Why do you feel that more and more young people are choosing not to go to work?

This trend is obvious. Our company recruits interns every year. Three years ago, when the internship period was about to end, the interns would inquire whether they could become full-time employees. Now the interns really come here just for internships. , not for work.

Sharing the stories of three young people who do not go to work, we can see the reasons why young people do not go to work.

After my cousin graduated from college, he lived with us. He didn’t have any burden. He only had to support himself. He majored in exhibitions in college and worked in Shunde for 2 months. He found that the duration of the Shunde exhibition was too long. Xiao, after resigning, I came to Shenzhen to find a job.

After coming to Shenzhen, I found this company where I resigned. My cousin talked to the boss and felt that the boss would give him a chance. Moreover, the boss also planned the company’s development well. My cousin felt that he had a good chance. , signed with this company.

So he told me to resign, and I asked him why he wanted to resign.

He told me: "I'm doing pretty well in this company. I've been a supervisor for three months and I get commissions. In some months, the company's sales have exceeded 10,000, but I've received a lot of orders recently. The boss didn’t dare to do it because he was afraid of the high risk and was too courageous. Moreover, he promised me options if the monthly performance exceeded 1 million, but there was no news. I want to change to a company that suits me.”

As a 95. Finally, I was not surprised at all. The working time this time was 7 months, which was much longer than the last 3 months. Then started the next job.

A year later, my cousin finally chose to start his own business. He returned to Foshan, rented an office next to his father's company, and started his own business with an exhibition designer.

For today’s post-95s generation, as long as they find an opportunity, they can get funding from their parents to start their own entrepreneurial career, or find venture capital. They can accept the risk of failure because their families will give them reveal all the details.

This year’s two interns have been very serious and responsible in their work since they arrived. When we wanted them to stay, she told me: “I’m not going to work so early, I’m going to study abroad. , my parents will pay for my tuition, and I am taking the TOEFL exam."

The other one is a junior student. She told me that he plans to complete the courses in his junior year and then go abroad for exchange in his senior year. He came to our company because there are foreigners in our company and he thinks there are opportunities. Practice speaking and learn about foreign cultures.

Today’s students have various opportunities to further their studies or go abroad, exchange abroad, study abroad, and take postgraduate entrance examinations. They are not in a hurry to find a job or make money. Their parents have the capital to send them out. Or now universities have scholarships for them to go out and see the world.

After my cousin was admitted to college, he played games in school and did not want to go to school. He eventually dropped out and returned home. At home, he earned more than 1,000 yuan a month by playing games and selling weapons. For For him, as long as there is a wifi and food to eat every day, it doesn't matter whether he has a future or not, he just wants to grow old at home.

Some young people today grew up under the pampering of their parents. From childhood to adulthood, they were arranged to grow up. Their lives were arranged by their parents, including schooling, tutoring, and what their parents thought. Useful interest classes, college entrance examination application form, parents signed up for it, and then when they got to college, their parents suddenly stopped caring about them, and they suddenly lost the direction of their lives.

After graduating from college, I couldn’t find a good job, or I felt tired and stopped working. Eat old age at home.

In fact, today's young people have more choices. In addition to working, they can continue to study, start a business, work as a freelancer, and finally die. They are much more comfortable than us.

Whether more and more young people are not working, we cannot provide specific statistics for the time being. I can only tell the stories around me based on what I know.

Classmate A, this classmate is my college classmate. After graduating from college, he worked in a company for more than two years. During these two years, he did pretty well. , he also has a good relationship with his colleagues, and he has also made some achievements. When everyone thought he would develop well in that company, he suddenly resigned. He went out and opened a noodle shop by himself, and then started to become a small boss.

When the noodle shop first opened, he asked us to help him distribute flyers. On the opening day, the customer flow was really good. But not long after the noodle shop opened, its business slowly declined. Perhaps because he didn't know much about the market, or because the taste of the noodles he made didn't meet the local tastes, his noodle shop closed after a short time.

The first time he opened a noodle shop, he was deeply hit and he lost tens of thousands of yuan. At that time, many people thought he would give up and come back to work, but he did not stop tossing. He chose another place and started making snacks again. This time, he chose an address in a place with a lot of traffic, and the store area was obviously much smaller than before. Later, through this kind of small business operation, his store slowly improved.

Later he opened another branch, but later he got into a lawsuit with a company. Every time he won the lawsuit, his business gradually became difficult after that incident. It didn't take long for him to The store is closed again.

Now, we don’t know what he is doing, and he rarely posts messages in WeChat Moments.

