Is it certain that being a mistress will not end well?

On TV or in novels, no matter how proud mistress is at first, she will end up in tragedy and should be loved by the audience. However, in real life, San Xiao's fate is often not necessarily the case. Although they live in hiding, there is no denying that they also live a glamorous life. If the inspiration comes from life and the words are written, you can type slowly in a word document and delete all the words easily, or you can be as careful as Jia Dao's "innocent girl Pool Tree, Monks Knock at the Door". But life is a mirror, and what is reflected in the mirror is what it is. This is an unchangeable reality.

Just graduated this year, I was "honored" to meet San Xiao, a special group, in my first job. She is my brother-in-law's niece and lives on the second floor. I live in my brother-in-law's house on the first floor because of my work. The adulterer is the director of our sales department and the whole office knows their shit. Although everyone is shameless and disgusting when they talk about this kind of "dog men and women" in private, in practical work, whether to help San Xiao is just to talk to her less. Because of this, Xiao San has only one friend in the office, but she doesn't bother to deal with colleagues. She always pretends to be cold in front of us, as long as you flatter her: you are so beautiful! She can't pretend to be forced at once, the smiling flowers tremble instantly, a slut.

Of course, I didn't write this article specifically for these two "rotten people", but wanted to express my disdain, jealousy and doubt at that time. Disdain, needless to say, I even sent a circle of friends to express my contempt and spit on San Xiao. The result was screened by a colleague, and then secretly caused a small sensation in the office. After all, they only talked in private. I think it's public, but I'm not worried that it will spread to San Xiao. So what if I know? She has her own way and I have my own attitude. What are you afraid of being said after doing such a thing? Do you really want to be a bitch and build a chastity memorial arch? What's more, I have resigned and am waiting for someone to take over the job. But I'm still a little embarrassed, because at the end of the post in my circle of friends, I wrote some inspirational words about chicken soup, which I didn't want to show to my acquaintances, but when people in the office saw it, they always felt a little embarrassed and suspected of "belittling others and raising themselves" Even if my friend told me that it wasn't to belittle others, she wanted to belittle herself. I couldn't help but feel ashamed when I thought of those chicken soup words.

Jealous, funny to say, I'm jealous of mistress? Even I smiled and gave a wry smile ... I was really jealous at that time. She is the same age as me and has a similar family background, but she can easily get everything I want. A star concert ticket cost more than 1000 yuan, which is one third of my salary, and I send one third of my work home every month, so I can only think about the concert, but Xiaosan went to the concert, of course with that bitch; I stayed at home during the 7-day National Day holiday, because I accidentally spent more money before, so my budget was a little tight. But San Xiao went to Macau to play. Although she went for two days, after all, that bitch still had to go home to accompany her wife and son. Macau, one of my tourist attractions, will definitely not be able to go this year. I have no time or budget at all. I am a real wage earner. At work, that bitch wants to promote her to be the manager of a French group. He wants to promote a little girl (Bi) who works in the shipping department to be the manager of the French group in the sales department? ! Excuse me, is he crazy? Any employee in the sales department is much better than that mistress. ? Later, other managers in the sales department objected, so this bitch transferred San Xiao to other groups in the sales department (the American group next to me) for training. When customers come, he takes San Xiao to meet them. The merchandiser will not meet the customer, only the manager will receive the customer. No matter in life or at work, San Xiao can get these things I want more easily than I can, which I have to work hard for several years to get, or I may not get them in the end. So, I am jealous. Maybe it's because I don't pay enough attention. Just entering social work, I want everything and get everything soon. I think every day that success is faster than parents' aging, but ironically, I sigh that time flies, but I feel bored, monotonous and wasteful. Fight hard? While I envy others, I also hate my incompetence.

Later, I even doubted my values. As long as San Xiao is naked and shameless, lying in bed can easily get everything I want: a glamorous life and a promotion at work. Although she is not ashamed of her dirty means, no one dares to be shameless in front of them. Even if San Xiao is like a rat crossing the street and everyone shouts, no one can really beat San Xiao (except his first wife), let alone the wife of a Hong Kong bitch. Occasionally, colleagues will bump into dog men and women who have a tryst. Although the two sides were a little embarrassed at that time, everything was as usual at work, and no one dared to look at it again. No matter how annoying a mistress is, no one dares to offend her after all. Sometimes I think that if I take this shortcut, I can succeed faster and get everything I want faster. However, I can't help asking myself: Can you lie down? I have asked myself several times, and the answer is the same: I can't do it ~ it's disgusting! From then on, I finally admitted from the bottom of my heart: the world is not rewarded by hard work, and the efforts of others in bed are more beneficial than your efforts day and night. Although this view is a bit gloomy, as the saying goes, the values before the age of 25 are fragile. This is my current temporary cognition.

