What if you find a husband who doesn't care about your family?

After getting married, I found that my husband was a frog boiled in warm water. He is particularly content with the status quo and particularly unwilling to make progress. After graduation, he has been working in a company. At that time, he was asked to change jobs more and was unwilling to move. As a result, the company went bankrupt, and he didn't accumulate any skills and couldn't find a job when he was young. Later, he was forced to return to his hometown in the county and enter the factory. At this moment, my heart refused. A computer graduate of 2 1 1 went to the factory ...) At this time, I was still working hard in a big city. After half a year, I found that the husband and wife were not suitable for long-term separation, so I compromised and went back to the county with him to find a job in HRM, with a higher salary than him. (I'm just an ordinary third-rate college student)

When he pays the mortgage every month, his salary is less than 1000. He has been renovated this year and has little savings. I found a bank loan to decorate myself, and I paid back the loan in full. His remaining salary is enough to buy food every month. I'm pregnant recently, damn it, I'm in a particularly bad mood. I worry about how to deal with all kinds of expenses after the baby is born every day. I can't wait to travel like a man and earn more money. He wants to tell him that if there is a good company recruit, he can go to the interview first. He said he didn't want to change his job, which would be useful if he was spontaneous and conscious. The more I talk, the less he will do it. This is such a heart. Of course, I'm really going to be angry.

Think of a traffic accident before pregnancy, which almost disfigured me. I stayed in the hospital for 20 days, and then my face hasn't completely recovered. I put on a mask and went back to work, because I really couldn't afford it. If I don't go to work, there will be no money to spend at home. Now I'm pregnant. I didn't know I was pregnant in the early stage, and I worked hard. Later, the prenatal examination found that the placenta was low, and the doctor forced him to stay in bed 1 month. Also on the 20 th day, I found that the placenta had gone up and went to work immediately. Compared with the pregnant female colleagues in the same department, I know that I took a long vacation after pregnancy. The more I think about it, the worse I feel. I always felt that my life was hopeless. Why should I support my family and myself? Now even TM people are pregnant and have children. I'm not strong enough to just need a male nanny to cook for me, okay? I am in a particularly bad mood, unable to control my despair and a little depressed. He really doesn't think so. He thinks I'm moaning, and that my job is easy and there's nothing difficult.

I'm really afraid that one day I will die if I can't carry it.