Ms. B, Ms. B’s child just entered kindergarten this year. She is probably in her early 30s. Since no one in their family takes care of the child, she is responsible for taking care of the child full-time, and then uses the time when the child goes to school. Do something more on your own. She can earn more than 2,000 yuan a month by selling things online for others. The main source of income for their family comes from her husband. Her husband works outside and earns a good income, so she takes care of the children at home full-time. Life was going pretty well.

Classmate C, classmate C used to be an office worker. The company he worked for was pretty good, but after working in the workplace for a few years, he felt that he had no future at work. At the same time, he had also He was tired of going to work, so he wanted to try a way to work.

After comparing, he chose to be a freelancer. The reason why he chose to work as a freelancer is: on the one hand, he does not want to be controlled by others, and freelancing can meet his needs; on the other hand, he also has some abilities, and he can earn a certain amount of income without going to work.

Mr. D used to work in an Internet company. He is very familiar with the development process of the Internet. He has also done many projects. At the same time, he also does some simple design and operation work, so at this time he You can absolutely take on private work at home and do it yourself.

Although sometimes he is lonely and tired from work, he feels that it is better than working in the company. Although the work he is doing now is the same as working in the company, , the feeling of doing it yourself is different. In the past, he was working for others, but now he is working for himself, and his initiative and enthusiasm for work will be higher.

Why do some young people suddenly choose not to go to work?

Some people are very capable and can earn a lot of money every month even if they don’t work. Going to work makes them feel uncomfortable. They have to get up early and wait until late every day and have to squeeze into the subway. They have long since stopped living this kind of life, so they now want to change their way of living.

Many young people do not want to work in a company-like environment. They think that when working in that environment, they have to deal with different people, deal with various relationships, and have to be led by others. and pressure from their bosses, so they just come out to do something on their own.

There is a young man whose family has money, so if they are asked to go to work, they will not work well. They always spend three days fishing and two days drying nets. After working for a period of time, they no longer want to work.

The family saw that they did not work well, so they simply gave them some money to do their own thing. Even so, this approach is not recommended. After all, although you have money, but you have no experience, if you just mess around, sooner or later you will waste all your money.

So the best way is to find an employer first, learn something, and wait until you have accumulated a lot in a certain area before starting a business. This is the safest way.

Some people are lazy and have social phobia. They feel very afraid as soon as they go to work. They don’t want to deal with or communicate with others, so in this case , they will choose to grow old at home. Although they themselves are very anxious and uncomfortable being told by others, they just can't take the first step. At the same time, their parents have been indulging them. In the end, under the stimulation of this combination, they can only They have been staying at home until one day they can no longer stay at home, and they will be forced to go out and continue to look for work.

Due to the not very good environment in recent years, many young people were suddenly laid off from their companies, or failed to find a suitable job for a long time after resigning. In the end, they could only stay at home temporarily. Sit back, do something else, or learn something, and wait until they find a good opportunity before going out to work again.

There are also some young people who feel that they have to travel so far to work every day and earn very little. The most important thing is that they have no freedom in work, so they have the idea of ??starting a business.

When starting a business now, their capital is that they are very young, and they can work hard for a while, but the probability of failure in starting a business is very high, so in this case, although there are many young people who can pursue a temporary stimulation, but if this continues, it is not the safest for their long-term development.

When some people have more choices, they can choose not to go to work. For example: some people have several houses, and they can live very well by collecting rent; some people have investment income, and this income is much better than that of ordinary office workers. So when there are more choices, they stop going to work.

Thank you for the invitation:

In fact, it’s not that young people don’t want to go to work. Take myself for example, I am over 50 years old, but I still want to go to work.

Not only do I need to go to work because I am short of money, but also because there are so many benefits to going to work rather than being at home. Guan Jian also finds it very difficult to find a good leader and a good factory. Let me talk about my experience of working in a factory.

Zhejiang Supor is a big factory. Since it is a good factory, I can just work hard. But in fact, the wages for working hard may not be high, and the wages for being lazy and slippery may not be low. Every Friday at noon, a piece of fruit is distributed. The big ones are reserved for cadres, and the delicious dishes are always reserved for cadres. If you work hard and want to have a meal, you may not have time to eat even if you starve to death. If you look for fairness and justice in the factory, you will never find it.

