Excerpt from the first episode of Special Cruelty and Love.

Sarah, the author of this book, is of Jewish descent. She was born in Shanghai, China, and has two sons and one daughter. After the establishment of diplomatic relations between China and Israel, under the call of "returning to the homeland", and in order to enable children to experience hardships in different environments, learn to be strong and know how to live, Sarah gave up the superior life in Shanghai and came to war-torn Israel with her three children, and began a special experience of transnational education.

I want my children to be admitted to the salad of a famous school in the college entrance examination, find a good job after graduation and get happiness in life. However, what Israel saw and heard made Sarah resolutely give up being a "Chinese mother" and become a "Jewish mother". Sarah's Secret Book of Israeli Love for Sons is regarded by many people as "cold" maternal love in China, but it has made her two sons dream of making money.

The magical story of salad educating children once refreshed the then Israeli Prime Minister Rabin. To this end, Rabin cordially received Sarah and told her that Jews love their children, just like China, which is also world-famous. This land will let her find another secret of loving her son. With the increasing number of "child slaves", "nerds" and "helicopter parents", "special love" will make more parents in China re-examine their education methods, so as to explore what true love is and what can help their children achieve long-term happiness in life.

I have heard of the paid living mechanism advocated by Jews before, but after careful reading, it is not all we understand. Therefore, if you want to know about Jewish family education, you must read this book. This paper extracts some contents without making any comments, so that readers can understand the author's original intention by themselves. Due to the limitation of space, only a part is extracted, and there is no context. I'm afraid my understanding of the original work will be biased. Therefore, if you want to fully understand this book, readers are advised to buy the original.

"Especially cruel and especially loving" means loving children with sacrifice and wisdom.

On the Importance of Making Friends

The secret of a happy life

Deviated quality education

100 points Parents are not love but harm.

Slow cultivation method

I always look back for my mother's children, and I can't go far.

Constant nagging can cause children to be "deaf"

Dad, when can you give me a pair of hands?

Teach children not to dig up old scores.

The distance between parents and children

Jewish parents are very tolerant of their children.

When Jewish parents punish their children, ask yourself.

The art of praise

Academic reserve

For the educational difficulties faced by parents in China today, many ideas and methods in this paper are very necessary and operable, and it is really a rare family letter especially suitable for parents in China.

To be continued—