What should I do when I hesitate?

Hesitation is indeed a negative emotion that consumes energy.

First of all, you should realize, introspect and analyze the reasons why you are in such a situation.

Is there no goal, no direction, no interest, or a blow to work, career, career and emotion.

We must find the reason. This is the first step.

Secondly, don't focus on the so-called hesitation. It wasn't like this at first, but you thought of yourself and set a limit for yourself. Think for yourself. Is that right?

Third, we need to find some books to read. Cultivate your interest and hobby in reading, and find strength and energy from books. Every book is the refinement, summary and sublimation of an author's life experience, and some answers can directly inspire you. You can also read biographies of celebrities or inspirational stories about growing up in adversity, which will definitely help you.

Fourth, chatting with friends and girlfriends helps to change the status quo.

Fifth, go out for a walk, walk around, or arrange a trip, go for an outing, etc. To relax and indulge yourself.

Finally, I send you a word: thousands of books is not as good as Wan Li Road, and countless people are not as good as Wan Li Road. It is better to read countless people than to give directions to famous teachers. It is better for a famous teacher to help you and help yourself. I realize that I must work hard now.

There is always one of these options for you. I hope you will be full of passion as soon as possible, empower your dreams and make great strides forward.

First of all, we should calmly analyze the reasons: first, have you worked hard enough? Second, how do you think you are working hard enough? Are you really working hard or just looking hard? Do you spend all your time on the cutting edge, or do some ineffective work every day? Third, is the platform for your work suitable? Fourth, are you interested in this job? Based on the above aspects, we can find the reasons for our hesitation.

When you hesitate, it must be difficult to make a decision when you encounter a problem. At this time, it is a wise choice to keep a cool head, carefully analyze, weigh the pros and cons, and listen to the opinions and suggestions of relatives and friends.

I remember in the late 1990s, my friend Xiao Wu was introduced by a distant relative, saying that a highway was being built somewhere. According to him, a friend of a distant relative is the person in charge of bidding, and Xiao can get the project to build a 2-kilometer section as long as he keeps his word. What do you mean? Xiao Wu asked his distant relatives.

Answer: "About 654.38+00,000".

Xiao Wu was blindsided when he heard that he had to pay the management fee of 1 10,000. He said to Yuan Qi: "2 kilometers is 1 10,000 yuan, isn't it a bit too much?"

A distant relative said, "1 10,000 is too much for you. Others want to take 1 10,000 and still can't find the temple. " Distant relatives gave Xiao Wu an analysis and said that one kilometer is about 9 million, and two kilometers is180,000. Apart from all the expenses, it's strange not to make four or five million.

Xiao Wu was blown in by distant relatives, patched things together, borrowed from relatives and friends, and finally raised 800 thousand. The author and several friends have repeatedly urged Xiao Wu to give up. Xiao Wu was like a ghost at that time, and no one listened.

Later, this two-kilometer-long highway was also acquired and built. At the time of acceptance, the supervision and acceptance personnel said that there was a phenomenon of cutting corners on the two-kilometer pavement, and the cement label was not enough and the thickness was not enough. The two-kilometer road was judged unqualified and required to be reworked. Xiao Wu almost fainted when he heard it. ...

I have worked hard for nearly half a year and invested more than 3 million yuan. This money is still borrowed from the bank. Not only did I not get a penny, but the wages of migrant workers still owed more than 200 thousand. Where does the money come from for rework and reconstruction? Even if I lose everything, I can't rework it. ...

When hesitating, we must keep calm, analyze the pros and cons, and listen to other people's opinions, so that we will not suffer, be cheated, and be cheated.

When you hesitate, you need to pause, think quietly and make a correct judgment about what is happening in front of you.

Everyone has a sixth sense. When you are hesitant about something, it must be that you have no ability to control it. When your strength is not enough, replenish your energy. Visit the wise and ask them to help you point out the maze. We are mortal, we can't cover everything, everything is smart. According to the experience of predecessors, the knowledge of books, and finally the selection, we can get rid of the mystery with half the effort and get enlightenment.

Finally, man proposes, God disposes. As long as you work hard, leave the rest to time. Be brave, take a warning even if you fail, you will never be stronger!

Hesitate, recite a few famous books, and you will be full of passion and confidence.

If business fails, you might as well recite:

Since God has given talents, let them be used! As for the money, although it is scattered, it will get together again.

If your career is blocked, you might as well say:

Bamboo straw sandals are lighter than horses, a misty rain, a lifetime.

If the work gets worse, you might as well recite:

Gold wears golden armor in hundreds of battles, but loulan is not returned.

If the examination room fails, you might as well recite it:

Until September 8 next year, I will kill flowers alone.

If you are over half a year old and your career is unsuccessful, you might as well recite:

An old horse crouches, aiming at a thousand miles. The martyrs were full of courage in their later years.

Remember, life is not only now, but also things and distances!

Question: What should I do when I hesitate?

In one's life, people will always fall down inadvertently, but after getting up, they will hesitate because of the previous shadow. In other words, many people will hesitate because of the pressure of life. There are many reasons for flinching.

In fact, life is like a predetermined video, and we may have no way to change our destiny. If we are characters in one book, then the reader is a character in another book. Even if someone wants to change their destiny like Nezha, they must have this ability. In the dark, our fate has long been doomed and cannot be changed.