Now I go back to my hometown to help with the express delivery of hats and bags at a private Taobao store in this city. I agreed to do it on January 3, but then the boss said that I would pay ten yuan an hour. Ten yuan is ten yuan. I will pay it every day. They replace those fake goods with famous brands, package them and post them for express delivery, and it’s a tiring job. As long as you work hard, they don’t mention the salary. After a long time, you can’t hold back and want the salary. If you want the salary, the boss will get angry and yell. Good business. It's nice to say that after a lot of more than 200 hours, I was only given 180 hours, and the salary of 2,000 yuan was only 1,080 yuan, and I was still asked to continue working. There were six people in our community who wanted to keep me. The boss is a good talker, and he wants people who can work for him, and he also wants people who don’t have to pay wages. If you say that, even a fifty-year-old boss like me doesn’t want to continue working, let alone young people. Can young people do it?

Ten yuan an hour, eight and a half hours a day, but it actually said I would do it for four hours, and it wanted to do it for as many hours as they said. If you wanted it to be angry, I said no, whatever. If you give it, it immediately laughed and said that it never blindly asks for wages, and asked me to help it find a few people younger than me to work. Everyone said whether it can still attend the current class

With our parents Compared with a generation ago, it can be said that the way people work now has undergone earth-shaking changes. All of this stems from the development of the Internet. A seemingly insignificant network cable has made many jobs mobile.

1. My high school classmate who started an e-commerce business

My high school classmate was a very small girl, but she worked very hard. She opened a Taobao store when she was in college and accumulated a lot of money. Got some experience. After graduating from college, she did not go out to find a job like others, but directly chose to start an e-commerce business.

She is a very self-disciplined person with strong learning ability. In the first three years, she worked overtime until one or two o'clock every day. She did operations, planning, and customer service. She taught herself many things. She worked more than ten or twenty hours a day, all year round, which cannot be said. It wasn't hard, but she persevered.

Now, she has not only bought a house in Nanjing, opened her own company, rented an office building, her household registration has also been successfully settled in Nanjing, and her assets have already exceeded one million.

In addition, in order to improve her management skills and run the company better in the future, she applied for the MBA exam at Renmin University. Some time ago, she excitedly told me that she had passed the exam and had left part of the work to her younger brother, while she herself was about to start studying and improving systematically. Really happy for her.

Although my classmate has not gone to work since graduation, she has contributed more to her career than most of her peers.

Therefore, if you also want to start your own business, you must first ask yourself, can you bear the hardship? In addition, do you have a strong ability and willingness to learn without supervision?

2. Freelancers with certain specialties

For example, a handicraft friend of mine is very good at making various handicrafts. She turned out to be an art teacher because she loves to make Handicraft, in the past two years, she quit her stable job and started making bags and cheongsams. Perhaps because of her art studies, she has a particularly good aesthetic taste. The things she makes are exquisite and unique. Every time she posts on WeChat Moments, she Sold out.

Now, she has become a well-known local handicraft celebrity. Not only does she have her own brand store in the mall, but she also often receives interview invitations from the media. Handicrafts have become a career in which she can settle down and make a living.

For today’s young people, there are many opportunities in this era. Although some people always say that class consolidation is getting more and more serious, what I see is that many ordinary people are relying on themselves. Efforts to change destiny. They don’t have rich parents, and they didn’t graduate from 211 or 985, but this doesn’t stop them from becoming better people.

Therefore, young people, while you are still young, work hard to learn some skills. The future is always in your own hands.

Writer Spenser said it well:

When the relationship between an individual and an organization becomes no longer highly dependent, when a person You can live as a company and complete the shortest connection to the world;

And wages, as a transaction carrier between individuals and organizations, appear to be increasingly outdated in this Internet era, because——the employment system will withdraw Stage, partnership will become mainstream.

Let me tell you the story of my two friends. Both of them quit their jobs that many people envied and longed for, and lived a free and fulfilling life through the Internet.

I am her reader. I went to Qinghai with her in July 2018. She was a university teacher. She quit her job as a university teacher in 2017 and returned to her hometown, the ancient town of Pushi, to open an Internet line. I took a teaching course and earned more than 500,000 yuan a year. Now I have opened a B&B in an ancient town and published 4 books. Through my own abilities and the general trend of the Internet wave, I have lived a free and abundant life.

She was also the girl we went to Qinghai to travel and shoot with. I didn’t know her at first, but later I found out that she came to the big city from a small city to do planning work with 5,000 yuan, and she still insisted on painting after work. Illustration, I connected some commercial illustrations and opened illustration courses, earning 50,00 per month, I chose to quit my job, and now I am also a freelancer.

Don’t go to work. In the Internet age, as long as you have the ability, you can live a life without looking at the boss’s face. Every minute and every second is living for yourself and doing valuable things. , why not do it?

