What does Venus, who is over 50 years old, rely on to raise a foreign husband for more than ten years?

This friend, Mr. Jinxing, was married before she changed sex, but the marriage didn't last long, which may be due to personality differences and other reasons. Later, Venus met a foreigner. This is Hans. He fell in love with Venus at first sight, and then they got together. And Hans came to China for the stability of this relationship, from which we can see his sincerity. They have been together for 13 years, and Hans chose to be alone with her because of her personality. She is lively and meaningful. Hans found these bright spots in her body.