Netizens commented that the most scheming one among Xiao She De is the mother of top student Mi Tao. What do you think?

In the TV series "Xiao She De", a top student works as a nanny. Because she travels abroad relatively rarely and has a low sense of superiority, she not only looks honest and honest, but also because of her daughter Mi Tao. He is good at studying and understands things, and many viewers feel pity for his mother and his son.

In fact, Mi Tao's mother, although working as a part-time worker, is a person with a very high EQ and IQ, and is very good at managing so-called human beings. Many times I think, if she had received a good education, wouldn't she need to work part-time now? And what about Mi Tao? An IQ above 140 must have been inherited from the mother’s genes, right? After all, the legendary skills are determined by genetics. Mi Tao's mother is so smart, so the children she gives birth to will naturally have good intelligence.

In the play, in addition to seeing the smart side of Midao, we also see the emotionally intelligent side of Midao’s mother. Perhaps, in the eyes of many people, it is a kind of scheming. The point is, her scheming is not used for bad things. Everyone gets what they need and achieves each other's success. What's wrong with that? After all, in real life, there are very few people like Midao's mother who are sociable. There are too many people who only think about taking and not giving. There is a purpose in contacting the Xia family

Isn’t it like the previous caregiver hired by the Xia family? She is arrogant and not good at doing things. Her employer asks her to do it, but she asks for it in a very personal way. The bowl is obviously not clean, but she still shirks it. The food she makes is obviously not in line with other people's tastes, so she has to cook it according to her own taste. Moreover, while at work, she frantically called and chatted with others. The old lady wanted to go to the toilet and drink water, but she didn't even pay attention.

To put it harshly, taking people’s money and eliminating disasters for others, every position has its own responsibilities. No matter what the reason is, since I have already been engaged in such a position, You have to take responsibility for what you do. Why are you yelling all day long? In the editor's world, there are no distinctions between high and low positions. It's just that the job responsibilities are different. Like the nursing nanny, it's obvious that she just wants to get paid and not work. Whoever comes into contact with such a person, who Is it acceptable?

And Mi Tao’s mother, with such a salary, is also careful and conscientious in her work, which makes the Xia family like her very much. And when she suggested that she could be the Xia family's caregiver and take care of the old lady, the Xia family was of course happy. And the reason why she did that was of course purposeful. She just thought that she could not only earn more money from a job, but also allow the Xia family to pick up Mi Tao when picking up Huanhuan. In that case, in Xia When Junshan trains Huanhuan in number selection, he can also train Mi Tao together. In this way, for Mijia, it can not only make money, but also save a lot of training fees. Influence on Mi Tao

Can we say that it is human nature? Why do you have to criticize Midao’s mother’s scheming? She didn't take the money and didn't work, nor did she do things poorly. She was very good at her job, and after Xia Junshan agreed, she would be even more dedicated to her responsibilities. After all, her scheming is a win-win behavior for both the Xia family and her own family, so why not do it?

The only mistake was that she ignored Mitao's ability to bear it. She didn't realize that her behavior made Mitao feel inferior and sensitive. Mi Tao is a very smart child. In her world, she clearly understands the purpose of everything her mother does. When she saw that her mother was trying to save the training fee and that Huanhuan's family had everything but she had nothing, her mentality gradually became unbalanced.

In her eyes, her mother's behavior is a bit begging, using a begging way to please others in exchange for the resources that others have. When she saw other people's families living in spacious and bright houses with everything, but she could only get it by begging, the sense of superiority she had gained with her grades was slowly exhausted, and she slowly became Sensitive and low self-esteem, he gradually became autistic, and his academic performance, of course, declined rapidly. In fact, her scheming always appears unintentionally

In the sixteenth episode of "Little Willing", the good-looking Mi Tao Ma (Liu Shan) in Nan Li (Song Jia) eavesdropped on Nan Li (Song Jia). During the conversation between Li and Tian Yulan (Jiang Xin), Tian Yulan wanted Nan Li to help Teacher Zhong (Zhang Tao). In order to better challenge the children in the championship class, Teacher Zhong, who was as revealing as possible in his speech and behavior, would be exempted from the punishment of choosing numbers.

The objective Nan Li rejected Tian Yulan's proposal. Nan Li felt that Teacher Zhong should be punished for his behavior because he had no intention of admitting his mistakes.

When Mitao’s mother heard that the conversation with Nan Li and Tian Yulan was related to Teacher Zhong from the championship class, Teacher Zhong was very complimentary to her daughter and was very helpful. At one o’clock, the teacher changed. The harm of rice peach is obvious. Therefore, as a nanny, Mitao's mother lost her duty as a nanny and first asked Nan Lijia if she would let him go. After receiving a negative response, she stood next to the customer and had something to say.

