The long-distance partner suggested that it is available, do you accept it?

I personally can accept long-distance partners, because when two people are in a long-distance relationship, sometimes they really need to be considerate of each other, and they need to contact each other and have regular contact. The person who thinks this is an old saying is new. Dudu has said this in other experiences, but for men and women who are in love, being able to live together seems to be the happiest thing. Of course, what a man and a woman in love want most is to be able to see each other all the time, so there is nothing wrong with wanting the two to live together. However, for the sake of the long-lasting love and for the love to remain fresh, I personally recommend not to live together. Even though there will be a sense of freshness and satisfaction after living together, those feelings have a shelf life. Once the shelf life is over, each other is nothing. Not to mention the novelty of love, even "love" is probably impossible to fall in love with.

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Don’t repeat “daily life” day after day

This point includes a lot, but it is basically the daily way two people get along, such as The pattern of two people eating together, the state of speaking, the style of acting, etc. are all included. After two people have been together for a long time, they will be very familiar with each other's styles and habits. But what do you think is new about everything that is too familiar? Let’s use an analogy to explain it. For example, if you almost go to a restaurant to eat, it feels very meaningful at first, but after a long time, it will become boring. Then you should change the restaurant appropriately. No matter how delicious the food is, it will become tasteless after a long time. Don't let your love turn into a meal that tastes just like wax.

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Keep yourself mysterious

It’s not difficult at all, it depends on whether you are willing. Men and women in love wish they could tell each other their stories inside and out, up and down, and for hundreds of years. But as they get to know each other better, the novelty of love gradually fades away. After getting to know each other well, the mystery about each other has disappeared, and the so-called freshness of love will no longer exist. Remember, even if you love the other person again, you must maintain a sense of mystery. Don't think that transparent love is really the best way to last forever.

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It is better to lose a few points of passionate love

I have always admired a saying, that is, if you love ten points, leave three points to love yourself. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, when you love someone, don't love someone so much that you lose yourself. When you love someone and lose yourself, that's when you are about to lose this love. Don't think that if you give ten points in love, you will get ten points. Remember, when you give too much in love, your reward may be negative. There is a line in the lyrics that is quite right. It says that the deeper you love, the more truly you are hurt. This is not a pretentious expression of sadness, but a portrayal of reality.

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Always retain your own personality

In fact, this is also a manifestation of loving without losing yourself. We often hear this sentence, I love you, I am willing to change everything about myself for you. But when we love, when we change everything about ourselves for love, when we become the image that the other person wants to see, you find that you are exhausted, and the other person has already lost all love for you. why is that? I think that what you love is that you have lost yourself, that what you love has lost even a little bit of your own personality. In this case, the love is gone, how can the freshness of love be there? No matter how much you love, remember that you are an independent you.

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Don’t rely too much on the other person

This includes many aspects, including dependence in life and emotional dependence. These two kinds of dependence are enough to make a person Another person develops fatigue and boredom. When in love, men and women in love will say this to you: I like to see you relying on me, so that I will have a strong desire to protect you. This sentence is true, but it also has a shelf life. When you truly rely on the other person for everything, you become a burden to the other person. Think about it for yourself, who will always love someone who is their own burden? It's really not difficult to keep love fresh. As long as you are yourself forever, you are not afraid of not having love, let alone losing the so-called freshness of love.

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Don’t be a burden to the other party regarding money

This is a common mistake made by some men and women in love. Generally speaking, girls like to make this kind of mistake. mistake. Finding a boyfriend is like finding an unlimited cash machine. Shopping and swiping cards are all your boyfriend's business. Not only do you want your boyfriend to pay for your own consumption, but you also want your boyfriend to pay for your family's consumption. In this case, are you in love, or are you exchanging your youth for something? As for the other person, to love someone you have to give not only your feelings, but also unlimited money. Over time, love has deteriorated, so what novelty are you looking for? Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, remember that love is not a cash machine.

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Minimize physical contact as much as possible

Of course, you said that men and women in love always keep a physical distance, which is unlikely. . Especially nowadays, even men and women who have never met have the possibility of dating together. How can the physical desires of men and women in love always maintain control? But no matter what, remember to minimize the chance of physical overexposure.

When a person has love for another person, whether it is emotion or body, it is what the other person wants to have. Once they have it, and have it without any suspense, and have it at their call, that mysterious feeling With freshness, it is really "cheap". Forgive me for using the word "cheap", you may think it is inappropriate, but if you think about it carefully, there is really no word that can replace it. Remember, I want to maintain love. For the freshness, please respect your own body.