The strange face circle of immigrants

The first time I opened it, I thought for a long time and didn't know what to write. Suddenly, a false proposition came to my mind. "Who is more important, seat, face or ticket?"

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Just kidding, it is normal for a recruit to encounter such unsolvable problems. There are many unknowns and puzzles about society, life and workplace. As an "old campaigner" who has been fighting for more than ten years, it is really a joke. But I have to say that the reality is so cruel. A teenager who once vowed that "the sky is wide and the flowers are fragrant" will be ground without edges and corners ... Even with the twinkling stars, it will be an instant success, more and more annoying and more reflective.

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Let's get to the point and return to the wrong assumption of opening the topic. "Who is more important, seat, face or ticket?" It reflects the change of people's mentality after joining the job. At first, the moment I stepped out of the school gate, the spirit and confidence of "determination to pull mountains and rivers" rose in my heart. As long as I work hard, the world is mine. Bold words ... will be migrated by the material world bit by bit with the passage of time. Slowly, I began to be cynical, and I began to think about whether I wanted a ticket or a seat, or just to win face.

04

My mentality has changed, my cognition has changed, and I have fallen into the strange circle of this false proposition.

05

When I first graduated, the vast majority of students with ideals and ambitions had basically the same thoughts. Seats, faces and tickets are not important.

After three years of employment, you will continue to struggle, thinking about whether the seat, ticket and your contribution are balanced and equal.

After you get married and have children, you will pay more attention to my status. Can you give me more tickets? You humiliated me? ……

Over and over again, this problem will become more and more serious with age. It is not so much a "middle-aged crisis" as a reflection on whether it is a subconscious "call" such as "life pressure", "family pressure" and "skill panic".

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Remember, life and society will always make us unable to finish this bowl of rice ~ The sooner you become more practical (mentality), the sooner you become harder (skills/skills), and the sooner you become more interesting (experience/experience/communication). Even if you are not the most successful one, you must be in the 20% above the happiness line.