A couple in Kunming sued for divorce over the surname of their second child. Is the right of crown and surname really necessary?

A couple in Yunnan almost parted ways because of their child's surname. Fortunately, under the mediation of the court, they finally chose reconciliation. The couple gave birth to two baby girls. The first child takes her husband's surname, and the wife of the second child intends to let Bauer go with her. However, the husband always disagreed, and the two still vowed to quarrel over this matter, and even the husband and wife sued for divorce. There is really no need for both husband and wife to divorce because of the child's surname. As husband and wife, in order to build a happy family, we should understand each other and tolerate each other. It is not easy for my wife to conceive in October, nor is it easy to give birth to two children for this family. As a husband, you should also look for your wife's emotions. The first child takes the father's surname and the second child takes the mother's surname.

As husband and wife, living together is still a long time, and there will be many unexpected setbacks in life. Therefore, we need to understand each other in life, and there is no need to give up this happy marriage for some trivial matters. Judging from the couple's incident, the reason why men and children must take their father's surname may also be influenced by traditional concepts.

For thousands of years, the feudal tradition in China believed that children took their father's surname. Therefore, influenced by this traditional feudal thought, men can't break the traditional concept. In my opinion, it is very important to inherit traditional culture, but sometimes we still take its essence and discard its dross. Many traditional ideas may have been adapted at that time, but now they may be different. Therefore, if we want to build a happy family and treat the traditional family culture, we must treat it rationally. There is no need for couples to part ways because of some trivial matters.

In fact, it is impossible for a child to change his biological parent-child relationship with his husband's surname or his wife's surname. Children's surnames can be treated rationally, without taking the father's surname or the mother's surname. When dealing with children's surnames, husband and wife should consult each other, understand each other and tolerate each other.