Lose your illusions and emigrate early.

I think you should tell him first, and then give up when you are sure he doesn't like you.

If you like someone for three years, but you still don't have the courage to tell her, won't it be a pity to give up like this? When you like someone for so long, it shows that you have enough perseverance to be single-minded, but when you have been single-minded for so long, there is no result. Are you willing?

So before you give up, you should at least make it clear to him so that you can know what he thinks. In case he likes you, wouldn't it be a pity that you just gave up like that? So before you give up, see how he answers you. If he likes you, everyone is happy. If he doesn't like you, he won't regret giving up again.

Being able to like someone for three years means that his position in your heart is really important and that he is excellent. Otherwise, you won't spend three years liking him. Of all the people in the world, you chose him. Explain that he really has his sense of superiority, don't give up easily, or you will be sorry for yourself! A little harder, maybe you can hold his hand.

Your persistence in giving up shows that you are really tired, but before you want to rest, look back at the dribs and drabs of these three years and think about the road you have traveled in these three years. If you don't take this road again, will you regret it If you lose someone in your heart from now on, will you feel distressed? If you have no one to miss from now on, will you feel lonely?

So if you like a woman for three years, you must think it over before giving up. No one wants to give up decisively without any result, which will become a lifelong regret.