When we can't change our destiny, we should make our life wonderful. When we are decadent and hesitant, we should encourage ourselves not to be played by fate and not to give in to it. We should break our own label and let others admire us. Be strict with yourself, or you will ruin your own destiny.

We still have a lot of way to go, and there is no time to waste on indecision.

Every one of us, at some stage of our life, will encounter something that will make us hesitate, make us sleepless and miserable. It can also be called bottleneck period! So what should you do in this situation? To break through yourself, the bottleneck period!

People who are not confident are generally fragile inside. Confident people are full of confidence in themselves, and officials often have positive energy and time full of enthusiasm. All blind self-confidence and empty stomach self-confidence are self-righteous. Have insight in your heart, even if you keep trying and making mistakes, you will eventually reach the day of climbing the peak.

"My mind is full of poems and books." Read more books, learn some knowledge from books and enrich your experience. Hesitation is still a little doubtful for you. You can seek directions from books. Understand and reflect through the contents of the book, and consider your own situation! Completely overcome! You have experienced many things, and gradually you will find that things will not be so difficult. On the contrary, it is very handy! Then stimulate interest.

When you tell another person that you are unhappy, you will find that you are missing half. You're not that sad. The so-called "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." You are easily bound and lost in the circle? This is the advice of someone outside, which will make you suddenly realize! So a friend's talk is also a way for you to hesitate!

Hesitation is not the end of your life, but your new life. After the breakthrough, you will be brand-new. Come on! We are all teenagers chasing dreams!

When hesitating, the most important thing is to be calm. Don't criticize your stagnation, give yourself some time to judge, think and settle down.

A ship without direction, any wind can only go against the wind.

Hesitation is not because you lack the motivation to move forward, but because you lack a certain direction.

Only by knowing what your problems are can you face them and solve them, instead of complaining about why you just can't move forward and why you can only turn around in the same place.

So, give yourself more time, be more patient and don't be lazy. No one else in this world knows yourself better than you. Only you can take full responsibility for your life.

Think about what you really want and what is the most important thing in your life.

When you think about the above questions clearly, your eyes will no longer be foggy. You have a very clear goal, and then it's simple. Take action directly and use your courage and fighting spirit to get closer to your goal step by step.

In this way, when you take the first step, you will be surprised to find that you have broken the spell of hesitation and become a giant in action.

I think there are several ways, which vary from person to person.

First, completely change, leave the original unit, re-select and start over. We must make full preparations in advance, and we must overcome any difficulties and obstacles.

Take it, don't return it!

Second, find the reason and prescribe the right medicine. Whether it is an individual or a unit, it is good to start solving it.

Third, what if you don't think about it? Only work harder to do the work at hand, be positive and strive to join the party! Any work should be at the forefront!

Personal views are for reference only!

Looking at the essence of problem analysis, we need to deeply analyze why we are in a state of "not knowing what we want".

What is missing:

1. qualitative, lacking qualitative objectives.

2. Quantitative, lack of quantitative path planning to achieve qualitative goals.

The lack of qualitative objectives is difficult to solve, but some interfering factors can be rationally analyzed and eliminated.

-Less choices, unwilling to give up.

-choose more, hesitate.

Choosing fewer people does not mean that there are no qualitative goals.

For example,

1. Poverty may make a person who dreams of becoming a first-class director, singer and painter give up in the initial direction for a while. It's good to work to earn money, or to do imitation. But its qualitative goal has not changed. Many times, this is knowing what you want. If you are in a state of indecision in deciding whether to take a detour, then take a big step. Choice is better than hesitation.

2. Sudden physical defects lead to fewer choices, and more is to break through the heart and deeply like other affairs. Of course, many people settle for the second best. If they can't sing, they turn to composition. If you can't play, go to the conductor.

Too many people are at a loss in their choice, but the fields they are exposed to are basically subdivided disciplines. It is unrealistic to dream of achieving a long-term qualitative goal in a short time. Even if the goal you set is achieved in a short time, it will prove that this goal is inappropriate (if you get it, you will lose it, and the sense of emptiness will attack immediately. It will return to the state I want next)

Some people say that if you open your eyes more, you will have a chance to get the love of your life.

Some people say that people always die. In the long night, the stars wander around just to seek inner peace.

Actually, there's nothing wrong with it. No one can really help you with the qualitative problem. The only thing that can help you is the next question, quantitative analysis.

Lack of quantitative methods to achieve the goal

On weekdays, many people are in the following state:

1. I have qualitative goals, but I always feel that I can't do it, and finally I keep changing my goals. This is actually (path missing)

2. There are qualitative goals, but ignorance and disorder make it impossible to achieve them. (lack of measurable path)

In fact, in recent years, someone has given a particularly good example benchmark: qualitative dream goal: immigration to Mars.

Quantitative and measurable path: reduce the cost of immigration to 20W, specifically:

-Recycling large rockets and reducing the material cost by X%

-Connecting the space station with the intermediate station reduces the total cost and controls the risk of Y%.

-Making fuel/alternative fuel nearby. Reduce the cost of Z%

Take a closer look at this dream/goal. At first glance, it seems impossible, but if you look closely, there is a path to follow. So if you feel that you have a goal at present, but you are still hesitating, you may wish to learn from Musk, the helm of the above dream.

What you need to do is to be brave enough to know yourself, explore the world, slowly discover what you are really good at, and then become a person who can really shine in this direction.