What is the gap between first-tier cities and third-and fourth-tier cities?

To tell you the truth, I feel quite happy. When I just graduated, I found a job in Zhengzhou and stayed for a while, but before long, I was repeatedly dismissed by different companies. Since then, I have left Zhengzhou and returned to the fourth-tier small city where I live.

To tell the truth, after returning to my fourth-tier small city, life is much easier than in Zhengzhou, and there is no longer so much pressure in life. The most obvious example is that I have a house directly in a small fourth-tier city, but I have to earn money to buy a house in Zhengzhou.

1, for many people, returning from first-tier cities to third-and fourth-tier cities will have a sense of psychological gap.

For a considerable number of people, returning from first-tier cities to third-and fourth-tier cities will make them feel a sense of gap and feel that they have failed, especially those who are more conceited, and feel that returning to this place has delayed their development. For such people, I think it won't be long before they leave again and return to the big city in their eyes.

I have an uncle who went to work in Beijing for a while. Now when he comes home every year, he will tell us how good Beijing is, and he will buy a house in Beijing and will not come back. It is too inconvenient to live in a small city. At that time, I just said a word from my heart, because he was not a white-collar worker in Beijing, but betrayed his labor force. I don't believe he can buy a house in Beijing.

Returning from first-tier cities to fourth-tier cities makes me feel happier.

After returning from the first-tier cities to the current fourth-tier cities, I gained more happiness and the pressure of life was much less. When I was in Zhengzhou, I found a company and became a company employee. I basically have to work 10 hours every day, and overtime is a common occurrence. Sometimes the probation period is dismissed because of poor performance, which is fast-paced and stressful. Finally, I chose to go back to my present city. I took some exams, and now I basically go to work for eight hours every day. It's easier to go to work, and there is no pressure from the house to haunt me. I feel very happy, just find someone to get married and walk into the grave of love.

Everyone has different expectations for the city they live in.

Each of us has our own fantasy about the city where we will live in the future. For example, when I was a child, I often thought about waiting for me to grow up. I originally wanted to live in a big city, live and even immigrate directly. But I didn't know how difficult it was to realize my childhood dream until I grew up. Life is so stressful that I have to bow my head. I admire those who have not bowed their heads. I can't compare with them. Now I want to live a good life in this small town, wait for me.

To sum up, after some people return to third-and fourth-tier cities from first-tier cities, there will be a big gap in their hearts and they will feel that they have failed, but I have never felt this way. On the contrary, I think returning from the first-tier cities to the current fourth-tier cities will make me feel happier and I don't have to bear so much pressure in my life. Although I have no plans to go back to big cities now, I hope those who are still working hard in big cities can break out of their own world. ?