Smart woman on the wine table

Smart women on the wine table, wine table culture is a unique food culture in China, and now it is also an indispensable social means in the workplace. If girls want to have a good development in the company, it is inevitable to attend some necessary wine tables. How do smart women do it on the wine table?

Smart woman on the wine table 1 1. When a girl joins a liquor store in a company, she must first understand her position.

When most companies organize parties, greasy male leaders are always used to inviting a few girls. Although this is a bad habit in school, girls should also participate. After all, the dinner with the leaders is also an opportunity for them to show themselves. The marketing teams of most companies like to recruit young female college students. It's not that young girls can talk, but that young girls will leave a good impression on customers. Leaders and customers go out to eat, and they are also used to taking female subordinates for performance; On this occasion, girls must learn to protect themselves. The first thing is to declare to the leaders that they will not drink for customers at will, avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and protect themselves to the maximum extent.

Second, girls should attend the dinner, and don't joke with male colleagues.

In order to have a good relationship with colleagues, all kinds of dinners are inevitable. In order to promote the relationship between colleagues as soon as possible, the leaders specially organized departmental colleagues to have dinner; Especially for girls, when attending this kind of dinner, the male colleagues in the company are the most willing to see it, and the dinner with girls will definitely be lively; Male and female colleagues are naturally joking at the same dinner. Sometimes the jokes of male colleagues may be hints or temptations. In short, as long as girls accept jokes from male colleagues, even if they smile on the surface, they will feel uncomfortable. As a girl, we should keep a generous attitude on the wine table and always pay attention to the jokes of male colleagues to protect ourselves.

Third, girls should pay attention to dress appropriately when attending colleagues' dinners.

Maybe some girls, who do administrative work, wear feminine formal clothes at work, or they may wear black short skirts and stockings. This kind of dressing can be done during office hours, but they can't continue to do it after going to dinner. This is disrespectful to colleagues, and it is also disrespectful to yourself. Even heavy makeup will make male colleagues around you take advantage; Everyone should understand that the dinner between colleagues is also a kind of social entertainment. When you decide to go to a dinner party, you must put on the right dress to avoid attracting strange eyes; When girls can calm down and face their colleagues sincerely on the wine table, they will naturally help themselves avoid a lot of trouble.

Smart woman on the wine table 2 As a woman, it is inevitable that there will be entertainment. The biggest headache for white-collar women is eating with customers. If the leader invites you to dinner with wine, he wants to refuse but can't say it. Repeated efforts are bound to make you feel tired. The unit has entertainment, especially when the visitors are mostly men, the leaders will think of the women who pull the unit to "accompany the wine". Two kinds of women are the most vulnerable. One is that they may not be beautiful, but they can definitely drink and overwhelm men. The other is that you may not be able to drink it, but you must be beautiful, so it will be more lively on the wine table, and you won't feel bored if you don't drink well.

If you are unfortunately chosen by the leader to accompany you, how can you refuse without offending the leader? Smart women have to use some tricks to avoid offending or not offending.

Find an excuse to slip away.

Even if the leader invites you for a drink, you have the right to refuse. Work is work, and the time outside 8 hours is your own. Go if you want, or go if you don't want. However, in order not to destroy the relationship with the leader, you can find an excuse to refuse. If you really can't find it, ask your friend to call you urgently and find any reason to bluff.

When you have to drink

For units that have a lot of entertainment, it will always fail to refuse with excuses. If you bite the bullet and drink, you'd better drink less or not at all. Attending the banquet is to give the leader face and show your positive and professional side.

The golden rule of refusing to drink.

If there is no one you trust around, then there is only one principle, and that is not to touch alcohol. If you disrespect anyone, you won't offend anyone. If you feel embarrassed not to drink, you can drink less for the first time and drink 1/5. Then call in sick the next day, drink more next time, call in sick the next day, and then say gastroenteritis, so I can't drink. When the leader asks to accompany the wine, he must not show weakness, and he must push his luck.

See the men around you clearly.

Men like to let other women drink, but they don't want their wives to drink when they are out socializing. Once their wives drink too much, they will be very unhappy and even fly into a rage. So see clearly that a man who really cares about you and loves you is unwilling to let you drink with others. When a man advises you to drink and says a lot of sweet words, you'd better not believe it. Protecting yourself is the most important thing. Women must learn to be smart and ensure that they are not violated.

You can be spoiled, too.

A woman can have sex with her husband in addition to coquetry. In front of the boss, he pouted and said, "boss, what do you think we should do about this?" "Director, am I doing this right?" Soft words like that usually make the boss happy, so it's much more natural to do things by yourself. Even if such a woman doesn't have the ability to work, she still says "Brother Zhang, help me send a document to the suburbs" and "Uncle Li, help me write a material" to her colleagues. This kind of enthusiasm but not out of line coquetry is the nature of doing things in the world.

However, whether it is for male bosses or male colleagues, you must master the discretion when spilling too much: it is easy for others to misunderstand and embarrass each other. Without it, others can't understand warmth and can't achieve the expected purpose. Of course, the ultimate success depends on the quality and taste of the spoiled object.

Smart self-defense

1. Call your family in front of the leader and tell them where the company is going to eat today.

2. Set shortcut keys on your phone. Finally, call your friend and ask him or her to pick you up. Better have a husband to pick it up.

Don't drink in KTV, especially when you come back after going out. You can go out and ask for a drink by yourself. Moreover, in a closed and narrow space, the dark light, the cover-up of sound and the stimulation of alcohol are all easy to make the dark side explode. Therefore, not going is the best policy.

4. Be wary of one kind of people when eating with friends, that is, friends of friends. This is the most accident-prone group when going out.

Smart woman on the wine table 3 How do smart women behave on the wine table?

1, for women who can't drink, don't have the first glass of wine, or they won't want to stop in the future.

2, as a woman, don't get up and take the initiative to persuade wine, this is a big taboo on the wine table.

3, you can't be big because you are a woman, and one person respects everyone.

4, don't drink, but be sure to know the etiquette, and be sure to pour them wine at the right time.

5. Put two large cups in front of the wine table, one with white wine and the other with boiling water, and drink with a small glass. Remember to drink plenty of water! After the leader has been drinking for 7 or 8 minutes, you basically change the bar to water!

6. After drinking a toast with the leader, don't swallow it immediately. Get a chance to suck it away with a tissue. It used to be cleaned directly with sleeves.

7. When leaders communicate, you should eat more vegetables and fat, so that it is not easy to get drunk when drinking.

8. If the leader drinks mixed wine, don't take part, or you will understand the result.

9. When you are almost half drunk, you drink the vinegar in front of you.

10, every time you make a toast, you should fill it up, then pretend that you didn't hold the small glass steady before drinking, and try to spill a little, so that you can drink less every time.