After that, I thought about how to let Big Milk know about this and arrest her. Unfortunately, I don't know anything except the existence of big milk. I even told one of my colleagues many times: "I hope she (mistress) didn't get a promotion before I left my job." Otherwise, I really feel unfair. " Is it unfair? All I know is that I don't want to see him promoted. A man of my age with the lowest qualifications in the same department was promoted to manager in a short time. I envy her bright future, but I also despise her superior means. Therefore, I must strengthen my own strength. She can rely on men to take her everywhere, see more scenery and experience high-end enjoyment. I can also try to improve myself with my existing abilities and try to live the life I want.

So I began to pick up a pen, write one or two articles every weekend, get a fitness card, go to the gym to practice yoga, learn jazz dance and exercise myself after work every day; Learn to manage money, save travel expenses, open source and reduce expenditure; Read 1 or 2 books every month, go to bed before 10: 15 every night, and never stay up late. Get up early for half an hour to read or write in the morning. It seems that the whole day's itinerary is full, but it is not. Isn't it exciting to be able to do what you want at any time? I'm trying to live the life I want, and now I'm thinking about what kind of workplace strength I should improve in the first half of next year. If I don't arrange something attractive for myself, I'm afraid I'll waste my time playing with my mobile phone all day.

San Xiao will always be a writer's heart. Without this role, the story would not be so long. Of course, many screenwriters and authors also give suggestions on how to deal with the third wife in the workplace. For example, in the previous hit drama Ode to Joy, another intern in Guanguan hooked up with his manager's boss and could face the internship assessment without fear, while other interns thought they were so serious, so hard and often worked overtime, but in the end they had to face the assessment with fear. Such an unbalanced gap made them immediately have the idea of revenge, and the result? Those intern colleagues who took part in revenge were all called out to talk, and the female intern colleague who hooked up with the boss was still sitting there safely. And customs clearance? After getting the guidance of my predecessor Andy, I decided not to take part in revenge, and I firmly believed that being myself and having a clear conscience was the best response. Finally, Guan Guan passed the internship exam ~

In Ming Xiaoxi's novel Summer of Bubbles, actress A learns that actress B can make a successful debut from an ordinary assistant and become a popular actress by seducing a man with status. So jealous actress A tried to get back at actress B, and finally framed the heroine Xia Mo because of jealousy. On the occasion of exposing the plot of actress B, Xia Mo said this: "If Andrew West (actress B) normally likes Jam (a man who made a successful debut), they are congenial and have nothing to do with you; If Vian doesn't like jam, then she has paid the price for her success, at least the price you don't want to pay. Whether everyone's success depends on their own ability is contrary to heaven. It takes time to prove, and you don't need to be a messenger of justice. Besides, do you really want justice? " Not for justice, of course. I just feel that my efforts are not worth it, so I have to eradicate dissidents. All revenge is nothing more than exposing the scandal of dog men and women in public. However, for others, this is just a joke after dinner. Whoever wants to intervene will be in trouble, but you should weigh yourself well. Big people are too lazy to do these things, and small people are really not to be taunted. Therefore, being yourself and having a clear conscience is the best solution. If you feel that you see these dogs and men all day long, then jump ship, but please remember that no matter where you are, being yourself and improving yourself will always be a melody. After all, being a mistress in the workplace will not be eliminated.

The real mistress may not end up as miserable as on TV, and even lead a glamorous life, which makes people look askance, envy and hate. But to borrow a sentence from the book "Meeting Unknown You": There are only three things in this world: my business, his business and God's business. How mean mistress is is her business. We can't mind other people's business. It's not easy to do your own thing. Why bother to think about other people's affairs? Besides, it's all God's business. Everyone's success depends on his own ability, and his own time will prove it. We can't act as "false" messengers of justice. If you really want to take care of it, you should weigh your own weight, but don't put yourself in it. I will continue to work hard. I must rely on my own hands and wisdom to get everything I want, and you can certainly do it!