What are unmarried women in their thirties and fifties like now?

With the development of society, more and more women around us choose the unmarried mode. They persist in their own lives regardless of the broken mouths and hearts of their parents and relatives. Unmarried women in their thirties found some characteristics:

1, economic independence, independent personality.

Liu Lei divorced from her parents and grew up with her mother. Seeing her parents' unhappy marriage, she has no interest in marriage. She was a bully at school and her career rose step by step after graduation. Less than 30 years old, she bought a car and a house independently, and gained a firm foothold in a big city far from her hometown. Because she is rich and beautiful, Liu Lei has many suitors around her, but as long as a man asks her to marry, she immediately breaks up with her. Over time, men know that Liu Lei is an unmarried person, and their enthusiasm will dissipate. But Liu Lei doesn't care. She doesn't want to be bound by marriage, but likes freedom. Recently, Liu Lei met a man who is also unmarried. They had a good talk. I asked her if she could continue this time, and she replied:

"Take it one step at a time! Happiness is the most important thing! "

2, their own conditions are too poor, there is no choice.

Contrary to Liu Lei, Wang Xuan, who is nearly 35 years old, is unmarried because of poor conditions. Wang Xuan was born in a poor family. Her mother was ill all the year round, and her family expenses were all supported by her father driving a truck. My father has a bad temper and prefers boys to girls, and he has been worried that his mother has not given birth to boys. It is common to beat and scold his mother when he is drunk. Because of family reasons, Wang Xuan didn't learn well from childhood. After finishing high school, she saw that there was no hope of going to college, so she simply dropped out of school and went to work in a local factory.

Since Wang Xuan dropped out of school, her mother started the blind date mode and wanted to marry Wang Xuan when she was young. And Wang Xuan has no looks, no education, no ability, poor family background, similar conditions to her, and her mother despises her and has better conditions than her. As the years passed, Wang Xuan became old. After the age of 25, a factory girl like her no longer has any advantage in the marriage and love market. The school-age men and women around her are getting married one after another, and she is still on the blind date arranged by her mother. ......

3, lace, resolutely do not accept secular marriage.

Tan Ai knows a pair of lesbians, who immigrated successfully and occasionally returned to China. They said that when they found that their position was different from that of ordinary people, they had gone through a difficult and dark period. Their parents thought they were ill and forced them to receive treatment or even confinement. Instead of giving in, they found an opportunity to escape from home and completely cut off contact with the family they came from. After we met in another city, we decided that we were the love of our life, so we worked hard to make money, learn foreign languages, immigrate, and finally got what we wanted, lived happily in another country and never had to be forced to get married again.