Why are there not many people who can stick to the road without being crowded?

Recently, I often hear people say, "The road to success is not crowded, because there are not many people who persist." I agree with the idea of this sentence. My understanding of this sentence is that the road to success is not crowded, because not many people can find the road (goal), not many people are willing to go (start action) when they find the road, many people go astray (adjust in time), few people can persist (persist), and only a few people are lucky (seize the opportunity). Maybe if you go back, no one can go back the same way. But those who can persist until the end will surely walk out of new excitement on another road.

The speech association we set up. It was 20 16, and after I took the pmp exam, the training institution I was in charge of was going to create a community for all the students who passed the pmp exam to grow up together and learn from each other. As they say, getting a pmp certificate is just the beginning, and the road ahead is still very long, and the ability needs constant tempering to grow. At that time, various societies were formed, and under the call of Sister Yan, the Speech Association was established. We all don't know what the community should do. The original plan was to learn from tmc model, organize regular speech activities and share project management experiences and cases. Exercise the content of the speech and exercise the ability of organization, planning and leadership in the process of organizing activities.

Ideal is good, but reality has changed. Our first group of backbones organized many colorful activities. Among thousands of schoolmates, less than 200 are willing to join the Speech Association, which proves that not many people can find their way. Of the less than 200 people, less than 20 actively participated in the activities, and now these 20 people have faded out of the rivers and lakes. Everyone's goals are different, some return to their families, some change jobs, and some go to more passionate places to exercise themselves. We have failed on this road. Our failure has become a stepping stone for others. At the same time, the Shenzhen Xueyou Speech Association is still full of vitality and has become a club of TMC. In my opinion, this is a success. I used to do online activities on both sides, but now I sigh a lot. I have never been to Shenzhen. From this incident, I feel that Wuhan obviously lags behind Shenzhen in per capita learning initiative. I wonder if anyone feels the same way. )

The speech association to which I belong. Later, I joined OVTMC under the introduction of my friends. I was covered in chicken blood when I joined. I said ambitiously that I would take part in activities every week and finish ten speeches a year. However, until I left, I only finished three speeches and one competition (I made a speech about change and replied to the change in the background of WeChat subscription number? Check the manuscript). In retrospect, the purpose of my joining is to improve my communication skills and enhance my English listening and speaking skills. Participating in these activities has benefited me a lot, and I have made energetic friends, such as Black and White May, Female Frog, Eric, bly, hope, sab, and Ray who immigrated to Australia. We take part in speeches, comments, dinners, chats and outings together.

Among them, people changed wave after wave, some newcomers came and some old people left. I joined for the 99th time, and now it has reached 179 times, and the frequency of once a week has passed 80 weeks. Eighty weeks equals two years (excluding holidays). In the past two years, some people have insisted on coming, such as Sophia, Sheffield and Lena. The years they have spent on this road will become their future capital. Some people gain confidence, some people gain friendship or love, some people gain countless happiness, and most importantly, they all gain growth. I still regret my resignation. I was really short of money at that time. I changed my job for more money. My new job works six days a week 10 hours on average. My energy began to be insufficient, running was interrupted, reading was interrupted, Sunday was a single day off, and participating in tmc activities became a burden. After countless entanglements and reflections, I decided to quit temporarily. On this road, I failed again, because my goal changed. When I pay more attention to money, I focus on money, but I lose precious growth time.

Panama in my heart. Any road can lead to success, but not everyone can reach the finish line, just like learning monkeys in primary schools: "A little monkey came down the mountain. When it came to a cornfield, it was very happy to see that the corn was big and plentiful, so it took off the next one and walked forward with it. " The little monkey is walking under a peach tree with corn on his shoulder. It was very happy to see the peaches all over the tree were big and red, so it threw corn to pick peaches.

The little monkey walked into a Gua Tian with some peaches in his hand. It was very happy to see watermelons all over the ground, so it threw peaches to pick watermelons. The little monkey came back with a big watermelon in his arms. Walking, I saw a little rabbit jumping, which was really cute. It was very happy, so it threw a watermelon to chase the rabbit. The rabbit ran into the Woods and disappeared. Little monkey had to go home empty-handed. ? "Many people are very similar to this monkey. They longed for independence when they were young. When they are independent, they pursue more, better and faster. At the end of their lives, they began to pursue the past, but they couldn't go back, so they had to go back empty-handed.

Life is a one-way trip. You can't go back, but you can only move forward. If you want to do something, do it at once. The probability of doing it after 72 hours is almost zero. Either way, as long as you stick to it and keep digging, you can achieve something. Those extraordinary people persist not because of hope, but because of persistence, they can see hope. What's the thing you've stuck to for the longest time?