What should a blind date do on the first date? How to arrange the first date after blind date?

The first blind date is very important, which is their first impression. The blind date is not very familiar with each other on the first date, and it is easy to have awkward silence. It is best to arrange the date reasonably.

What should a blind date do on the first date?

Dress up carefully, arrange time reasonably and choose to eat. The first is to dress up carefully. By dressing up carefully, you will win each other's impression. Dressing up carefully can make the other party remember themselves more deeply, leave a good impression and have a good result. By dressing up carefully, you often make yourself more in line with others, and if you don't pay attention to your image and some of your appearances, many people will misunderstand yourself. By dressing up carefully, you will be more sure that you are here for a blind date, not to do anything else. Through this parasitic detail of dressing, boys can also see a girl's character, and girls can also see a boy's character. By dressing up carefully, this detail will deal with many problems. The second is to arrange the time reasonably. It is very important to arrange time reasonably. The first is the details. The character of a boy or a girl can be decided by a matter of time. If you are late for an appointment, it is a very bad phenomenon and problem. At this time, it is a matter of time. It will lead to more contradictions and conflicts through this time issue, which will make future appointments more and more embarrassing and will not leave a good impression on each other. Good grades. The third is to choose food. Often a boy and a girl get along for a long time, not a day. Inviting you to dinner will consume half the time, and choosing to eat is very quiet and comfortable. I will definitely play with boys and girls for a day and feel tired. I will relax myself by eating, and I will become happier and happier. At the same time, I feel that both boys and girls are trustworthy and trustworthy.

1, dress up

Dressing up well will leave a good impression on the other party, and this good impression will always stay in the other party's mind. Through this good impression, the other party will firmly believe what his future wife will look like. Through this impression, you will get better and better when you start a second date. Dressing up is a matter of detail, which will make the other person think that you are a very careful person.

2, reasonable arrangement of time

It is important to arrange time reasonably. Only by arranging time reasonably can we deal with our own problems and solve them reasonably, and we can deal with the time problem reasonably. Time is a detail, which often brings many contradictions to each other. By properly handling time, we usually succeed more than half.

Step 3 choose to eat.

Going to eat is a very important link. A girl will definitely feel tired and bored after playing all day. It is a very pleasant thing to slowly consume time and enjoy life by going to eat. By eating, we can see a girl or boy's character or their conduct problems.

How to arrange the first date after blind date?

1, try to choose a big time for the first formal date.

The first formal date should last between 3 and 7 hours. I suggest meeting in the afternoon and seeing my sister home at night. This time period is good and long enough. The operation space is relatively large, or meet at night, eat first and then play together. A long date left a deeper impression on girls than simply drinking coffee and watching a movie. If a girl stands up temporarily or has something to do with dating, you can subtract 20 points from her mind. This usually means that you are not interested or there are too many markets. Of course, there is a special situation here, that is, you find that the girl's reaction to you is very poor or the state is very poor, so you make a decision quickly and find an excuse to leave.

2. Process flow design

Remember: Make at least three conversions! In formal dating, we should always remember that people's freshness is limited. If you stay in a scene for too long, the heat will gradually drop. If you just meet, have a cup of coffee or watch a movie, and then leave separately, then this date can be said not to leave a particularly deep impression on girls. This kind of small date is actually dispensable. If you really want to get off to a good start through the first date, multiple transitions are essential. The safest and simplest way is to choose three places with completely different styles for three routine projects, such as watching movies in ordinary shopping malls. But don't choose Starbucks in the mall as a place to drink coffee. You can search the local online celebrity shops in Xiaohongshu, then go to another place to eat, and finally choose a distinctive pub for a drink. Every new place is a new experience, so the next date will give girls a good feeling.

3. Diversified activities

It's similar to escaping from the secret room, making pottery, climbing mountains, even climbing indoors, going karting, and eating a local specialty in the next city. The advantage of this kind of project is that it is more interactive with girls, and the participation of both parties is more, and the dating experience is certainly better. However, because unconventional projects are relatively small, girls are less likely to accept them. Because the investment requirements for both parties are relatively high, girls will only accept them if you are already familiar with them.