Nan Li, who was busy playing with her mobile phone, could see that Mitao's mother was hesitant to speak and asked her anything. This touched the heart of Mitao's mother, and Mitao's mother came out with her usual foreshadowing words: I don't have any culture, and I don't understand any profound principles. Seeing this, I lost my concentration and wanted to talk to Mitao's mother. Mom, Mi Tao, you have no education and don't understand the truth. It's not your casual remarks that take the blame, nor is it the reason why you went beyond your duties and interfered with the customer's decision-making. Although your children Mi Tao, Nan Li, and Tian Yulan's children are all in the same class, even if you are the nanny for Nanli and Tian Yulan's families, your duty is not to say a word, not once. Another speech, instigation.

Mi Tao’s mother got Nan Li’s permission and sat down to talk: Teacher Zhong is a good person (he is very helpful to our Mi Tao) and he is very good to my Tao (I don’t care how the teacher treats other children) , as long as we are good to our children, that’s it), look at other parents, they need money, no money, influence but no influence, we can’t give them anything (we are poor, we can’t help teachers, what’s important Help him chat if the situation arises). Of course, Teacher Zhong doesn’t care about anyone. Tao is such an introverted child, and everyone always says Teacher Zhong is good when he comes back. How do you think such a good person could abuse a child? (I don’t care about anything else, as long as Teacher Zhong is good to our children, I don’t care what other children do. If they get scolded, it’s because they are stupid and they bring it upon themselves).

After listening to Midao’s mother’s words, Nan Li’s face stood out unnaturally. On the one hand, you, a nanny, should not interrupt. On the other hand, she was thinking about how to taunt Sammy Tao's mother without hurting her self-esteem and preventing her from fainting while cooking.

Nan Li: This matter is still under investigation. If he didn’t, it would not be easy to frame him. (Whether a child is being abused or not is not up to you. If you don’t do it, it doesn’t matter. If you do, it’s his own fault.)

Mi Tao’s mother pretended not to understand, and followed the stick: I don’t know what I said, but it’s too much. Since Ziyou’s mother is so anxious, can you listen to what she said? Talk about? (For the sake of Ziyou’s mother, and for the sake of our sisterly relationship, son, you might as well listen to some advice)

Nan Li: Okay, I’m looking at your face. (I’ll give you enough face)

Do you understand? Mi Tao's mother is "determined to win" and Nan Li is "calm and gentle". In short, the two people have different opinions because of their different positions

Mitao’s mother, because Teacher Zhong from the championship class is considerate of her daughter Mitao, there is no reason for her to treat Teacher Zhong .

Nan Li, on the one hand, Xia Lele was not in the championship class and was in the competition class and did not need to be disciplined by Teacher Zhong. On the other hand, Tian Yulan’s child was scolded by the teacher, which is equivalent to his nephew being bullied. , No matter how tense my relationship with Tian Yulan is, if my child is scolded by the teacher, I will never sit idly by.

In short, the butt determines the direction. Mama Mitao’s scheming is actually not just this time

Since Nan Li and Tian Yulan share the same nanny as Mama Mitao, when the relationship between Nan Li and Tian Yulan deteriorates, she should keep silent and maintain Professional ethics, but she always pretends to be pitiful.

The class collectively selects student cadres. The team leader is Mi Tao, the deputy squad leader is Yan Ziyou, and the original deputy squad leader Xia Lele is played. It turned out that Nan Li and her mother were sad that their child was dismissed for some reason, and they just had some worries and discomfort. But Mi Tao's mother went up and said: Lele's mother, I'm really sorry for the trouble this has caused. Do you think Taobao is not as cheerful as Lele, nor is he like Ziyou who practices his speech at home every day? This thing makes it so...

Mitao's mother often pretends to be aggrieved and says so. On the one hand, she lets Mitao deal with her jealousy and emphasizes that it is unintentional for Mitao to be selected. On the other hand, beauty is a disaster. Move, reveal Tian Yulan's scheming, "quietly overtake in a corner" and let the child Yan Ziyou practice his speech in private, and win the title of deputy squad leader.

Mitao's mother's scheming is quite deep. By pretending to be guilty, she not only made it more logical for her daughter to become the team leader, but also took control of her nanny job. How Nan Li and Tian Yulan fought over this matter has nothing to do with her.

There was also the time when Mi Tao was in the championship class because of her good studies. Tian Yulan paid attention to the high training fee, and wanted to supplement Mi Tao’s mother’s money by asking her to give up her quota to Yan Ziyou. Mitao's mother frowned and refused. She understands the difference between right and wrong, and the most important thing is the child's future. Maybe she sneered inwardly: You have to be naive to play tricks on me.

On the surface, Mi Tao’s mother looks honest and honest, but she is like the vigorous and unyielding weeds in the soil, and they are not eye-catching at all. In order to work better, she For the sake of her daughter's life, she worked hard to mix the water mixer and separate herself. All the scheming plans of Midao's mother are the efforts of the people at the bottom to seek development. Do you think Mommy Mi Tao is a scheming bitch?