. Don't men let women have children just to muddle along? Even if you control him during pregnancy, do you still have the energy to control him after giving birth? When a man has a mistress, he will let a woman have children! A man urged his woman to have children. There must be someone he likes outside. Even if not, it is estimated that his love is gone. Otherwise, how can you have the heart to do such a dangerous and hard thing? Postpartum depression, I think a lot of it is related to this. Only after giving birth will you find that your husband doesn't love himself. After giving birth, the subsidy is very small. Women who have given birth have no financial ability to support themselves. I finally recovered from confinement, and then I looked for a job when I recovered. When a woman completely loses her financial ability, she can only tolerate having a third child. This mistress is either your own or there is a woman outside. Of course, I don't rule out having a boyfriend. In this world, anything can happen.

Of course, it does not rule out that someone really loves this woman. But through the ages, how many people really love this woman and let her have children! Because this itself is very contradictory, if you love this woman, you will really feel sorry for her and be afraid that she will be hurt. Giving birth to a child is very dangerous. Even if it is finally born, it will leave an indelible mark on women for life. Will a man still love this woman when he looks at these marks? In particular, the vagina will become slack, and many men will not look for women after giving birth. Is that why? At the expense of health, it is better to be selfish from the beginning than to win the love of men in the end.

Some people may say, raising children to prevent old age. If you are really worried, if you are old and have no one to support you, then go abroad. Abroad, some countries provide free medical care. When you retire, you will get out of your pension, and then a nurse will take care of your diet and daily life. The disadvantage is that I paid a high tax when I was young. After all, in China, many people don't pay taxes. If you have children, you can really provide some financial support when the children grow up to support themselves. But I think it's very small, because when the children grow up, the economy will have developed by then, and our money in those years will be worthless long ago. However, most children still need family help before the age of 30. Including marriage, buying a house and a car, life, all aspects. If he doesn't have a skill, he will eventually become a neet. Therefore, it is a lie to raise children to prevent old age. After all, children can't take care of you even if they earn money, and an old man can't move himself, so what he really wants is not money, but someone who can take care of himself.

If it's a daughter, will she take care of you? A girl who has to work can't take care of the elderly. Some people may say that it is because the man your daughter married is not good, but the question is, can you guarantee that the man you like must have that ability before falling in love? If you can't, the result is that you sacrificed your love for the care of a man who is not so reliable. Then he will probably abandon you in a few years, and you are still an old lady with children. According to the third judicial interpretation, she didn't get any property, so it is difficult for housewives over 35 years old in China to find a decent job. If you insist on working, then the old people at home will naturally be left unattended. If the above events happen, you will come back to chew old. Even if you find a job, it's manual work, which is very hard. There is another child here. How hard does she take care of you? Is it true that you went to help her with the children?

If you have a son, can you guarantee that he will be a rich man in the future? If he is not rich, will he come back to live on his laurels? Maybe you said he would find another job, so by the same token, he is doing manual labor, which may be very hard, and naturally he can't take care of you. Maybe you have to take care of him, or there is another possibility that he decided to continue to work hard and go to a big city, so it is impossible to take care of you without you. Maybe you will say that I am in a big city, so you are lucky, because he is by your side anyway, but how much will he take care of you after work? Also, how many people can have such luck? Not everyone lives in big cities like Beijing and Shanghai. Then you may need to start working hard now to keep him in these big cities as soon as he is born, and don't go to other cities, but I believe many people born in Beijing and Shanghai will go to Hong Kong or other places to work! So the same thing still exists, unless your son is incapable and can only stay in this city. But to what extent can he take care of you in this situation? If he lives in such a big city, can his salary support his wife, children and you? Even if he can, will his wife take care of you? Would his wife like to live with you? Can you guarantee that the woman your son marries is willing to be a housewife? If she doesn't want to go to work, then you still have no one to take care of you, and you may have to help take care of your grandchildren. By the way, in Beijing and Shanghai, house prices are very high. You have to prepare two houses. Will a man and a woman marry him without a house? Oh, how much money are you going to prepare to raise this child?

Finally, even if these problems are solved, please ask a care worker to take care of you! Because the child has to work, it is not much different from foreign countries, so the nurse will take care of you. The only difference is that you are abroad, give money to the country, and you have a son at home. But at home, if something happens to this son halfway, he loses his ability to work, or dies unfortunately, you lose all your investment. Pension has become a problem. Evening is still bleak. Of course, it is not excluded that the government will take care of you, but to what extent will the government take care of you? As far as I know, the money paid by the low-income households is only a few hundred yuan, which is not enough for you to eat. How to find someone to help you with this money? But if you are abroad, the government will support you anyway. After all, after paying such a high tax, the only thing you need to do is to give yourself a house. Then learn English well.

Then what do you mean? It is possible to raise children to prevent old age, and people and money are empty, because raising children to prevent old age is actually a lie. China implements family planning and can only raise one child. If you die, you're gone.

So what happens if we don't have children? Now they are all only children. If you don't have children, the wealth of the family will accumulate on these two children. Then, if you both work hard outside, the woman should also have a good income, and the man will also have a good income. Then when you get old, there will be a lot of income, and then you two can travel, live a good old age and settle abroad, and then have a nurse to take care of you. Isn't life very good? Now moving abroad, the conditions are actually very relaxed. See how Xifeng immigrated. It cost almost nothing, just a plane ticket. Then, after arriving in the United States, the government will issue relief after passing immigration supervision. For low-income families, it will be much more comfortable in some European and American countries. Of course, they will risk their lives at any time. After all, the domestic social environment is still much more stable, and there are still many terrorist attacks abroad.

I believe that most people in China are still low-income families, not very rich. This is why a large number of post-80s generation become house slaves, car slaves, card slaves and child slaves. You don't have to buy a house. After all, they are all only children, and there will be many more houses in the end. A car is not a necessity, after all, public transportation is quite convenient. Just get up early. Credit card is not a necessity, because you can spend less money or pay by credit card. Children don't have to be born. It was someone else's morality that kidnapped you and forced you to have children.

What is the crisis?

When you are old, it may be difficult to get a pension in China. Look at the current situation in Japan. This is the real reason why the older generation forced you to have children. Therefore, children are not born for themselves, but cultivated for the country. Before the founding of New China, many people died in the war. The state encourages more births, and there were heroic mothers in those days, so people in those days liked to have children. They think it is glorious to have a child and train talents for the country. Children are the hope of the future of the country. Because of this, foreign children are raised by the state until they reach adulthood. However, because China implements family planning, only one child is allowed. So it is natural to think that it is better not to be born. In response to the call of the country, modern women have no children with double income, or most adults don't want children. But because of the pressure from my parents, I had to have a baby. Because people in that era responded to the call of the state and obeyed the party organization in their bones, she would tell you that the state said it was good to have only one child. This means that you must have one. The country didn't say it was necessary to have children. This is their ideology: having children is patriotism.