If you want something, go for it!

“If you want something, you must be brave enough to fight for it.”

On November 2, at the World’s Top Scientists Forum in Shanghai, 95-year-old female scientist Ye Shuhua used Speaking fluent English, tell all women this in your speech.

The full version of this passage is as follows:

If you want something, be brave enough to fight for it.

Of course, this is not a boxing match, and women in the ring will not cause any harm.

But for women, we want more opportunities because we have been treated unfairly for too long.

In less than a day after this video was posted on Douyin, the number of likes almost exceeded 500,000. After reading the messages backstage, without exception, they are all inspiring words.

"The role model of our generation", "This is the high-quality woman of mankind", "Women should never forget to improve themselves", "This is the benchmark for women", "The real winner in life", etc. .

Her words were like a fire, successfully igniting the dream in the hearts of countless women. She used the gentlest language, said the most powerful words, and also told the truth.

Due to limitations of physiological characteristics, in the workplace, men and women are often unequal.

The British BBC TV station once produced a short film "Heroine", which simulated a company newcomer interview in just 8 minutes, and extremely realistically reproduced the various discriminations faced by women during workplace recruitment.

Comprehensive reasons are mainly that the women who apply for the job are not good-looking enough, are too fat and have a bad image, and are too thin and not plump. The main reason is that the women will take maternity leave in the future.

Of course, this short film only simulates reality. Most units are not demanding about the first few items, but many units will have scruples about the last one.

It turns out that I have a friend who works in a kindergarten. When the country launched the two-child policy, the principal of their kindergarten went to ask them one by one if they had such a plan. Although the questions were well-intentioned, during the meeting in the garden, the principal also made it clear that if they want to develop in this position, they must make choices.

However, it is understandable that their unit is quite special. Almost all of them are women. The first child has already gone through one round of leave. If there is a second round of leave, the director will be under great pressure. It suddenly occurred to me that now that the country has allowed three children, I wonder if their principal will have more headaches.

I also saw an article on the official account of Insight today. My wife is a housewife. She went to the supermarket to buy something. When she checked out, she didn’t have enough money, so she sent a message asking her husband for 100 yuan.

The husband asked his wife, why did she still need money when she had just given her 50 the day before yesterday? His wife sent him a picture of the shopping cart.

The husband asked: "You still buy meat and milk when you have no money? My wife explained that she bought them for her mother-in-law.

The husband then asked: "The snacks in the shopping cart are also for my mother. Of? "The wife had to say that she bought it for herself, so she was ridiculed by her husband.

There are chat records later, and I really can't stand it anymore. To be honest, this husband is not very good, but I prefer I feel worthless for this woman.

Even if a woman wants to have children and take care of the family, she must not forget to keep learning and improving herself.

Physical characteristics are innate. We can make the most of our strengths and avoid our weaknesses, and be an attractive woman.

We must try our best to balance taking care of the family and doing our own business, because women are more careful than men, and because only women have motherhood.

The world is changing every day. If we don’t learn, we will fall behind. If we fall behind, we will not be able to keep up with the changes of the times.

Even if we don’t have the conditions to be as good as Ye Shuhua, we are still. You can work hard to get what you want, whether it is the possession of material conditions or the pursuit of the spiritual world, always love it and never give up!