Northeastern people are just more outgoing, so why are they labeled as "tough"?

I think this is a kind of detachment that has become folklore. It's like you encounter an unpleasant problem, but there is very little you can change, so you can only accept it with ease. In order not to be tortured by it, you even need to find some merits in a different way, and finally it suddenly becomes enlightened. Then he spoke and laughed. In fact, this is a kind of subordination and positive adaptation to life. Over time, it was accepted by more and more people living in the same living environment, and this style you see was formed.

Actually, what you see is just the smiling side. Northeastern people also flip the table immediately when they have something to say. It’s just that you don’t see much.

First of all, from a climate perspective, the winter in Northeast China is very long. Cold weather reduces people's outdoor activities, leaving more time and opportunities for people to communicate indoors. A lot of free time laid a certain foundation for chatting. Think about me. Before I came to the Northeast, I was not very talkative. However, after living in the Northeast for a few years, I fell into a chatty mood. For this reason, my mother talked about me every day. Therefore, when we meet Northeastern people, they often say, "No need to worry, just chatting and chatting." They have used this "nagging" as a form of entertainment, and it must not be all serious topics, so everyone will spend time on it. Try to tell some funny jokes, everyone laughs, the relationship between each other deepens, and you also get psychological satisfaction. Over time, finding humor in the trivial and trivial things in the family, "Everyone is a joker", has become a necessary skill for everyone to chat.

I personally think that the Northeastern people are humorous in their speech. One of them is caused by the cultural accumulation of immigrants. First of all, before liberation, a large number of people from the north and the south fled to the White Mountains and Black Waters. Due to successive years of famine, the Northeast is so vast. The attraction of sparse people, ginseng, wild beasts, and fertile black soil. Secondly, the Northeast is the hometown of the Manchu people. Nurhaci’s descendants brought their children’s books and Peking Opera back to the Northeast in Shenyang. After breaking into Guandong, people from all over the motherland were integrated here, and the accents were rich and varied. Then there is the aspect of language humor that the long winter also creates.