Both cheated and each lived his own life. Is Xu Zheng and Tao Hong’s open marriage a rumor or a fact?

Both cheat, each has his own way? This kind of comment often appears on the marriages of Xu Zheng and Tao Hong, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan. Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan don’t understand, but I want to say that Xu Zheng and Tao Hong’s open marriage is definitely not a fact. The reasons are mainly explained from three aspects below.

Why did Tao Hong marry Xu Zheng?

Although Xu Zheng is now much more famous than Tao Hong, most people who have paid a little attention to this couple know that when the two got married, Tao Hong was already a popular star, while Xu Zheng was still in the entertainment industry. Just a little transparent. Xu Zheng was already watching Tao Hong's plays before the two knew each other, but he didn't have any feelings for Tao Hong at the time.

The real intersection between the two began with "Spring and Piggy". This drama is not only the childhood memories of many people, but also the love story between Tao Hong and Xu Zheng. Due to work reasons, the two of them had more and more contact with each other, and then they found that they had the same views on many things, and they had very good conversations. This statement was mentioned many times in interviews between the two of them on different occasions.

Tao Hong once said that even if they did not become husband and wife, the two of them would still be very good friends. Because they did not find a more suitable marriage partner, they had no choice but to become husband and wife first. Of course there is some ridicule in this statement, but there is also a certain degree of truth. Because the reason why the two got married was not because they loved each other so much that they had to be together, but because they felt that they would not be able to fall in love without getting married.

At that time, Xu Zheng and Tao Hong, one in Beijing and the other in Shanghai, had problems meeting each other, not to mention that both of them were actors. It was common for them not to see each other for several months after filming started. The two people who were ready to start dating felt that this was not the way to go, so Xu Zheng said, how about we get married directly?

Why did Tao Hong marry Xu Zheng? In her own words, when a person who wants to get married meets another person who wants to get married, it happens. But in fact, Tao Hong is a very rational person. If it were not for her complete recognition and trust in Xu Zheng, how could she be willing to let herself and Xu Zheng enter into marriage.

Is Tao Hong and Xu Zheng’s marriage stable?

Tao Hong and Xu Zheng’s marriage is a marriage first, love later type, and they received the certificate without notifying others. By the time everyone found out that they were in love, they had already received the certificate for a long time. At that time, Tao Hong was already a famous movie queen, and although Xu Zheng also gained some popularity with Zhu Bajie, he was still a younger brother compared to Tao Hong.

After the melon-eating crowd knew the truth, some people once questioned that Xu Zheng was not worthy of Tao Hong, but Tao Hong never minded the evaluation of these outsiders. She was not a materialistic person in the first place. The same goes for Xu Zheng. He would not macholy think that outsiders' doubts would damage his face as a man, nor would he grovel in front of her just because his income at the time was not as good as Tao Hong's.

Tao Hong said that Xu Zheng’s greatest advantage is that he doesn’t know how to pretend, and he never pretends. If you're unhappy, just slap her in the face, and you'll never hide it. The same goes for Tao Hong, who never pretends to be in front of Xu Zheng. However, Tao Hong has a gentle temper and rarely gets unhappy. Xu Zheng also said on the show that Tao Hong loves to laugh.

On the surface, it seems that Tao Hong is compromising with Xu Zheng. In fact, if Tao Hong is not happy in her heart, who can force her to do so? Tao Hong has a good temper, but she is not without principles. The reason why she is willing to be tolerant is just because of love. Being able to make a beautiful movie queen willing to marry an unknown bald man, Xu Zheng's inner nature is the fundamental reason why Tao Hong is willing to tolerate him.

The stability of a marriage does not depend on your beauty or my earning money to support the family, but on whether the husband and wife can communicate well. Many marriages have collapsed because they do not have the same language. . The fundamental reason why many couples who have been quarreling all their lives can grow old together is because they have the same three views and the same language, and spiritual harmony is the most important reason.

In terms of performance, Tao Hong can serve as Xu Zheng's teacher, but she never puts on airs, let alone actively interferes with Xu Zheng's work. She is willing to let Xu Zheng grow up in his own way, but if Xu Zheng needs She will also be obligated to help. When Xu Zheng was coached by Tao Hong, he always listened with an open mind, but also dared to express his true thoughts.

Faced with Xu Zheng’s scandal, what does Tao Hong think?

Since getting married, Tao Hong has focused on her family, while Xu Zheng's career has soared and he has become a great director. Once a man in the entertainment industry becomes famous, he will naturally face more temptations. Therefore, Xu Zheng, who has become a famous director, has often been exposed to scandals. Faced with this problem, Jin Xing once sharply asked Tao Hong: How did it feel to see Xu Zheng being followed by another woman?

To this, Tao Hong only answered one sentence: "It shows that I have a good vision." ?It can be seen from this sentence that this kind of thing is not a big deal in Tao Hong's eyes. Wouldn't Tao Hong, who entered the entertainment industry earlier than Xu Zheng, understand the routines of the entertainment industry? But she couldn't even figure out what scandals her husband had because she never went out to play or go to those messy occasions.

Why is this so? Because she trusts Xu Zheng enough, she doesn't care about this.

As for Tao Hong going out to play, that's even more impossible, because she is a quiet person and rarely attends various social occasions.

So Xu Zheng and Tao Hong's open marriage is just a rumor. Have you ever seen a couple who does their own thing and doesn't even know how much money the other party has?