4. Chatting is the main thing in dating.

Dating is different from WeChat chatting. Generally speaking, there are three modes: boys dominate the topic, talk big, and girls agree; Girls dominate the topic, brag, and boys agree; Both sides have come and gone, and they are happy. Some people talk a lot, others talk a little, so all three modes can be used. There is no distinction between good and bad. What kind of chat mode doesn't work? One side talks big, while the other side is silent or absent-minded, playing mobile phones; Or both sides are silent and don't know what to say; Both sides are scrambling to talk to themselves, and the conversation is completely out of touch; If these things happen in your first chat, you need to be vigilant. A bad interaction mode means a bad date.

5. Physical contact

When the atmosphere is harmonious and both sides are familiar with each other, it is time for physical contact. Why are we touching each other? Because physical intimacy will bring psychological intimacy at the same time, physical contact is similar to confession to some extent. When a girl acquiesced in physical contact, she acquiesced in your promotion in her heart, and you changed from ordinary friends to ambiguous friends. Simply put, hold the girl's hand when the atmosphere is right; Hold her hand, and when the atmosphere is more ambiguous, you can kiss her. How to judge whether a girl will accept your hand is also very simple: the girl's mood is high+the physical distance between the two sides is very close. You can bend over before holding hands, and girls can hold hands without dodging ~

What did the blind date do when they first met?

When blind date meets for the first time, they usually choose the dating link that is not embarrassing, that is, eating. Because they choose to eat, everyone can start chatting politely. If the atmosphere is awkward, they can also eat to resolve this embarrassing atmosphere. In fact, the blind date doesn't have to choose a meal on the first date. You can choose to watch movies, visit bookstores and do sports. In fact, as long as you communicate with two people, two people can do it. There is no need to say what you are going to do. As long as two people are comfortable, there are many blind date programs.

1. It is very important to choose a good place to eat.

If the first program you choose to date is eating, it is very important to choose a good place to eat, because a good eating environment can directly affect the quality of the date and also affect the other party's first impression of you. If you choose to go to a very high-end place, the first impression that the other party gives you may be that you are a more luxurious person, which may be more luxurious; If you choose to go to some food stalls, you may make the other person feel that your usual living environment is like this, and so is your usual quality of life, which may greatly change your impression. So when you choose a place to eat for the first time, you must choose a place suitable for two people, and the price should not be too high or too low.

It is better to confess what you need to know than to hide it.

If you are going on a blind date with the determination of development, you must be honest when you meet for the first time. What do you want to know through this blind date? Don't hide it, and don't cheat each other. In fact, honesty is very important to improve a person's impression of you. If the other person can feel your sincerity and attitude in this date, it will actually provide an important guarantee for your future date. If you don't show your attitude and thoughts to each other at the beginning of the date, it will not only bring a bad impression to each other, but also become a very big obstacle to your future dating.

3. Good communication can leave a good impression on each other.

People say that good communication can be a polishing of two people's feelings. Because if only one party makes efforts in communication and the other party doesn't respond at all, it will actually make the party who wants to communicate feel very painful and leave a bad impression on you, but good communication will not only leave a deep impression on the other party, but also make the other party feel that since you are so smooth in communication, the subsequent dating will definitely be more satisfactory, which will greatly increase the frequency of your dating. In addition, effective communication must be based on the will and efforts of both parties.

When two people are dating, there are three things they must not do.

1. Don't pretend deeply that you are not interested in everything around you. There are not so many scenes where girls stick to the cold male god upside down. 2. Don't think that you can see the world of mortals thoroughly, and girls will probably think that you are pretending. Don't condescend, teach women the truth of falling in love and being a man. Women don't like arrogant men very much, although sometimes that's the virtue. In addition, in the conversation on the first date, you must not expect to ask all the more private questions about the girl's marriage history and family situation. Women don't say all this when they meet for the first time. All you have to do is infiltrate slowly and get to know each other slowly. After all, you are not talking about a "fast-food love". Today you talk about tomorrow's love and get married the day after tomorrow. It's reckless of you to ask her that, which makes women feel insecure. If you don't want to keep the conversation superficial, you want to get to know each other better. You have to play it by ear and cut in at the right time. For example, when talking about coffee, if you talk about more drinks, tea or coke, this conversation may seem meaningless. But if you ask her whether she often drinks coffee, her coffee preferences and what kind of drinks she likes, you can learn more about her through dialogue. The key to falling in love is the word "talk" Only by talking can we express each other's rich thoughts, complex feelings and subtle voices in appropriate language. So as to connect the emotional strings of both sides, produce the meaning of love, stimulate the spark of first love and ignite the fiery flame of love.