Wife buys medicine to castrate her husband: "I'd rather go to jail than divorce." Is it really worth it?

A good marriage is always different. An ugly marriage has its own ugly ways.

every time I see a female friend in pain in marriage, she refuses to let go and tries to save her marriage, but when she fails again and again, I want to shake her up.

I want to say to them: Dear, leave!

it's better to get together and have a good break than to torture each other. The end of marriage is hatred

On Douban, I saw a horrible post:

A woman hates her husband's cheating, and she drinks a little progesterone (an estrogen) in the water she drinks every day. The food she cooks is also helpful to "kill sperm" and is often eaten by her husband.

after a long period of time, the husband finally "refused to lift".

In Baidu Q&A, there was a similar post:

The husband cheated during pregnancy, and the wife secretly gave her husband drugs to suppress androgen, in order to retaliate.

Regardless of whether this method of "chemical castration" is really feasible, it makes people shudder to think that people around them are plotting against each other every day.

The promise made at the time of marriage is to love each other no matter whether they are rich or poor, whether they are in good or bad, in sickness or in health.

Now, one of the people at the bedside is thinking about how to cheat quietly, and the other is thinking about how to keep it by all means.

It's completely contrary to the oath I made when I first got married.

the end of love is marriage, so what is the end of marriage?

A happy marriage ends in mutual pity, but an unfortunate marriage ends in hatred.

hatred in marriage is never made in a day.

After day after day, love is exhausted, leaving only hate; Kill the patience and passion, leaving the chicken and dog pieces and look at each other with disgust.

in the end, a lover becomes an enemy. The real side of marriage

Japan's Asahi TV conducted a survey on 1 couples, among which 62 wives answered "dissatisfied" in the question of "whether they are dissatisfied with their husbands".

Shizang Wenxin, a recruitment professor at Osaka University, thinks that 63.7% of the wives answered that they would consider divorce if economic problems were not considered.

In addition, 55% people have considered "If only my husband had died earlier.

There is a question on the Internet: If there is an afterlife, would you still like to marry your husband?

the reply is almost one-sided: no.

monologue: in the next life, I hope to meet my husband in a scene where I don't know each other, and then beat him to death, and then turn around and leave. I hope it's a monitoring blind spot, damn it.

Qiushui Yiren: I thought he would shelter me from the wind and rain, but I didn't expect him to bring all the storms.

Anonymity: Even if I die, don't stand in front of my grave, so don't dirty my path of reincarnation. Even if you are a ghost, you will walk around when you see him, let alone get married.

There is an American TV series Douban with a score of 9.3. The plot is mainly about three eras, three wives, three murders, or more bluntly, three "husband killings".

This drama is "Why Women Kill" directed and starred by the famous Chinese actress Liu Yuling.

In most marriages, women have broken down, and even had the impulsive thoughts of women in the play.

However, this drama is not only a drama to please women, but also a drama to make women in reality pursue themselves!

This drama analyzes the real side of marriage to the public and leaves the thinking to the public.

tell the public: attachment to men is no good! Living in vain, no! Live by the eyes of others, no! Maintain a long-term marriage

To maintain a long-term marriage relationship?

For boys, it is important for a harmonious relationship between husband and wife not to be cold and violent.

Many boys will have a cold war after quarreling, which makes girls fall into an infinite cycle of self-blame.

It is inevitable for couples to get along with each other. It is best to talk about everything in person, and don't keep the problem in your heart.

Remember what boys promise girls, and don't say it easily if you can't do it.

most girls have a good memory, and she will remember all the little things you say.

Girls really hate boys' mouth-slapping, so if there is something really difficult to accomplish, you should explain it to her clearly.

Girls are all Sherlock Holmes. Don't try to lie to her.

Your wife may fail in advanced mathematics, the line substitute will fail the course, and she is all thumbs in life, but she can easily deal with you with her remaining IQ.

most importantly, the boy must be open and affirm her identity.

There are photos of her in the circle of friends, and people who meet her will hold her hand, which are all ways to give her a sense of security.

The best way to refuse to hook up with other members of the opposite sex is to tell others that I love my wife very much.

For girls, it is also necessary to maintain their feelings.

You should also pay attention to improving yourself after marriage, and don't stand still.

For example, if you practice yoga and read books, and shift your focus to your own life, you will keep your partner fresh and won't get bored because of time.

Girls should give their husbands some space, and don't hold the idea that they are their own people, but they should have everything.

No matter what you do, proper limit is very important. Giving him space is also giving yourself space.

don't always think about taking, but be grateful to your other half.

Love is not a transaction. Everyone expresses love in different ways. Too much haggling will only hurt each other. Since you love, you should devote yourself to it, and you should learn to be grateful.

Finally, accept each other's shortcomings and don't expect a perfect person.

No one in the world is perfect. If two people stay together for a long time, they will find each other's strengths and weaknesses. Don't always cling to each other's shortcomings, learn to grow together and fill the gaps in life.

Sep.19

Although we can't judge other people's marriages, people who haven't experienced them don't understand their sufferings and secrets at all.

But with seeing through the world and understanding that marriage is not easy, I still want to say to women who are suffering in marriage: it is better to let go.

I'm not encouraging divorce. I just hope that I can stop loss in time in my life, and don't let my whole life be consumed in foolishness, indifference and despair.

Finally, I'll give you a word from Su Ling-

When you are beautiful but powerful, this is a woman's best state. Not all beauties are unlucky, and the strength you have inside will always double your luck.