I think I am the luckiest and the best. When I was a child, I had endless classes and a lot of money. Even if I saved money, I was still short of money. Then I stopped working. I felt that if I continued like this, I would be finished. I borrowed 200,000 from my mother and promised that if the investment failed, I would be a fool and pay back the money.

Fortunately, I used 200,000 to enter the stock market and made 100,000. Then I used 30 to completely invest in a house. Then I spent 2 years on a rent-to-support loan. I sold the house to pay off the loan and got my hands on it. It cost 500,000 yuan, and then I bought another house before the house price rose. It is now worth about 1 million yuan. I plan to sell it in a few years and let the bank earn interest, which is probably 20,000 a year.

More and more young people are not working. Why? There are many different people, but I will only talk about why the second son Gao Qifeng did not go to work.

I have been a teacher for 23 years. When my eldest son Gao Qilong was in college, my second son Gao Qifeng asked me many times, "Dad, after graduating from the third grade of junior high school, I will not study in high school. You are too tired..." ", not only did I not agree to my son's request, but I also "teached" him a lesson...

One Sunday, my uncle, who was the director of the county's foreign trade department, called me and asked me to go to the county seat... The uncle told me I criticized a lot! He mentioned a few points to me: First, my son is a good and filial boy! Second, I have been arranged to work in the county linen spinning factory. Third, young people have their own choices. They should look at problems and adapt to the development of the times. Some suggestions from the elderly are normal, but they cannot be paternalistic.

The second son, Gao Qifeng, worked very well in a hemp spinning factory. He saved the money he earned and gave it to his mother...

A year later, my son said he would stop working. I was very angry... ... Regarding the matter of not going to work, after a heated discussion, three generations of our grandparents finally respected the child's choice. He and his second uncle Gao Zhendong went to Shenyang to engage in the construction industry...

My son did not go to work and was self-employed for more than ten years. How about the year?

First, seven new tile-roofed houses were renovated for the elderly at a cost of about 150,000, without allowing the elderly to get a penny.

Secondly, my son and daughter-in-law work in the north to make money in the spring, summer and autumn, and in Hainan Island in the winter...

Thirdly, last year my son and daughter-in-law spent millions to buy a house in the center of Shenyang Tiexi District. Renovation completed. My grandson is doing a professional internship after graduating from junior college...

To sum up, it was right for my son to not go to work and start his own career.

This phenomenon does exist! I’m not going to talk about Japan’s low-desire society, or the fact that the second generation of rich people have so much to eat and so much to spend, I’m just going to talk about my eldest son! I am twenty years old and have never worked for a day during the winter and summer vacations. We say you don’t want to make money and gain experience, but it is better to learn to deal with various people. The young master seems to have done a work-study program. He said that it is too risky to get a job, and the salary is not enough for the fare. Drink water. For those who eat, they don’t go out during the winter and summer vacations. They stay at home, sleep, and play games. They say this is the cheapest way of life! I'm convinced, and I'll be fine if I go to school in two days. At least I'm out of sight and out of mind. Not to mention the fact that some families have a good family environment, and the income they earn from part-time work is not as much as what their father gives them. How can they be motivated to do anything? Of course, this is all about young people who have no skills and no pressure in life. Young people who are really skilled and motivated and want to buy a house and marry a wife are another matter. They work overtime and work hard and don't pay attention to their health!

I couldn’t get any money, so I had no choice but to come out to work. I used to work as a customer service officer for a TV shopping company. I worked eight hours a day and had to work overtime for half an hour. I kept making and answering phone calls, and I was almost exhausted.

4,000 is enough for a month, and more than 400 are deducted for five insurances and one housing fund. What is this? There is still some shitty time to study and recharge. When I got home, I was told that you were tired of making a phone call. There was nothing I could say. No matter what, just run away after the New Year, find a relaxing time outside, and learn something quickly by the way. You don’t expect anyone to understand, you just need to be worthy of yourself.

Indeed.

When I first came to our company for the first few months, it happened to be the summer graduation season, so I would come as an intern every day. I would stay for two days and then leave, and some worked for a week. , half a month old also left, many of them can’t hold on.

There are many children nowadays who insist on doing something for a few days and then give up when they feel that it is not working. They feel that they are being scolded and trained every day and give up before they can learn. As a result, they end up falling down all year round. I’ve had countless jobs, and I haven’t learned anything. I’m still very tired, and I haven’t earned any money.

Give these confused children a warning!

Just be persistent and learn first. It’s normal to be scolded at the beginning, really normal. Being scolded and cried every day was my daily routine in my first job...