There are more than 300 husbands recruited by a matchmaking agency in Hangzhou. Is it shameful to be a husband?

Maybe my concept is feudal, and I feel a little ashamed to be a son-in-law. I won't look down on those who are sons-in-law, but I can never be a son-in-law, because I think a man who is a son-in-law will completely lose his autonomy and dignity.

1, being a son-in-law can easily attract criticism and strange eyes from others. I think most people can't accept a son-in-law, because in everyone's mind, a man should be strong, get married and have children. Being a son-in-law for others completely violates people's traditional values. Everyone thinks a man is willing to give up his dignity to be a son-in-law. He usually has ulterior motives, and people will think that son-in-law is generally another name for a gigolo who eats soft rice.

Because everyone thinks that as a man, you should use your own efforts to get married, not to be a husband for others for pleasure. In short, there are still many criticisms of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this society. Moreover, I am a person with great face and care about what others think of me, so I will never have the idea of being a son-in-law for the sake of dignity and face.

Being a husband will make you feel a sense of loss that is out of place, and it is difficult to integrate into the woman's family, and your right to speak and family status also means that you will always be at the bottom. It is actually very common to be looked down upon by the other party and the other party's family, because it makes sense to eat people with soft lips. Most of the reasons for getting married are because the gap between your family environment and the other's family environment is too big, so the other's family is likely to look down on you in their hearts. Even if they don't show it publicly, they won't regard you as their home in their hearts. In contact, you can silently feel their alienation from you. I am an extremely self-reliant and sensitive person at heart. I will be very concerned about other people's attitude towards me. I can't bear to live a servile life, so even though being a husband has many advantages, I will never consider being a husband.

I think people should live happily, casually and smoothly in this life. An unsuitable husband may encounter many troubles in marriage, but if he becomes a husband, it is difficult not to encounter troubles. So if we have the idea of being a son-in-law, we must seriously consider it.